slamo
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Registered: Dec 21, 2011 12:22:05 GMT -5
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Feb 23, 2012 22:06:06 GMT -5
Post by slamo on Feb 23, 2012 22:06:06 GMT -5
K so this one is for my buddy who got cheated on and I really wanna give him some advice but I've never been cheated on so i don't really know where to start.
The situation is... his girlfriend went to a party and was really drunk (I was at the party, I can vouch for that) and hooked up with another player type guy.
She told my buddy the very next day and he's such a nice guy he told her he was disappointed but he forgave her. The thing is she didn't tell him that she gave the guy head... which i feel like is a pretty important detail.
My friend still really likes her and I know she's a good girl who made a stupid mistake. Problem is... Im one of the few ppl that knows she gave him head... she's my friend too tho, do I tell him? How do I play this? and also how should my friend play this, as far as how he acts towards her moving forward?
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infamous93
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Registered: Mar 15, 2011 17:29:22 GMT -5
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Feb 23, 2012 23:27:48 GMT -5
Post by infamous93 on Feb 23, 2012 23:27:48 GMT -5
Tell him, he desearves to know exactly what happened.
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Feb 24, 2012 0:36:38 GMT -5
Post by canadiankid on Feb 24, 2012 0:36:38 GMT -5
So by "hooked up" your referring to making out? Since that makes sense in this context rather than sex, tell him. If sex, not worth it
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slamo
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Registered: Dec 21, 2011 12:22:05 GMT -5
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Feb 24, 2012 2:27:33 GMT -5
Post by slamo on Feb 24, 2012 2:27:33 GMT -5
no sorry wasn't clear.. she blew this other guy
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Feb 24, 2012 13:43:07 GMT -5
Post by canadiankid on Feb 24, 2012 13:43:07 GMT -5
but what does your friend think happened. the ambiguity is in what your friend was told, not what you know happened
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infamous93
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Feb 24, 2012 19:27:48 GMT -5
Post by infamous93 on Feb 24, 2012 19:27:48 GMT -5
His friend just thinks that she made out with this other guy
Just tell him dude, as I said he deserves to know.
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Feb 24, 2012 21:21:32 GMT -5
Post by canadiankid on Feb 24, 2012 21:21:32 GMT -5
Definitely tell him.
I hate the double meaning of "hooking up". To some its making out, to others it means sex.
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Nick
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Feb 25, 2012 2:25:40 GMT -5
Post by Nick on Feb 25, 2012 2:25:40 GMT -5
Wait one sec... do you KNOW that she gave him head? Did she admit that to you or is that just what the guy told you? You gotta be careful with this if you're even slightly doubtful that she actually did.
BUT if you do KNOW, then you should probably tell him. Either that or pressure her into telling him. Either way, you are his bro. Bros stick together. You make fucking sure he finds out.
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Feb 25, 2012 15:37:59 GMT -5
Post by Contempt on Feb 25, 2012 15:37:59 GMT -5
^ yeah sometimes dudes lie if the guy told you.
But definitely tell him either way even if its a "this guy said [your friend's girlfriend] gave him head"
You gotta back your bros up. Dont let him get played.
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