Girl is confusing me.

[daster714]

I'm a freshman right now and i've been good friends with this girl since the beginning of the year we hangout with a lot of the same friends together and are pretty close. Over the past few weeks we starting liking eachother a bit and flirting etc, i talked to her on facebook about a relationship and she said she didnt want one until sophmore year but she thought it sounded fun. We still kinda flirt but idk she confuses me, any advice on succeding with her would be nice, i dont think im in the friend zone cuz i asked her if she wanted to hookup and she said she would have to think about it.

[canadiankid]

Don't talk about that shit over text or FB. Do it in person, or not at all til you've gotten a little more physical. Just make out and shit then progress

[amarok]

Like Canadian said, just do stuff. You're being WAY too cautious about this kinda thing. No girl that I know likes the awkward talk about if they want a relationship with me or if they want to hookup, especially as early as you seem to be. If you really want to know, make a joke about it in response to something.

"You're a jerk!"
"Say whatever you want, the makeup sex will just be better anyway "

In person of course. This kind of thing does 3 things for you. It lets you sexual and confident with her, lets you lead her into thinking sexually about you, and lets you see her reaction to being sexual with you.

[daster714]

Okay but have i already fucked it up cuz she seems less interested lately, still interested but less.

[amarok]

Act like you would had that not happened and get on with things. Unless you did something absolutely retarded like spike her drink, there's not a lot of "one-time events" that can make or break you. You're over-analyzing it a bit. Just relax and talk to her like normal. And be playful. The more playful you are, the easier it is to slip more and more into playing sexually. Just put in those sexual undertones to things after you create a good amount of attraction. Until she's comfortable with it, you know?

[canadiankid]

Chill the fuck out and take action. No one wants to hear you bitch, we all fuck up sometimes. In this case you made a VERY minor mistake, act like nothing happened and keep talking to her normally but get her to hang out. SHE CAN'T SUCK YOUR DICK OVER FACEBOOK. Move on, take some action, don't dwell on small mistakes.

There was this one girl, I actually really liked her and we had good chemistry. The second time we hung out I tried to fuck her but she was having none of it past making out. I got discouraged, I dwelled on it, I asked 3 or 4 people for advice. I lost the girl. We are talking again now and she told me that she STILL LIKED ME, even after that. Your doing the same thing, stop thinking so much.

[Sloth]

if you ask a girl if she wants to hook up/ be with you, msot girls will say no/ i dont know/ maybe. I dont think a girl will ever just say yes unless they're that desperate. Be a man and GIVE her what she wants, don't wait for her to take it.

[slamo]

Feb 24, 2012 14:55:48 GMT -5 canadiankid said:

SHE CAN'T SUCK YOUR DICK OVER FACEBOOK.

hahahahah funniest quote I've heard in awhile