Friendzone ---> Relationship

[iamwonton]

So basically, I really want to get in a relationship with this girl, who I've friendzoned for two years almost. We've had periodic stints where we don't talk to each otehr, not because we're mad, but just busy. I was gonna ask her to prom last night, as a step to escalating my relationship with her, but she's gonna be outta town, so i decided to hold my feelings for her some more. She's not a partier, she's more like the type of girl that just does pg 13 stuff, but she's made out with her bf before.



What are some things that I can do to get in a relationship with her?

[canadiankid]

haha I'm doing the exact (well very similar thing). Pretty much if it was you who friend zoned her you just keep being flirty but hold her gaze a little longer, talk to her more, go out for coffee more often, and then do something date like. For example I am cooking with this girl on Wednesday cause its something we both like to do. She was like "and we are drinking wine" so its on pretty much. She is still a virgin so this should be interesting for me

[tp5k]

Reciprocate IOIs when you're with her- let her know your intentions nonverbally. Since she's a girl, she'll know. And canadiankid, you're like, almost gaurenteed some, if you know what I mean.

[iamwonton]

Woah, invited to cook together? I can cook bro. Didn't know chicks dig that. tp5k, you what kinda IOI's can guys show?

[canadiankid]

Women love a man who can cook. I like doing it together as opposed to me cooking for her or her cooking for me. It is more fun for both of us and neither of us is being the others bitch

[iamwonton]

Hmmm, that's an innovative date idea. Let me know how it goes....

Also, would calling or texting be favorable in this situation? she's a shitty texter, but occasionally responds.What are some good ways I can engage her in class, in a romantic fashion, without being awkward. My only class with her is around her best friend, and she brought along her best friend on the one day we went out to lunch during school.I don't drive, she does btw, that's the worst part. Not driving definately kills my confidence around her, because it makes me feel like the bitch

[tp5k]

Not showing, but reciprocating. Let her know your intentions. Hold eye contact, escalate kino, the works.

[iamwonton]

I intend to form a relationship with her. That's my goal right now. I can do it, but it requires steps.

Pretty much you're saying, follow up to all of her IoIs, and that'll engage her enough?

[canadiankid]

dude your over thinking. I can actually see exactly what your thinking though, I was in the same spot through my progression. Although one of the main things PU hammered down your throat is to be sexual and the like, you don't need to be 100% of the time. You can just chill with her and her friend and it will be good with out being alone or overtly sexual. You are still you and because of that you are still fun, funny, chill, etc. This will make people like you. You become the pick-up creep not only when you are using incongruent material but also when you are always trying for girls. Yes it is important to make your moves, but don't always be trying to get in a girls pants. Enjoy spending time with her and her friend. HAVE FUN.

So be normal and chill with her, but after you've gone on a "date" make a move and kiss her. Take it slow, who cares how fast you get laid. Just show your intent.

[iamwonton]

That makes alot of sense. I was just kinda worried about technicalities. but That makes sense. take it smoothe

[tp5k]

It's okay. If you don't know how to cook, this video is great.

[iamwonton]

I've been master chef level 100 for a few months now

[JUMB0z]

dude this is basic game
she's been in the friendzone for 2 years so you gotta get the attraction back and make her think of you sexually

but most important for you is to remember where your balls are and lead the girl where you want to go

good luck