Post by alex77 on Mar 6, 2012 2:29:06 GMT -5
So I've been talking to this one girl for a little while now and I'm in a pretty shitty situation. She's really shy and pretty awkward but is really into me. Shes pretty but I'd say shes only a 6 and the combination of that and her awkwardness made me basically reject her at first (this was way back in November). Just to get a sense how into me she is, I started hitting her up in January and she was still into me after I had told her it want happening and ignored all her texts and shit. We've been talking since then and hanging out on the weekends. Shes really inexperienced and I was her first kiss and everything and shes kind of immature, although shes gone through some personal and medical shit I don't feel like posting here that basically accounts for it.
The other day I had her over when my parents were out doing whatever. I thought for sure I had dropped enough hints that I wanted to fuck and she was hitting me back with winky faces and shit like she was down. When she came over I took her up to my room and we were making out sitting on the bed, but she didnt want to lay down so I just took her for a walk around the neighborhood and made an excuse to get her out of there. While we were walking shit asked me if I liked her, and it occurred to me that I basically don't. I don't have a good time hanging out with her because shes so damn awkward and weird, but at the same time she's really nice and shit and I feel bad for her because of the medical issues shes gone through. After that night she sent me an (awkward ass) text talking about how she wasn't ready or w/e and I basically said that it was fine. Shes still hitting me up though and I don't know what to do. Do I stick it out, keep hooking up with her and keep trying to get it in? Or do I just cut my losses at this point? My social life has kind of gone to shit in the past couple months because I've been really busy working, so I don't have any other girls I'm going for at the moment. At the same time I know I can do better and I have, but I don't even know who I would try for. Regardless though as shitty as it sounds I think I'm going to keep her around in case I need someone to go to prom with, but I've never really friendzoned a girl and actually kept it friendly, so advice on that would be appreciated.
The other day I had her over when my parents were out doing whatever. I thought for sure I had dropped enough hints that I wanted to fuck and she was hitting me back with winky faces and shit like she was down. When she came over I took her up to my room and we were making out sitting on the bed, but she didnt want to lay down so I just took her for a walk around the neighborhood and made an excuse to get her out of there. While we were walking shit asked me if I liked her, and it occurred to me that I basically don't. I don't have a good time hanging out with her because shes so damn awkward and weird, but at the same time she's really nice and shit and I feel bad for her because of the medical issues shes gone through. After that night she sent me an (awkward ass) text talking about how she wasn't ready or w/e and I basically said that it was fine. Shes still hitting me up though and I don't know what to do. Do I stick it out, keep hooking up with her and keep trying to get it in? Or do I just cut my losses at this point? My social life has kind of gone to shit in the past couple months because I've been really busy working, so I don't have any other girls I'm going for at the moment. At the same time I know I can do better and I have, but I don't even know who I would try for. Regardless though as shitty as it sounds I think I'm going to keep her around in case I need someone to go to prom with, but I've never really friendzoned a girl and actually kept it friendly, so advice on that would be appreciated.
