Post by Rusty on Dec 3, 2008 23:13:44 GMT -5
Hotdemon asked me about maintaining state and I PM'd him back. We decided we liked the reply so we're chucking it up here =D!
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well i needed help from you
how to get urself in a high energy state at school
you know like talking and everything
because at times i find myself in a very poor state like i become a total introvert but other times i could be very confident ,funny,talkative ,cool
is it possible to keep one self in the "
good" state all the time?
Reply
The key to being in state isn't on the outside man. You can't rely on outside things to get you in state, because then outside things can bump you of state as well. It's easier, but it's not very permanent. The key is an inside change. Look at you personality like a pie graph. Each of the segments on the pie graph are of equal size and are just as easy to access as the other. The trouble though, is that if you keep accessing only certain segments (like being quiet) then you'll be used to using that bit of your personality. It will feel a bit weird to use the others. It's just as easy though. The difficulty you feel will be your brain telling you how weird it is to be using that bit, it's easier to just stick to the crap your already using. Well it's not, because each part of your personality is as easy to access as the other. It just takes a little exploring, which most brains hate anyway. So just explore, use the confident and sexual segment for awhile. The key to being confident and sexual all the time (because confident and sexual people are mostly confident and sexual even when they feel like asses) is not to get in that 'state' (because states fade) but to make that a part of your personality. Make that segment of your personality the default segment you access. This requires some core changes in your attitude. You need to change the way you look at the world. Don't look at yourself as confidence. Know that that segment of your personality exists and focus on spreading it around you. That way you just ooze with it. Same with being sexual. Spread it around, know that women want you. You'll just ooze with it. Don't worry about your state, there's no way you can maintain it for 6 hours at school. Just focus on using your core confident masculine self instead of that introverted bit. Have faith in yourself and see the world with confidence. Hope I was clear =)! Feel free to PM back any questions.
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well i needed help from you
how to get urself in a high energy state at school
you know like talking and everything
because at times i find myself in a very poor state like i become a total introvert but other times i could be very confident ,funny,talkative ,cool
is it possible to keep one self in the "
good" state all the time?
Reply
The key to being in state isn't on the outside man. You can't rely on outside things to get you in state, because then outside things can bump you of state as well. It's easier, but it's not very permanent. The key is an inside change. Look at you personality like a pie graph. Each of the segments on the pie graph are of equal size and are just as easy to access as the other. The trouble though, is that if you keep accessing only certain segments (like being quiet) then you'll be used to using that bit of your personality. It will feel a bit weird to use the others. It's just as easy though. The difficulty you feel will be your brain telling you how weird it is to be using that bit, it's easier to just stick to the crap your already using. Well it's not, because each part of your personality is as easy to access as the other. It just takes a little exploring, which most brains hate anyway. So just explore, use the confident and sexual segment for awhile. The key to being confident and sexual all the time (because confident and sexual people are mostly confident and sexual even when they feel like asses) is not to get in that 'state' (because states fade) but to make that a part of your personality. Make that segment of your personality the default segment you access. This requires some core changes in your attitude. You need to change the way you look at the world. Don't look at yourself as confidence. Know that that segment of your personality exists and focus on spreading it around you. That way you just ooze with it. Same with being sexual. Spread it around, know that women want you. You'll just ooze with it. Don't worry about your state, there's no way you can maintain it for 6 hours at school. Just focus on using your core confident masculine self instead of that introverted bit. Have faith in yourself and see the world with confidence. Hope I was clear =)! Feel free to PM back any questions.
