Post by Andrew on Jul 5, 2011 18:24:39 GMT -5
So I hate to be quoting myself, but...
"You are programmed to hunt and kill and run and jump and fuck as many women as possible. You aren't MEANT to sit behind a computer and look up how to do shit. You are meant to figure the fuck out how to do it. There isn't meant to be an easy way out.
So stop looking for the easy way out. There are no shortcuts. There are no secret tricks. You know what you want in life and you fucking obliterate anything that gets in your way. Everything you pick up, everything you start, you fucking work on that until it is as PERFECT as you can make it. And then you know that you're a man because you didn't half ass that shit. You picked it up and you made it your own. Because that's what we do. That's why God gave us the ability to pee in the snow. So we could leave our goddamn mark on this Earth."
(As I said, I hate to be quoting myself, but that's a piece from something I just wrote that you can find here (I always like when people read my articles ):
How To Be A Goddamn Man
highschoolpuas.proboards.com/index.cgi?board=amog&action=display&thread=5313&page=1")
I just wanted to say something to anyone whose just now getting into this. If you've been here awhile, or been in the game awhile and don't feel like you need this then just pass it by.
It's easy to get sucked in here, guys. It's easy to read every article and read everything by everyone. It's easy to spend your evenings on live chat bullshitting with people here. It's easy to post super specific problems as questions and have them answered for you within the night.
You know what's not easy?
Doing the goddamn work to make yourself better. Putting in the hours and facing your fears to accomplish what you want to accomplish, whatever those may be.
Maybe you want to pull a girl at a club every night of the week. Maybe you want to be able to pick up girls at a book store whenever you want. Maybe you want to do your own thing and just be better and more confident around women.
What stays constant no matter what your goal is, is that it's gonna take work.
Don't come into this thinking that you're going to be able to read a bunch of articles, have your questions answered, and suddenly you're pulling babes left and right. Ya gotta work at it. Anyone whose been in your shoes here with any success will tell you that.
(Side note: if any of you guys aren't bar or club guys, and KNOW you aren't bar and club guys because you've been to a bunch and STILL don't like them, don't force yourself into doing that shit if you know you are gonna hate it. Getting better will be painful and you will hate every second of it. Trust me. It's just not some guys' scene, and that's okay)
So here's what I want you to walk away with. There are no shortcuts, and you WILL need to work at it. Don't get wrapped up in reading shit if you aren't going to put in the hours to get yourself better.
You don't have to be the best, but you better DAMN SURE be the best you that you can.
Good luck!
-Andrew
"You are programmed to hunt and kill and run and jump and fuck as many women as possible. You aren't MEANT to sit behind a computer and look up how to do shit. You are meant to figure the fuck out how to do it. There isn't meant to be an easy way out.
So stop looking for the easy way out. There are no shortcuts. There are no secret tricks. You know what you want in life and you fucking obliterate anything that gets in your way. Everything you pick up, everything you start, you fucking work on that until it is as PERFECT as you can make it. And then you know that you're a man because you didn't half ass that shit. You picked it up and you made it your own. Because that's what we do. That's why God gave us the ability to pee in the snow. So we could leave our goddamn mark on this Earth."
(As I said, I hate to be quoting myself, but that's a piece from something I just wrote that you can find here (I always like when people read my articles ):
How To Be A Goddamn Man
highschoolpuas.proboards.com/index.cgi?board=amog&action=display&thread=5313&page=1")
I just wanted to say something to anyone whose just now getting into this. If you've been here awhile, or been in the game awhile and don't feel like you need this then just pass it by.
It's easy to get sucked in here, guys. It's easy to read every article and read everything by everyone. It's easy to spend your evenings on live chat bullshitting with people here. It's easy to post super specific problems as questions and have them answered for you within the night.
You know what's not easy?
Doing the goddamn work to make yourself better. Putting in the hours and facing your fears to accomplish what you want to accomplish, whatever those may be.
Maybe you want to pull a girl at a club every night of the week. Maybe you want to be able to pick up girls at a book store whenever you want. Maybe you want to do your own thing and just be better and more confident around women.
What stays constant no matter what your goal is, is that it's gonna take work.
Don't come into this thinking that you're going to be able to read a bunch of articles, have your questions answered, and suddenly you're pulling babes left and right. Ya gotta work at it. Anyone whose been in your shoes here with any success will tell you that.
(Side note: if any of you guys aren't bar or club guys, and KNOW you aren't bar and club guys because you've been to a bunch and STILL don't like them, don't force yourself into doing that shit if you know you are gonna hate it. Getting better will be painful and you will hate every second of it. Trust me. It's just not some guys' scene, and that's okay)
So here's what I want you to walk away with. There are no shortcuts, and you WILL need to work at it. Don't get wrapped up in reading shit if you aren't going to put in the hours to get yourself better.
You don't have to be the best, but you better DAMN SURE be the best you that you can.
Good luck!
-Andrew