Post by Contempt on Jan 6, 2011 14:03:51 GMT -5
Time, and time again I see newcomers to the community asking the same question:
"Where do i start?"
I'm pretty sure i made a post with that as the title back when i joined this community in... whenever. I know, no one seems to be able to answer that question the way you want. Many people reply read this ebook, read that ebook, go out in field and fail, if you dont you will succeed, etc. But it all seems like to big of jumps, to big of steps to take from where you standing. It doesn't seem like any of that seems "right" for where your going to start.
Well you know what? There is no designated path. No specific place you have to start. Theres no right of passage to starting your PUA journey. The truth is, you've already begun. Your journey began when you opened this website and discovered this forum of people like yourself. "Where should i go from where i am now?" is what you should be asking. And guess what, theres no answer. None of what people say may feel right, hell, this post and what i suggest may not feel right, but you know what? Do it. And sooner or later you'll find where YOU need to start. You just need to grow some balls, for the first time in your life, and do something about your life OUTSIDE OF YOUR HEAD.
Most AFC's who come to this forum are too much "in their head". They over analyze every detail of every interaction they have with women. They think about what they should do, and don't do it. You need to break the cycle and do instead of think. Thats what should be your goal.
Anyways, back to where to go. Go anywhere, go to a mall, talk to women at school, try to seduce women while pretending to be a crippled mute lmao, it doesn't matter. The only important thing about where to go from here, is that your not sitting on your computer or in your room thinking about girls, and that your out, actually having interactions with them. Get experience. Unless you've actually had experience and been out DOING SOMETHING, i don't want to see any posts from you saying that you don't know what to do or where to go. Because now i've told you. What you should do is go get some girls, and where your going is in their pants.
Also, read CYC (Conquer Your Campus) no matter what! I don't care if you've memorized the entire book about the mystery method, which i haven't read, by the way, and i'm still doing fine, read it! This book teaches you about highschool and college game, other books do not. In fact, i personally consider the mystery method to be the ultimate guide on how to creep out women in highschool. (Yes, i am hatin' on the mystery method without even having read it
) CYC will definitly give you an insight into what you should be doing so you dont end up out in a mall dressed like a duck hitting an old women talking about how to butter toast. Which actually could be, if you use it correctly, an amazing way to meet some sexy women. Everyone knows that women go crazy for ducks.
Feel free to be hatin' n trollin'.
Also, read this article: highschoolpuas.proboards.com/index.cgi?board=staffonlypage&action=display&thread=4175
-Contempt
P.S. I know i got a little off topic at some points during this post, but whatever, i have a hangover.
"Where do i start?"
I'm pretty sure i made a post with that as the title back when i joined this community in... whenever. I know, no one seems to be able to answer that question the way you want. Many people reply read this ebook, read that ebook, go out in field and fail, if you dont you will succeed, etc. But it all seems like to big of jumps, to big of steps to take from where you standing. It doesn't seem like any of that seems "right" for where your going to start.
Well you know what? There is no designated path. No specific place you have to start. Theres no right of passage to starting your PUA journey. The truth is, you've already begun. Your journey began when you opened this website and discovered this forum of people like yourself. "Where should i go from where i am now?" is what you should be asking. And guess what, theres no answer. None of what people say may feel right, hell, this post and what i suggest may not feel right, but you know what? Do it. And sooner or later you'll find where YOU need to start. You just need to grow some balls, for the first time in your life, and do something about your life OUTSIDE OF YOUR HEAD.
Most AFC's who come to this forum are too much "in their head". They over analyze every detail of every interaction they have with women. They think about what they should do, and don't do it. You need to break the cycle and do instead of think. Thats what should be your goal.
Anyways, back to where to go. Go anywhere, go to a mall, talk to women at school, try to seduce women while pretending to be a crippled mute lmao, it doesn't matter. The only important thing about where to go from here, is that your not sitting on your computer or in your room thinking about girls, and that your out, actually having interactions with them. Get experience. Unless you've actually had experience and been out DOING SOMETHING, i don't want to see any posts from you saying that you don't know what to do or where to go. Because now i've told you. What you should do is go get some girls, and where your going is in their pants.
Also, read CYC (Conquer Your Campus) no matter what! I don't care if you've memorized the entire book about the mystery method, which i haven't read, by the way, and i'm still doing fine, read it! This book teaches you about highschool and college game, other books do not. In fact, i personally consider the mystery method to be the ultimate guide on how to creep out women in highschool. (Yes, i am hatin' on the mystery method without even having read it
) CYC will definitly give you an insight into what you should be doing so you dont end up out in a mall dressed like a duck hitting an old women talking about how to butter toast. Which actually could be, if you use it correctly, an amazing way to meet some sexy women. Everyone knows that women go crazy for ducks.Feel free to be hatin' n trollin'.
Also, read this article: highschoolpuas.proboards.com/index.cgi?board=staffonlypage&action=display&thread=4175
-Contempt
P.S. I know i got a little off topic at some points during this post, but whatever, i have a hangover.
