Post by Andrew on Oct 2, 2008 21:57:31 GMT -5
When a woman meets a guy and decides to go on a date with a guy or basically hang out with a guy, their whole mentality on the matter is this:
"I find you interesting, your a pretty cool person, maybe even cute. Lets hang out a bit and see where it goes from there"
If a guy finds himself in this position, on a date with a beautiful woman, he may be thinking a little bit heavier:
"Your so hot. Im already really into you. How can I win you over so youll be my next girlfriend?"
As you can see from the two responses, this creates a LOT of tension, and not the sexual kind. The kind of tension that makes a guy shake and be nervous and uncomfortable, bringing that to the woman.
What you have to do is reverse the roles. Make her chase you. And you can do that by pushing her away. Not by not talking, not by being a dick, but by being Cocky and Funny you can make it so shes the one whose qualifying herself to you.
Keep in mind this frame when talking to a woman your interested in.
"You are constantly messing up your chances of being with me."
Lets say you just got some ice cream or your walking around the mall. and She trips and almost falls. You shake your head in a dramatic way, maybe look embarassed and say "damn i can NOT be seen in public with you." or "This relationship is never going to work." that line is my favorite favorite favorite.
What this communicates to the girl is "that im SO comfortable around you, and it will take a lot more than your hot looks to impress me or make me nervous." Girls can pick up on this sort of thing. If your sending the exact opposite message about "potential girlfriend or mate" shes going to find you a lot more interesting and be more comfortable around you.
However, its never a good idea to go overboard with cocky funny. Sprinkle it into good, funny conversation and youll be golden.
-Andrew
"I find you interesting, your a pretty cool person, maybe even cute. Lets hang out a bit and see where it goes from there"
If a guy finds himself in this position, on a date with a beautiful woman, he may be thinking a little bit heavier:
"Your so hot. Im already really into you. How can I win you over so youll be my next girlfriend?"
As you can see from the two responses, this creates a LOT of tension, and not the sexual kind. The kind of tension that makes a guy shake and be nervous and uncomfortable, bringing that to the woman.
What you have to do is reverse the roles. Make her chase you. And you can do that by pushing her away. Not by not talking, not by being a dick, but by being Cocky and Funny you can make it so shes the one whose qualifying herself to you.
Keep in mind this frame when talking to a woman your interested in.
"You are constantly messing up your chances of being with me."
Lets say you just got some ice cream or your walking around the mall. and She trips and almost falls. You shake your head in a dramatic way, maybe look embarassed and say "damn i can NOT be seen in public with you." or "This relationship is never going to work." that line is my favorite favorite favorite.
What this communicates to the girl is "that im SO comfortable around you, and it will take a lot more than your hot looks to impress me or make me nervous." Girls can pick up on this sort of thing. If your sending the exact opposite message about "potential girlfriend or mate" shes going to find you a lot more interesting and be more comfortable around you.
However, its never a good idea to go overboard with cocky funny. Sprinkle it into good, funny conversation and youll be golden.
-Andrew
). Lastly going Caveman which depending on the girl could take very little time to alot. I knew this warpig that required no game and would let people caveman her all the time.