fourtwenty
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Post by fourtwenty on Sept 8, 2009 16:58:11 GMT -5
Hey.
I'm starting college(in the UK(equivelent to the last 2 years of HS in USA i think)) on monday and i dont know anybody there.
I see this as an advantage as nobody will notice any change in me from starting PU. I intend on becoming far more social than i ever was in school particularly with girls and not knowing anybody gives me a great reason to approach people.
However i have left it far too late to build a high level of confidence before starting college. Would it be best to just try and fake confidence or build up slowly?
Also if anyone has any other general advice for my situation please share it.
Thanks, 4:20.
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Post by cork on Sept 9, 2009 14:23:35 GMT -5
Hahh. Welcome, brother! First things first, don't think of confidence as something to wait for. It doesn't come naturally. The only way to overcome your anxiety is to plunge into a set. If you're still not comfortable with ''just walking up and striking up a conversation'', then start out using canned material, and gradually move on to natural game. If nerves are really a serious problem, just remember that we call it ''game'' for a reason. Just get into the habit of constantly sarging, and have a few lines ready to save your rep in case you crash and burn. Also, how and when did you discover the community?
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fourtwenty
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Post by fourtwenty on Sept 9, 2009 15:02:16 GMT -5
I read the game about a year ago but didn't discover the actual community till around three months ago. I have no in field experience because i keep procrastinating getting started with this. I've read DYD, watched Mehow's Infield Insider and im currently reading Swinggcat's Real World Seduction. Oh and thanks for the advice Cork. ![:D](//storage.proboards.com/forum/images/smiley/grin.png)
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SenorBubbz
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Post by SenorBubbz on Sept 9, 2009 22:02:31 GMT -5
Confidence is binary dude. You either have it, or you're a complete useless chode. Which one are you? ;D (hint: it's not the 2nd one)
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Post by cork on Sept 10, 2009 7:57:41 GMT -5
Yeah, man. It's what separates you from all the other guys. Just get out there and do it.
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gansta344u
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Post by gansta344u on Sept 13, 2009 15:27:04 GMT -5
Dude brad P talks about in his method tht if u read to much and dont approach gurls a month after u began reading u will lose confidence and not approach at all u will jus read and create a bigger problem so read little by little and try to gain field experiene am new myself and dont knw much either but one thing im constantly hearing is get feild experience its good as reading if not better so wht if u mess up who cares this aint life or death mayb it is lol but get out there
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RedDog
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Post by RedDog on Sept 13, 2009 18:05:09 GMT -5
XD GaN you are too funny for these forums. +1
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Post by nutrick on Sept 13, 2009 19:04:34 GMT -5
XD GaN you are too funny for these forums. +1 okay, if people get rep points for being funny, i should be surpassing grape by fucking now. ;D
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darkpwns
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Post by darkpwns on Sept 13, 2009 22:56:12 GMT -5
I should also give him rep points for mentioning Brad P. =O
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