Post by sleeky on Apr 18, 2010 13:00:51 GMT -5
Do you find it hard to keep on talking to women, or people in general? To keep up the flow of conversation? This might just mean you just don’t have enough practice. But this could also mean that you are just not passionate enough about things.
There are certain subjects that are easy to start talking about with ANYONE, be it guys or girls. These subjects include movies, sports, music, travel, technology, pets.
Becoming interested in a certain subject is not enough. Balance is the key to attraction, balance is the key to seduction, and yes, balance is also key in knowledge. You must know a little bit about everything to be interesting.
How can this help you? Well, lets give you a scenario. You just walked into a party. You know 2 people there, and those 2 people were the ones that invited you. You walk in, say hi to some people, and overhear a conversation going on about the latest playoff hockey game between a group of 4 guys. These guys seem to be the “alpha” males of the party, and they are just enjoying the atmosphere right now and really getting into this topic of hockey.
Now, if you know about hockey, you can pop in, and say some random comment about the game to get the guys talking more and later on introduce yourself. This is much more effective than just introducing yourself, and you will gain some rapport with the guys and you’ll have people to come back and talk to whenever you want.
This is just one example, out of many possible ones, with any topic possible. As you see, this knowledge is not really NEEDED persay, but it is a nice thing to have as it becomes easier for you to have interaction with anyone, and also because I’m a firm believer in the quote “Knowledge is power”.
You need to start reading. Alot of stuff.
Say hello to news.google.com, your new best friend.
You are going to read the news every day. Write that down. “Read MOTHERFUCKING google”. Next, go out to the library. Yes, I said the l word. The library. The library is actually an amazing source of information, contrary to popular belief, the internet does NOT have everything. There is much, much more interesting information contained in books. Read blogs, read websites, READ EVERYTHING.
Now, what subjects should be on your “To-read-and-find-out-about” list?
Movies: Actors and actresses names, which major movies they played in, the main producers of movies, classic movies, popular movies
Cars: major parts of cars, how they work, brand names of cars, popular models
Health: fitness, diet
Music: genres, bands, lead signers of major bands, popular songs/hitlist
Pets: being able to differentiate between a lab and a golden retriever
Tech: new gadgets, breakthrough technology, software
Geography: Major countries and their capitals
I find that those are the most important subjects to know about. This will not only make you better with conversation, but make you a better and more rounded individual, which should be your goal in the end anyways. Pickup should not be your main goal in life, your main goal should be making yourself a better person, women are just going to be a side bonus of this goal.
There are certain subjects that are easy to start talking about with ANYONE, be it guys or girls. These subjects include movies, sports, music, travel, technology, pets.
Becoming interested in a certain subject is not enough. Balance is the key to attraction, balance is the key to seduction, and yes, balance is also key in knowledge. You must know a little bit about everything to be interesting.
How can this help you? Well, lets give you a scenario. You just walked into a party. You know 2 people there, and those 2 people were the ones that invited you. You walk in, say hi to some people, and overhear a conversation going on about the latest playoff hockey game between a group of 4 guys. These guys seem to be the “alpha” males of the party, and they are just enjoying the atmosphere right now and really getting into this topic of hockey.
Now, if you know about hockey, you can pop in, and say some random comment about the game to get the guys talking more and later on introduce yourself. This is much more effective than just introducing yourself, and you will gain some rapport with the guys and you’ll have people to come back and talk to whenever you want.
This is just one example, out of many possible ones, with any topic possible. As you see, this knowledge is not really NEEDED persay, but it is a nice thing to have as it becomes easier for you to have interaction with anyone, and also because I’m a firm believer in the quote “Knowledge is power”.
You need to start reading. Alot of stuff.
Say hello to news.google.com, your new best friend.
You are going to read the news every day. Write that down. “Read MOTHERFUCKING google”. Next, go out to the library. Yes, I said the l word. The library. The library is actually an amazing source of information, contrary to popular belief, the internet does NOT have everything. There is much, much more interesting information contained in books. Read blogs, read websites, READ EVERYTHING.
Now, what subjects should be on your “To-read-and-find-out-about” list?
Movies: Actors and actresses names, which major movies they played in, the main producers of movies, classic movies, popular movies
Cars: major parts of cars, how they work, brand names of cars, popular models
Health: fitness, diet
Music: genres, bands, lead signers of major bands, popular songs/hitlist
Pets: being able to differentiate between a lab and a golden retriever
Tech: new gadgets, breakthrough technology, software
Geography: Major countries and their capitals
I find that those are the most important subjects to know about. This will not only make you better with conversation, but make you a better and more rounded individual, which should be your goal in the end anyways. Pickup should not be your main goal in life, your main goal should be making yourself a better person, women are just going to be a side bonus of this goal.