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Post by Grape on Oct 11, 2008 15:01:54 GMT -5
HSPF Project: Inner Game
10/11/08: Alright, first part of this project. Staff will experiment with various PUA techniques and see how they affect the major contributions of Inner Game. (ex. What levels of confidence and happiness do I experience as I socialize with different types of body postures?)
We will be comparing Inner Game to: - Body Language - Vocal Tonality - In-/Direct Approaches - Smiling/Laughing - Kinosynthetics - Cocky Funny
Our Goal: Master our inner games and find out what we can do to make ourselves more confident. (ex. Will using the C&F method make my inner game improve and make me a happier man?)
This project has already started. For the next two weeks, Modify your post on this thread and add on about what you experimented with and How you felt.
Part one ends: October 25, 2008.
Part Two: Staff will now collaborate and devise a 'method' to master one's inner game to get rid of those bad feelings and bringing up the good ones. Method will be released ASAP!!!
Good luck all, Grape
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Post by Grape on Oct 11, 2008 15:04:40 GMT -5
This is my post. All staff members post one post, and modify it as needed daily.
Monday Alright today I was experimenting with beliefs and eye contact. Both were all about giving me a bit more ego. I jokingly had phone sex with a girl I k-closed last night at a concert. I used this to my belief "Everyone loves me." So this somehow made me want to stare into everyone's eyes and I did it with a very fancy emotion behind my stare. It was something of "care and sweetness". Conclusions: - Having beliefs that you are a sex god helps. - Putting emotion behind your eye contact will help.
Tuesday Today, I had a very interesting experiment with my voice. Every period I changed my tone of voice and my emotions (inner game) changed to it fittingly. When I talked more arrogantly, I felt more alpha and cocky. When I talked more lightly, I felt friendly and sincere. When I talked more emotionally, I felt like a spokesman.
Which ones worked? All three, in different situations. When you're trying to work an entire set, use a slightly more threatening tone of voice that says "What I have to say here is very interesting. Don't dare interrupting me."
When you're walking in the hallways with just a girl then use a lighter tone of voice and your inner game will follow.
Conclusion: Putting effort into your voice will help bring your inner game to the same level.
Wednesday Smiling & Laughing Be extremely careful with this tool. I quickly turned too giddy and immature that I started laughing at the stupidest stuff. I felt self-conscious. Bad. However, having a good vibe and have a smile that's not "HAHA" but more like "Hey you."
Thursday Today, I experimented with Cocky & Funny. It was very fun and enjoyable, however I did not feel "alpha" or "seductive" at all, I felt like a little child making fun of his friend. This method works in terms of being seduced, but if you're looking to have such a personality which you want to feel like a "big man", not the thing for you.
Friday Today my primary focus was on: personality. Focusing on being that guy with an awesome personality WILL get you a good reputation and it WILL improve your game. It also contains all the other stuff mentioned so it'll be that 'key point' you want to always keep in mind. Personality, display it.
Saturday Inner Game vs Validation Validation is needed by ourselves and others. I tested this by starting my day completely loving myself and loving others. They then returned this validation back to me because I wasn't NEEDY of it, I was being mutual and cool about it. Later at a halloween party, I decide to be hateful to myself and everyone. Everyone ignored the poop of the party, me, and left me out. All went according to plan. I then went back to my original state of mind at another party.
Sunday Inner Game vs Health Hangovers from the party gave me major fatigue and stress. I was brain dead, I was tired, I didn't care. NOT GOOD. I went sarging in Wal-Mart but I could NOT focus on anything! I later sat on a display bedroom and fell asleep until an attendee woke me up. ALWAYS take your vitamins, calcium, protein, etc! These are like HEALTH steroids!
Monday I had 3 tests today. Didn't game.
Tuesday Logic vs Emotion What I realized is that whenever I'm in my logical state, which is needed in order to LEARN in class, I can't really game girls. Why is this? Logic asserts the concepts of "What if..?" "Trial & Error" "But.." So what did I do? I quickly converted myself into the emotional state I'm in when I go out to sarge and hang out with friends. I learned how to master my emotions and I learned how to use them, block them out, etc. Get good at this. Be able to make yourself extremely happy, extremely sad, and feel nothing. So right when the bell rings, or we get started on a group activity, I convert my state of logic into a state of emotions. Emotions are ESSENTIAL to pick up. If you have a hard time getting them out, go watch a movie. It seriously works.
Wednesday Opening. Today I talked talked and talked. It was PLAN (Pre ACT) day and I had 3 strangers at my table. I quickly asked for an extra pencil, got to meet them, and got an IOI from a HB7 with very... sexy.. lips. I wanted to stick my dick inside her mouth. Anyhoo, after the ACTs, I met up with my buddies and I met a few more HBs. First I said Hi to my buddy, DHV'd, and then said "Hi" to the targets. They all gave me a cute "Heyy". Also, this put me in such a great state, I was talking with all of my 'long term' targets and classmates. I kissed one, got a lap dance from another, cuddled with another, and N-closed another. (NOT at the same time hahaha) By 5th period, I was sooo worn out and exhausted. I fell asleep during AP Chem and Spanish. Oh well. Conclusion: Open, find a way to open, there are soo many opportunities in front of you, just get creative.
Thursday Focusing On Yourself, Being Self-conscious You can not socialize while thinking about yourself. I focused on these 3 things, believing I had a break through: MY Beliefs, MY personality, MY emotions/thoughts Bad. I now realize why. Instead of thinking about how I was going to SOCIALIZE, I was thinking about myself and my beliefs. So don't focus so much on inner game, it's not the ONLY part of your game. Inner game is USELESS if you're not going to SOCIALIZE with it. Focus on your interactions with others instead.
Friday Inner Game vs Attraction Switches Well, today I didn't focus on attraction switches at ALL and more on just.. laughing with my peers. It was fun, not going to lie. Everyone around me laughed and we had a great time. What I DID realize was that whenever I happened to DHV, not intentionally for that purpose, something would click into their minds and they would have some sort of attraction towards me. So, my point is: Being a cool guy with a cool personality is essential, but attraction switches are a MUST.
Fin.
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Post by Chris on Oct 13, 2008 16:21:57 GMT -5
Chrispb7's Experiments:
Monday: Body Language Today I worked on body language and how it associates to the inner game of an Alpha Male. I entered a set with some AMOGs and made eye contact with one. I said in my mind "I am more alpha and dominant than you." This broadcasted my dominance and he quickly looked away. Later I was walking down the hall with some of my Alpha friends and I took on the mindset "i am the leader here and I own this school." I was basically the anchor of the conversation and everyone eventually saw me as the leader. A few HBs walked by and noticed this flashing me a smile. Conclusion: What is going on in your mind is very intimately connected to your body language. If you have a strong inner game, your body language will naturally be attractive. Likewise, holding yourself in a more dominant way actually makes you FEEL more dominant.
Tuesday: Voice Tone I had two oral reports today so this worked out great. I used to get nervous for oral reports (AFC times) but not anymore because I like to use my voice. I spoke with a loud deep voice and noticed that my words "carried" power. It made me feel like the dominant force in the room. During lunch, I started getting kind of excited and noticed that I was attracting people into talking to me. My voice sounded fun and exciting. Made me feel like I was the source of good emotions in the environment. I tried stuttering, made me feel anxious. Conclusion: Again, inner game affects everything you do, including voice. The dominant male with have a deep, powerful voice. While nervous guys stutter a lot or have meek voices. Adjusting your voice will shift your state. Speaking dominantly will make you feel more dominant.
Wednesday: Kinesthetics I walked in the door when school first started and saw an HB that i have been gaming lately. I was still in early game with her so I haven't progressed kino wise a ton so i figure I'd hug her. So I did and it had kind of a "bonding" affect. I instantly felt closer to her and more happy. However if you'll notice, the needy guys are CONSTANTLY trying to get kino and fondle girls. Conclusion: The way you USE kino affects your inner game. More intimate kino brings two people closer together. Using kino in a productive way, such as the freeze out, will make you feel in control of the situation. A guy who keeps his power for him does kino in a way that says "im in control here."
Thursday: Smiling and Laughing I think this depends on how you use it A LOT. When I was constantly laughing, i felt goofy and insecure. When I was laughing at appropriate times, The laugh seemed a lot more confident and alpha. Conclusion: Having a good time will attract a lot of people, but you have to be doing it from a position of higher value (not seeking approval, etc.) and it makes you feel very Alpha. If you are constantly laughing tho, very insecure.
Friday: cocky/funny When using cocky/funny, I felt like the life of the party. It forced me to not take things so seriously and have a great time. It also made me feel Alpha because I was holding court, the guy having a great time, and comfortable enough with myself to have fun. Conclusion: cocky/funny allows you to have a great time as long as you adapt the ATTITUDE to go along with the words. The words alone wont do it for you, you have to have the cocky/funny ATTITUDE. When you feel Alpha and you are having a great time (from a position of high value), cocky/funny comes out of your mouth automatically a lot of the time.
Monday: Peacocking Today I chose my favorite Avatar (peacocking kit). I felt an extra boost of confidence because the way I was dressed. It made me feel different in a good way. I was gaming well all day. However, later when I got home I noticed a big ass ink stain on the back of my white shirt. And yet, I still gamed well despite this. Conclusion: Peacocking can be a good quick confidence boost but you DONT NEED IT. Obviously I was in state most of the day because I THOUGHT I was dressed well but in reality I had a stain on my shirt. This proves that we have "rules" in our mind for getting into state. Mine WAS peacocking and I proved to myself (accidentally) that it wasn't the actual clothing making me feeling confident. You should strive to break all your inner rules for state so you KNOW you can get into state at ANY time.
Tuesday: Forgot... eh.
Wednesday: Push/Pull I experimented with push/pull and how it affects inner game today. I used one and mixed it with a physical push/pull too. I noticed during the pull part she was getting excited in a happy way then when i pushed she got excited in a way that said she wanted more of me. Conclusion: Using push/pull if done correctly will make you feel like you are in total control of the situation.
Thursday: Socializing Today during first hour i was kinda quiet and tired the whole time. I noticed i couldn't wait for class to be over. Come second hour, i made an effort to talk to pretty much everyone. My state rose and rose. I felt GREAT by the end of the day. Conclusion: You do need to warm up your brain to get into a social mood if you aren't already in one. Your social confidence will rise higher and higher the more you use that part of your brain. Also socializing made me feel a lot more happy and optimistic.
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Post by Andrew on Oct 14, 2008 20:48:09 GMT -5
Tuesday: Smiling and Laughing
So today in Media Studies we had a socratic seminar (everyone has answers to questions prepared and we basically get graded on discussions) and its a good class so im pretty much a HUGE alpha in a class of hot girls. So in the middle of class this girl across from the circle from e kept making faces at me and throwing silent pretend tantrums. I of course was the only one to see.
So she kept doing it and i couldnt contro, myself. I jept bursting out laughing and smiling hugely and like ridiculously squeaky giggles in the middle of the big serious class discussion.
At first i kind of got in a little bit of trouble with the teacher (but she loves me and hits on me so its all good) and the class but she wouldnt quit. Eventually, my laughing hysterically got teh whole class to lighten up, have much more fun with the seminar, and we got to end the class early. Inner game dicovery: You have a good time, so will everyone else. If your in a position where your laughing and having fun and you really dont care what other people think (or had no choice, in my case), others will lighten up too. Because you will have lightened the mood and brought the fun, it will all be centered around you. Always be having a better time than everyone else, or at least a good time. Its contagious.
Thursday and Friday: Vibing I worked a lot thursday and friday on vibing, matching intensifying others' social intensities throughout the day. Thursday at lunch, sat with a hot chick and a buddy of mine, was a really chill environment. I was the laid back cool dude who laughed easily and had a good time. Friday was me, a buddy, and a bunch of hot chicks and we flicked food at each other all lunch. Conclusion By matching and going beyond how others are in the environment that your in, you become the essence of the vibe. in a chill setting, be more laid back and easy going. In a more energized setting, be more fun and moving and all those good things. Picking up on how others are in a social setting allows your to adapt and change and fit in with the mood and tone of your set.
Friday and Saturday: Cocky Funny So Friday in class last period is my favorite class with more hot girls than there are guys. RAN THE SHOW. was funny, hit on the teacher, got tons of IOIs from everyone there. Negged the teacher a bunch, kept the frame of mind that Im the Prize (internalized) and had a good time with it. Today hung out with a couple dudes and this girl whose definately into me. Kept up the sexual jokes and kept myself as prize. Conclusion As always, Having fun is contagious, have a good time and they will too. Also, jokes+Prize mindset=cocky funny almost all the time. Thats a very good, simple outlook to have on cocky funny.
Monday: Experiments with preselection So today i got some texts today in my first couple classes. When i snuck in class to take out my phone (very against the rules), i got more eyes on me. I realized that this is a HUGE HUGE DHV. So even when i wasnt getting texts i made a point to take out my phone a couple times in class. Conclusion: Even though I was only preselected and was being talked to half the time, it was as if I was the entire time. Theres no way for your target across the room to know that you didnt really get a text. Fuck lying, its a simple HUGE DHV and your not even talking to her.
Tuesday:Body language Wasnt feelin too good today, couldnt bullshit my way through this homework i had, so I was a little slouchy. im NEVER slouchy. I Immediatly felt sicker, really tired, and angrier. AS soon as the bell rang and i was walking up th esenior hallway for class, I immediatly corrected myself and felt like, a rush of feeling back into my body. Eyes were immediatly back on me. It felt really good. Conclusion: If you usually have really good body langauge and sit and stand and walk right, a rare fluctuation in that can kill your mood. So to sum up, in some cases Body Language=Inner Mood and Inner mood=direct correlation to inner game.
Wednesday: My voice So i found out monday that I had a sexy voice and "should set up a sex hotline for women and make lots of money." So today I decided that I would accent my voice a littl more. I made my voice huskier, deeper, and more more subtle sexual emotion into it. What I noticed was that I was getting many more IOIs from girls I was and wasnt gaming. Conclusion: Girls find guys voices much more attractive than guys do. On top of that, they pay more attentiont to voice tone and our voices in general. Making my voice sexier made me feel like I was strutting shirtless with the hottest abs on the planet. Your voice should never be overlooked, and should be worked on as much as any body language or other part of game.
Friday: Eye Contact Today I experimented with staring more deeply into a girls' eyes. Even though I was decked out in facepaint I still made a point to stare deeper. What I found was that girls were less likely to hold the eye contact unless they were close friends with me or highly confident. In addition to that, staring guys down during conversation, even in a non-threatening way, makes them back down (even if there was nothing to back down from). Conclusion: Holding eye contact immediatly makes you more alpha with both men and women. And being hte bigger man almost always makes you feel good. Not only that but all the perks being of alpha come with it.
Friday Part 2: Preselection So this wasnt MY preselection, but I noticed someone executing preselection PERFECTLY. I was hanging out at the homecoming game with soccakeepa1 and three other girls when one of the girls' karate buddy (a freshman) came over with a bunch of his friends and started talking to us. All his friends immediatly were like "kevin how do you KNOW all these juniors and seniors?" After he was done talking to us they LITERALLY followed kevin around. Conclusion: Im sure he felt like the MAN last night. Being a freshman even KNOWING upperclassmen is huge social proof. Have friends whereve you go, preferably friends in high places.
Saturday: Value through friends and acquaintences Saturday night homecoming dance, I was hanging out with these two hot senior girls and dancing with each of them. Both of them dragged me to the center/front of the dancehall where all the hot High-value seniors were. Dancing there with all these INCREDIBLY hot, popular senior girls and senior guys was great, I even had one ask me to share. Conclusion: Even though I only knew a couple of these girls, I FELT like the man. Even if you cant make friends with everyone, have a couple friends in high places who can take you places, show you things, and introduce you to people. Not only wil this raise your Value by association by a HUGE amount, you feel like the fucking MAN.
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Post by Grape on Oct 25, 2008 8:04:55 GMT -5
Released!
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Post by hexagon on Nov 4, 2008 14:21:17 GMT -5
This is a great project guys. I like how you've taken each aspect of the game and "isolated" it, and then seen how it has affected your game.
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