Post by Sloth on Sept 9, 2011 20:55:43 GMT -5
I just want to shout out to all the 'newbies' who are digging their nails in and trying to be the guy they wanna be, and get the girls they wanna get.
every body knows it isn't easy and it takes time.
Firstly, if you want, go read all my old posts, i was probably the biggest idiot on the forum at the time.
I have come an incredibly long way in 2/3 years, and i'm not afraid to parade that about, i'm proud and happy with it.
Secondly, If you think i'm a special case, and that YOU probably can't make the journey even if you put in the effort, you're wrong.
I went through a lot, a whole lot, we're talking depression, extremely bad grades leading to problems at school and massive problems at home, family interventions and sitting alone in my room listening to sad music and trying to figure out why the tears wouldn't come. (BTW HOW DEEP IS THIS?!)
So of course you can do it, if i can do that, then you can overcome your problems
Bottom line i don't regret any of it, because here i am, all my mistakes have lead me here.
It starts off with you being a big idiot, thinking you're a pro pua; then you realise you're being dumb and you stop reading anything; then you realise you don't really know much, so you read more and more; then after you've read some stuff you wake up and realise you can't depend on canned material; then you finally just go out there and try it first hand, you talk to people, and even if you use canned material, it's not ALL canned - so you make progress
At least that was roughly my route, short hand.
Look guys, you can all do it, don't just give up and think 'i don't need it, most guys do fine without it' - it's not about 'doing fine' that insinuates your life is just half assed so you can get by, you have to be the best you can be
And before some smart ass comes along, no i'm not perfect, i have plenty left to work on. But i'm the guy who knows what he's fucking doing so you can either shit on this post, or take my advice. Your choice bro x
every body knows it isn't easy and it takes time.
Firstly, if you want, go read all my old posts, i was probably the biggest idiot on the forum at the time.
I have come an incredibly long way in 2/3 years, and i'm not afraid to parade that about, i'm proud and happy with it.
Secondly, If you think i'm a special case, and that YOU probably can't make the journey even if you put in the effort, you're wrong.
I went through a lot, a whole lot, we're talking depression, extremely bad grades leading to problems at school and massive problems at home, family interventions and sitting alone in my room listening to sad music and trying to figure out why the tears wouldn't come. (BTW HOW DEEP IS THIS?!)
So of course you can do it, if i can do that, then you can overcome your problems
Bottom line i don't regret any of it, because here i am, all my mistakes have lead me here.
It starts off with you being a big idiot, thinking you're a pro pua; then you realise you're being dumb and you stop reading anything; then you realise you don't really know much, so you read more and more; then after you've read some stuff you wake up and realise you can't depend on canned material; then you finally just go out there and try it first hand, you talk to people, and even if you use canned material, it's not ALL canned - so you make progress
At least that was roughly my route, short hand.
Look guys, you can all do it, don't just give up and think 'i don't need it, most guys do fine without it' - it's not about 'doing fine' that insinuates your life is just half assed so you can get by, you have to be the best you can be
And before some smart ass comes along, no i'm not perfect, i have plenty left to work on. But i'm the guy who knows what he's fucking doing so you can either shit on this post, or take my advice. Your choice bro x
