alpha in this class, but not in that one.

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alpha in this class, but not in that one. Sept 19, 2008 17:21:06 GMT -5

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Post by Chris on Sept 19, 2008 17:21:06 GMT -5

Do you guys ever find yourself to be a total ALPHA MALE in some of your classes and environments while in other ones, you are shyer, more submissive, and just more beta? Well this is called SITUATION CONFIDENCE. It should be every PUAs goal to aquire CORE CONFIDENCE: which is when you are alpha and your genuine self everywhere you go. Now to aquire that, i realize it can take some time, and i am doing everything i can lately to work on my inner game and a full identity change. But in the mean time, i have found there is one reason i am beta in some classes (luckily this class has no HBs haha). But my reason is that i dont know the AMOG, which for me is always the teacher. I dont give a fuck what students in my school think of me because i know i am alpha. But my advice for this: get to know, and befriend your teacher. You become tons more confident when you and the teacher are friends. Thats just my take on it as i go on my path to obtaining a STRONG CORE CONFIDENCE.

later guys.

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SamethP Extremely Active Member Old Specialist It's my world Posts: 1,430 Registered: Sept 27, 2008 18:34:21 GMT -5	alpha in this class, but not in that one. Sept 27, 2008 22:05:31 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by SamethP on Sept 27, 2008 22:05:31 GMT -5 when you are friends with the teacher you tend to get away with alot more than the kids the teacher duznt care about
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Chris Extremely Active Member Old Specialist "you will never regret doing an approach, but you will always regret not doing one." Posts: 773 Registered: Jul 6, 2008 12:05:22 GMT -5	alpha in this class, but not in that one. Sept 27, 2008 22:50:23 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by Chris on Sept 27, 2008 22:50:23 GMT -5 amen brother!
	-impossible: what we limit ourselves to in our own minds. "be the flame, not the moth" "Whether you think you can or you can't, you're right." "If you wanna live life on your own terms, you've gotta be willing to crash and burn." "Unreal people have unrealistic goals."

Dream Extremely Active Member Old Specialist I sleep, perchance with Dream Posts: 442 Registered: Oct 1, 2008 9:16:55 GMT -5	alpha in this class, but not in that one. Oct 1, 2008 16:24:59 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by Dream on Oct 1, 2008 16:24:59 GMT -5 Situation Confidence. My nemesis. At home and with local friends I would be chatty and sociable but when I got to school I gave off a different vibe. I think I have that sorted now though.
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enigma Active Member Posts: 195 Registered: Jul 7, 2008 13:57:09 GMT -5	alpha in this class, but not in that one. Oct 1, 2008 22:30:55 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by enigma on Oct 1, 2008 22:30:55 GMT -5 I feel the same way as you Dream. When I'm hangin out with my best friend, my confidence is unbelievable. School just feels like a totally different atmosphere for me.
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alpha in this class, but not in that one. Oct 1, 2008 23:10:03 GMT -5

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Oct 1, 2008 22:30:55 GMT -5 enigma said:

I feel the same way as you Dream. When I'm hangin out with my best friend, my confidence is unbelievable. School just feels like a totally different atmosphere for me.

A good way to help you overcome this is
1. Put yourself in an "uncomfortable" social situation to push your limits.
2. ACCEPT the fact that you are uncomfortable (if you are). DO NOT resist it. "that which you resist will persist."
3. Take the right action. Get some approaches under your belt and interact a lot.

You'll soon get a lot of reference experience and you will realize in doesnt matter what other people think.

-impossible: what we limit ourselves to in our own minds.

"be the flame, not the moth"

"Whether you think you can or you can't, you're right."

"If you wanna live life on your own terms, you've gotta be willing to crash and burn."

"Unreal people have unrealistic goals."

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alpha in this class, but not in that one. Dec 20, 2008 14:32:23 GMT -5

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Post by orangejuice on Dec 20, 2008 14:32:23 GMT -5

Wow.. I suffer from the same problem.In one class I'm alpha but in my other class.. I just don't act the same cuz every other guy tries to be the alpha male too.It halps though that I'm friends with the teacher.

sunny321 Member Posts: 85 Registered: Nov 23, 2008 21:30:41 GMT -5	alpha in this class, but not in that one. Jan 1, 2009 9:47:11 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by sunny321 on Jan 1, 2009 9:47:11 GMT -5 how can i befriend the teacher?
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alpha in this class, but not in that one. Jan 1, 2009 13:00:30 GMT -5

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Post by Alek on Jan 1, 2009 13:00:30 GMT -5

Perfect. I found out the solution to this. The solution is: Go outside of your comfort level in THAT class - push your limits. Do something that you feel very uncomfortable with (ie. presenting, acting, something crazy) And try to do it often, or as logistics permit. Soon you will find yourself fully comfortable in this class.

Now try to apply that in all aspects of life, and your on your path to success