tkchris
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Post by tkchris on Nov 4, 2008 0:29:52 GMT -5
I have gone to high school with this HB for 1.5 years and I always end up sitting by her in each class we have together, so that makes gaming her pretty convenient all the time. She's the hot popular girl everyone knows and loves. I built great rapport with her all last year, and now I get quite a few IOI's from her frequently, and occasionally even kino. The setback is that I'm a senior now and I didn't start off high school with a good/popular reputation, which has followed the rest of my high school career. So how can I escalate with her? I kind of have one-itis, but a very mild case of it. I don't think about her all the time or anything, but at school I am always challenging myself to do something more with her. One more thing you should know is, I'm not her nice guy orbiter either, I was very c&f with her when we first met, then like I said, built good rapport, and now we talk all the time,and she sends me IOI's. But that's about it. Where do I go from here with these crappy circumstances?? Thought i should mention that her friends are always around too.
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Luc
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Post by Luc on Nov 4, 2008 9:57:27 GMT -5
Well to start off make sure you are sending her small SOI's, just so she knows what you are thinking. The worst thing is to think you are getting IOIs and to be wrong about it. From there i would just try to kino escalate and maybe do some cold readings.
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Chris
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Post by Chris on Nov 4, 2008 22:35:19 GMT -5
kino escalate and move the relationship forward. Obviously it's gonna be tough if she is always with her friends to build rapport. So number close her and play some phone game. Set up a Day2 and continue to escalate. That's what the game is all about, escalation.
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tkchris
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Post by tkchris on Nov 5, 2008 14:45:01 GMT -5
could you give me some good lines/material to number close her with?
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nine
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Post by nine on Nov 5, 2008 17:58:22 GMT -5
*During rapport*Pull cell phone out of pocket, hand it to her, tell her to put her number in. Stay to build a little comfort. Text later so she has your number.
Done.
Nine
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Chris
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Post by Chris on Nov 5, 2008 18:00:47 GMT -5
You don't need any fancy lines for number closing. Best to have AT LEAST some attraction.
The key to number closing is:
-Assume she will give you her number. Pull out your phone and give it to her in an expecting way and say "put your number in."
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crash
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Post by crash on Nov 9, 2008 21:43:50 GMT -5
I like to toss my phone to her so if she doesn't catch it I can bust her balls on it. Never fails for me
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Luc
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Post by Luc on Nov 9, 2008 22:04:09 GMT -5
^just don't do that with a new fone
i did that and she dropped it and i was legit pissed...
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Post by Andrew on Nov 11, 2008 18:40:07 GMT -5
hahaa yeah.
Im coming from a bad High School rep too.
What you said about not being a nice guy orbiter is SUPER-important too. Thats what seriously separates you from everyone else.
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Post by Grape on Nov 11, 2008 19:18:48 GMT -5
Uhh been there done that bro.
Don't get your hopes up unless you want to feel like shit.
She's a flirt. Accept the fact. Use it to your own advantage.
Accept the fact she will flirt with other guys.
But know that just because she flirts with others DOESN'T mean that she won't flirt with you.
Just get whatever you can from her and get it over with.
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Post by nine on Nov 11, 2008 21:09:00 GMT -5
I like to toss my phone to her so if she doesn't catch it I can bust her balls on it. Never fails for me Heh, sidekick 2008, I think I'll pass on that close  Nine |
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tkchris
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Post by tkchris on Nov 14, 2008 0:34:40 GMT -5
Uhh been there done that bro. Don't get your hopes up unless you want to feel like shit. She's a flirt. Accept the fact. Use it to your own advantage. Accept the fact she will flirt with other guys. But know that just because she flirts with others DOESN'T mean that she won't flirt with you. Just get whatever you can from her and get it over with. sh's flirty, but not with every guy...she's pretty down to earth about her looks, she's not too stuck up or anything like that, kinda y i like her so much. |
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