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Post by ellypho on Jan 6, 2009 22:17:14 GMT -5
Hey guys i have trouble with an HB8. I was cool with her before we would chat and shit she's in 9 and i'm in 10. Well today she saw me out of her usual three set being comprised of 2 girls and a guy. I was with some geekier people and she wouldn't give me back any IOIs or talk much... So what should i do about it. What do people think of someone who kinda drifts between everyone at school as friends and has no real stereotype?
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optimus
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Post by optimus on Jan 7, 2009 0:45:15 GMT -5
They think he's a sweet guy. At least they might. Being friendly to everyone can get you loved or hated.
Your problem is not that she saw you with some awesome guys (if they aren't awesome you shouldn't be hanging out with them), it's that "I was cool with her before." You need to SOI that bitch! Qualify, telegraph interest, SOI, it doesn't really matter. You're drifting into LJBF territory and you need to reframe your relationship.
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Post by ellypho on Jan 7, 2009 17:19:34 GMT -5
Not past the ljbf zone. She just ignored me when i attempted to talk to her really... What is an SOI?
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Post by optimus on Jan 7, 2009 23:50:23 GMT -5
SOI = Statement of intent. "You're really sexy when yousmile like that."
Juggler teaches them as a way to black LJBF. They're also a really good thing to use at the end of A3 and to transition into C1.
When girls ignore me, I just ignore them back, but that usually ends with neither of us talking to each other and me losing any hope of getting any farther with her, so my advice isn't really useful.
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Post by SenorBubbz on Jan 8, 2009 17:15:21 GMT -5
Don't ignore her back, just....
Stop trying to get her attention and continue with your shit.
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SamethP
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Post by SamethP on Jan 14, 2009 23:37:18 GMT -5
exactly ^
continue to socialise
have a good time
shes trying to get into your world, not vice versa
keep on...
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Post by Grape on Jan 16, 2009 12:30:57 GMT -5
Yeah, it's not a big deal. She may have been uncomfortable being seen with dorks and been insecure.
It will only become a big deal if you make it a big deal, so let her know that you are still the same person she originally had IOIs for.
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