Gaming from a Distance

[risen]

I want to game a girl in school that I have virtually no access to. I'm friends with a lot of people she knows, but that's about it. I figure the best way would be to create buzz in the school, but I don't know how to do that.

She knows me and has talked to me once, and given me some IOI's so the actual problem is making her want to talk to me more. She can come to me, but I can't see her often...it's complicated. It isn't forbidden or anything. She's a student in an admin position and has her own room next to one of my classes.

[WhiteKnight]

I don't mean to bring you down but for making a strategy you need to know all the info. To do this you need complete honesty, how hot is she(consider not only where you would rank her but ask some guys-talking about girls is never weird with friends, acquaintances, even random guys in class). Ok now is she a flirty girl? Girls will use flirtation to get what they want, women learn this early on there may have been other value attributed to her doing those IOIs which wasn't to attract you, this is only addressed slightly in most books because once girls become women and have a job if they wanna be taken seriously some of this has to be dropped. And the only thing they have to gain in that situation is usually meeting a guy, the situation being clubs/bars/etc. Back to the point though some things she will do with EVERY guy so these aren't real IOIs, and 3rd what were they anyways?

Let me point out some things more clearly, if she had interest as shown by IOIs she would ALREADY want to talk to you more. Take that how you will I am playing devil's advocate, but if I was bolstering your ego it could mean all you need to do is approach. Ok so my next question is Admin position? How old are the 2 of you? All I can think of that makes any sense...is that you two are in college and she is a TA? So now my advice which should be warned to take with a grain of salt I am not Mystery yet, but I am hoping these things at least do not have AFC beliefs. To game her without directly gaming her.
1) Not saying forget about her. But game other girls, you have no idea how much my friends with girlfriends who haven't changed at all now get approached by girls who are passing us single guys over. I don't think this is having a girlfriend it is, when you have any girls around you it instantly gives you value. So let her see and know that you are prize that a lot of ladies want.
2) When you do see her make sure to be confident, alpha right?, and start conversation.
3) Self improvement, if you have time for it do some little things that could make you more interesting and desirable. She skis, so learn to ski or snowboard and then you will have something extra to talk about. That's kind of a big thing, but even little things like next time you and your friends go out to dinner suggest something you never tried before. Buy a bright and flashy sweater. Make sure you have good style. Maybe get in shape, you have no idea how often that "Have you been working out?" line actually happens.

$4$ This is a theory I have right now, its more of a hypothesis I guess. The principle idea behind it is you can lower a girls value, and it also buys you time until you have built things up enough to get a date, or whatever. So guys that you know are interested in the girl you try to help establish connections with other girls, if they have a gf what harm can they cause you? Also if they know her and want to return the favor they are going to be complimenting you to her raising your value but since they are no longer suitors it will lower hers(less guys interested, her value drops). I think of it as throwing obstacles. If you have some AFC friends who like her as well or think she is hot you can encourage them. Build up their confidence and send em in like wind up toys they will gain experience, get rejected but here is the key get them to go in when another guy is near her. Few guys will be good enough to handle the situation without looking like an ass or regaining her attention. Then also talk to her like I said, now you can run some recon. When you see her talking to a guy go up and do some AMOGing. Now this may seem assish, even evil, the key is to know when and where. You don't build up attraction between a friend of yours and her, because this will just bite you in the ass. You send in the guys who need their balls to drop and if they get her you would be so happy for witnessing a miracle you wouldn't care. Also you aren't depriving her, or always going up to Amog and leaving. You do it when the opportunity presents itself. You are not sabotaging others simply dangling a ball in front of a dog and throwing it the other way, he'll be happy and so will you. Now you are alone and have time for her to realize what the real trophy is...from there standard game.
...Yeah I don't think that would work...but maybe.

[Grape]

nobigdeal, dont make things so complicated and scientific. it pisses people off. socialization should not be treated as a science when not being 'analyzed'.

Risen, we all have girls like that. we'd love to bang them, but there simply are no solid opportunities.
you can encounter this situation in two ways:
- accept the fact that you and her have different lives and stop obsessing until the time you two actually do end up meeting up.
- force you two to meet, as in go talk to her.

you know this. you just want to see if there's a magic solution to this.... nope =] sorry, life is life.

[Alek]

or you could talk to her over the internet, close her and work from there

[slithroat]

Alek, everyone knows internet relationshits aren't the best. They're unreal. Think bro, think.

[nutrick]

Oct 24, 2009 15:52:13 GMT -5 slithroat said:

Alek, everyone knows internet relationshits aren't the best. They're unreal. Think bro, think.

a little fire to your tongue i'd have to disagree. i don't think alek meant for it to be exclusive, it's just the medium in which this guy can game her. it can definitely work, don't limit yourself to what "everyone knows" try it and see what happens.


Patrick

[Chris]

nobigdeal,

this situation is no big deal. dont overthink it.

i had to say that lol.

[slithroat]

Patrick - I've been gaming from a distance since I was 9. I'd know . I've only been able to make ONE relationship work (somehow) that was an elapsed period of 9 months, and I only saw her TWICE. This was when I was 12 and when she was 14 though, having a car would probably make it much easier although I tend to frown upon meeting people via the interwebs -cough 53 year old guy named Molly cough cough-

However, you are right. This is all opinionated. Anything could happen, just most is improbable.