Dance comin up, tips anyone?

[Caesar]

Wattup every1, my school dance is coming up and I'm looking for something that get heads turning my way without looking like a douche of course. I'm not really sure how to game girls at a dance coz the music is way to fucking loud to hear anyone else (although there is a room outside where people buy drinks etc. and the music aint to loud there). Last time i showed up at the dance, most of the chicks went for my taller friends (i am not short for a 15 year old, 5 ft8, my friend group just happens to have taller people in it, about 6 ft1) and i didnt really know how to outgame them.
2 years ago (last time i went 2 tha dance), i was beginning the game and i didnt dress to wildy back then so i'm planning on doing that but has anyone else got some tips on how to use body language etc. to game chiks at a dance? And has anyone got 1st hand experience?

Thanx guys,

Caesar

[machete]

funny that im in the same boat as u

[nikkisixx]

grind. thats what the girls are there for. Don't worry about age differences. Talk to everyone, high five the guys and the girls, be the fun guy.

and most importantly grind. and grind. and grind.

Just go heavy kino very early as most girls are sluts at these things.

thats my two cents, take it if you will

[n1kola]

totally agree with nikki

all girls that go to these things come with an objective of hooking up. otherwise they wouldent be there.

and a little suggestion: get drunk before then go. it will give u the "i dont give a fuck" confidence to start grinding with a random girl, which usually leads to a hookup

[sharkoffs]

No, no, no, no and no.

Do not get drunk, grinding won't lead anywhere if you don't know what to do after 5 mins, looks are just a crutch, especially being tall, so stop with this crap that Andre the Giant is pulling more bitches then you are because it's not true.

Dances are basically mini clubs, so it's essentially the same game. What you need to do is be friendly with everyone, ping from group to group, open them with lines like "So which one of you is the bad one?" Or "Just because you guys think your hot doesn't mean you don't have to say hi".

Ask them why their not dancing and tell them if their still in the same spot in the next 5 minutes their all gonna get a spanking from you.

Be the most high value guy in the party, get social value from everywhere you can, you NEED to be "that" guy.

Look up some Mehow game, he loves the clubs.

Adam Lyons has the best dance floor game in the world.

Gambler has some intricate shit for clubs as well, very advanced stuff though, wouldn't worry about it at this point.

Tease, Screw, Go Crazy, It's a fucking party your supposed to have fun.

Good Luck Friend Happy Hunting!

[darkpwns]

Mar 5, 2010 18:29:53 GMT -5 sharkoffs said:

No, no, no, no and no.

Do not get drunk, grinding won't lead anywhere if you don't know what to do after 5 mins, looks are just a crutch, especially being tall, so stop with this crap that Andre the Giant is pulling more bitches then you are because it's not true.

Dances are basically mini clubs, so it's essentially the same game. What you need to do is be friendly with everyone, ping from group to group, open them with lines like "So which one of you is the bad one?" Or "Just because you guys think your hot doesn't mean you don't have to say hi".

Ask them why their not dancing and tell them if their still in the same spot in the next 5 minutes their all gonna get a spanking from you.

Be the most high value guy in the party, get social value from everywhere you can, you NEED to be "that" guy.

Look up some Mehow game, he loves the clubs.

Adam Lyons has the best dance floor game in the world.

Gambler has some intricate shit for clubs as well, very advanced stuff though, wouldn't worry about it at this point.

Tease, Screw, Go Crazy, It's a fucking party your supposed to have fun.

Good Luck Friend Happy Hunting!

Alas I have so much fun grinding haha. I would recommend doing it, but not with the intention of hooking up....I mean its so damn fun! Personally at the dances/clubs etc. I take on a "I'm practically a mute" approach and I wave girls over to me with my uber hand waving techinque and they always come, I don't know if its because they think I have something important to say or what though (everybody tends to stare at me in my everyday life these days so I don't know what to think about anything anymore).

Generally if you waved them over and they came they've spent a bit of effort wading through the inferno that are these clubs so they're more willing to listen to what you have to say (if you have anything to say...I almost never do because I am freaking loud yet most of the time I still get the "WHAT?!" and I hate that so I interact with a variety of hand-gestures till she gets the point).

Honestly, its the loud fuckers pulling chicks, so the way I do things puts me at a disadvantage I reckon but its really all about the way you carry yourself. Getting drunk is not the answer, you look less cool than you think. If its nerves take one good shot of tequila/one swig of rum/vodka etc. and that is all, but don't rely on this crutch for much longer, you'll just seem less charming later on. Honestly if you have a high-sense of self-worth going into these types of functions is a breeze.

I don't know if looking up all of those guys is the best idea. A large influx of information will just cripple you game-wise. You should focus on one of them. Mehow is a hyper-active guy, his techniques reflect his hyper-active personality. If you don't want to look like you took a speedball or are just really hyper, or that isn't you at all I wouldn't really do Mehow's game. That's his game afterall. AFC Adam is my idol (next to Brad P). His game is much more normal, much more similar to a "player's" style of game. I think going into a party setting as a high-schooler his game is more suitable, but I am biased. Gambler's game is a little bit more calm than the others and gives off that "knowing" feel that is pretty coveted when speaking to a girl (it's like the endgame of the set is already set in stone, which makes it easier for the girl to get swept up in your pace). You should choose which game you want to play and study that. Do not move on to another game before you have mastered the first (if we're talking same genre of game), that just causes confusion.


I'd follow Sharkoff's advice on the openers because I definitely can't help with those....I'm more of a "throw my personality at the broad and she better like it or else I'll just have her friend instead" kind of guy. Also, you probably already know this but don't be a wallflower....that doesn't mean walk around doing nothing either, a wallflower can float around too. Actively seek people to speak to, I don't know if tactics is necessary, use your instincts to tell you when its time to go. High-fiving is the best thing ever invented. Remember that.

[limejuice]

I don't mean to unmotivate you (use it to say "screw that guy i'll show him") but not being a senior makes its tough unless you are cool with some seniors, otherwise you risk getting called out. but who gives a shit? as long as you're having fun thats all that matters.

i'm a senior and can tell you dances are so easy to work when you're confident and just don't give a shit. I request sandstorm and break out glowsticks at every dance and believe me when i say fucking crowds form. of course you have to learn how to do lightshows, but shit thats what youtube is for. if you can master that, it doesnt matter even if you're a freshman- you'll have a skill that no one else at the dance has or has the balls to break out even if they did.

just have fun and be a vag to girls... i mean dont be an asshole but dont be a pussy either..start dancing with girls that are just walking around that you dont even know

[Alek]

see in a club, as far as dance floor game goes. One of the MOST important things to do, is to be able to dance by urself and do so. Dont walk around looking for girls...thats a huge mistake. Be the one dancing, and having fun living in your own bubble - there is nothing weird about it. Make sure ur dancing, if ur on the floor. Girls will come to you.

But since this is a high school dance, it may be a little different I dont know.

[Caesar]

thanks guys, it went heaps well,
after i got my 1st grind, i was butfucking all the girls there one by one (not literally of course)
I built up massive social proof and in about 30 mine, everyone knew who i was.
and wen i was dancing alone, different girls cam and started dancing around me...
it was off tha chain...

thanks again 4 the tips

Caesar

[roserobin]

If You are taking Part in the Dace Competition Then You have to Think In Which Kind of Dance You have a Grip like Salsa,Cultural or What Ever.So decide Your dance in Which You have a nice Grip.then After Select the Songs as Per You Dance Type.Select the Costume Regarding Your Dance and Song.There is a One Grate Idea Mix up 3- 4 Song For One Dance.This Will Sound Different then the all other participant.

[britlee]

I do not know any thing about the dance but know one thing that if you do dance just let your self be on the bit and do not think that who is there or not.

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[n0c0ntr0l]

Well as far as dance halls go. They are loud like clubs, thus all about body language. Be dominant. You've got to create the most fun on the dancefloor. A decent way to get yourself surrounded by girls is to start a limbo belt, but tbh I'm not much of a trick monkey so I'd rather just grab eye contact off a girl, use my hands to get her to come my way, Take her hand, spin her around and bring her closer and then GRIND. You won't get laid off grinding, but it's fun.