Post by MarthXII on Mar 12, 2010 18:13:57 GMT -5
Now all of you have alot of questions that you ask yourself and things that put you down on and on about things such as :
"Can I do it?"
"What if I look stupid?"
"They wont like that"
"Wont I be a douche?"
"Wont they laugh at me?"
"They wont go for that"
"I need more of this before I can do anything"
"I run out of things to say and I get akward"
"Im not cool enough"
Etc, And Im sick of that shit lol. Degrading yourself and not giving even yourself a chance to improve. So thats why I made these 5 simple laws to reflect on and come back to every time you're in trouble.
The Laws are simple and you must use your imagination to to expand their meanings after i explain them simply and basically for you. They have never failed me in game and it took me a while to piece them together.
If you have any questions about the Laws feel free to post.
Law 1 (The most important step of them all and based on game itself, Thanks Grape)
"Never give yourself the reason of the doubt"
To my best standards, this means dont let your doubt take over your thought process and fuck up your game. If you always think that you will fail you will. If you dont give new things a try, you'll never advance in any motion whatsoever. And if you only try the minimum and leave it at that youll never achieve the Maximum.
Law 2 (Possibly the one thing where most fail at the beginning of their game and even in the far future of it)
"Know what you want"
If you dont know what you want, youll keep on going through your life and your game wanting everything you can see, or at least thinking that you want it when really its far from what you really want to achieve. Most people say they want girls, and others want girlfriends, others want friends and many want to fuck lol. But when you know what you want and set your goals to it youll be able to head closer to it and faster as well instead of diverging into something else.
Law 3 (Possibly the hardest thing to overcome, thanks Gay)
"Dont give a fuck"
This is what people should use to get rid of Approach Anxiety because its the main factor people lack. When you're constantly thinking about how things will affect you you will lose sight of what your really doing and fuck things up. Thats why most of the Guru's constantly say you need to practice more and more and things will come naturally. They come naturally because you start to believe that you are the most important thing in your life and start to not care what others think of you. This way you can achieve to talk to people naturally with your own ideals, and comments. When they see you are a person who is confident to express yourself in your own manner without giving a fuck, Attraction always occurs.
Law 4 (Thank you Paul Theberge or Ohmega for this It helped alot)
"Live your own Reality"
If you want to be cooler, then be cool. If you want to be funny, then be funny. If you want to achieve something, Then do it. If you find a charactaristic that someone has and you believe it will improve your game, Apply it. If you want to approach a set, Do it. This is an Ideal that you will have to aquire from learning from others. It is crucial for game.
Law 5 (Thanks Grape, Gay and Andrew for this)
"Do onto others as others would do onto you"
Yes, weve all heard this phrase. But do we actually understand its potential?
Whenever you want to do something, Imagine if someone did it to you. Would you like it or would you not. Just the same for making friends, If someone came up to you and showed you a couple of cool tricks and had a really confident attitude, Dont lie, You would totally want to learn more about this person and possibly be closer if you could. Same for girls, Apply it to yourself and to girls, After all. As Grape, Andrew and Gay said before, Girls are just guys with Pussies
Law 6 (What most people miss out on in Life, taken from "The 50th Law" by Robert Greene and 50 cent)
"Rely only on yourself in times of need"
I think what fucks most people up in this world is relying on someone else for things. Just like relationships, when you break up you feel so horrible about it. But why? Was it because you loved her, Yes. But where does the pain come from? It comes from knowing that you wont be able to rely on someone for love and mating. This is human nature at its Deepest and we must understand that if we dont rely on ourselfs, We will fall adrift to the side and let people push us over. After all, the greatest men in life, are the ones that achieve things for themselfs, and by themselfs.
Actually I think this is my first post to actually say something usefull about game xD. Sidehugs to all!
"Can I do it?"
"What if I look stupid?"
"They wont like that"
"Wont I be a douche?"
"Wont they laugh at me?"
"They wont go for that"
"I need more of this before I can do anything"
"I run out of things to say and I get akward"
"Im not cool enough"
Etc, And Im sick of that shit lol. Degrading yourself and not giving even yourself a chance to improve. So thats why I made these 5 simple laws to reflect on and come back to every time you're in trouble.
The Laws are simple and you must use your imagination to to expand their meanings after i explain them simply and basically for you. They have never failed me in game and it took me a while to piece them together.
If you have any questions about the Laws feel free to post.
Law 1 (The most important step of them all and based on game itself, Thanks Grape)
"Never give yourself the reason of the doubt"
To my best standards, this means dont let your doubt take over your thought process and fuck up your game. If you always think that you will fail you will. If you dont give new things a try, you'll never advance in any motion whatsoever. And if you only try the minimum and leave it at that youll never achieve the Maximum.
Law 2 (Possibly the one thing where most fail at the beginning of their game and even in the far future of it)
"Know what you want"
If you dont know what you want, youll keep on going through your life and your game wanting everything you can see, or at least thinking that you want it when really its far from what you really want to achieve. Most people say they want girls, and others want girlfriends, others want friends and many want to fuck lol. But when you know what you want and set your goals to it youll be able to head closer to it and faster as well instead of diverging into something else.
Law 3 (Possibly the hardest thing to overcome, thanks Gay)
"Dont give a fuck"
This is what people should use to get rid of Approach Anxiety because its the main factor people lack. When you're constantly thinking about how things will affect you you will lose sight of what your really doing and fuck things up. Thats why most of the Guru's constantly say you need to practice more and more and things will come naturally. They come naturally because you start to believe that you are the most important thing in your life and start to not care what others think of you. This way you can achieve to talk to people naturally with your own ideals, and comments. When they see you are a person who is confident to express yourself in your own manner without giving a fuck, Attraction always occurs.
Law 4 (Thank you Paul Theberge or Ohmega for this It helped alot)
"Live your own Reality"
If you want to be cooler, then be cool. If you want to be funny, then be funny. If you want to achieve something, Then do it. If you find a charactaristic that someone has and you believe it will improve your game, Apply it. If you want to approach a set, Do it. This is an Ideal that you will have to aquire from learning from others. It is crucial for game.
Law 5 (Thanks Grape, Gay and Andrew for this)
"Do onto others as others would do onto you"
Yes, weve all heard this phrase. But do we actually understand its potential?
Whenever you want to do something, Imagine if someone did it to you. Would you like it or would you not. Just the same for making friends, If someone came up to you and showed you a couple of cool tricks and had a really confident attitude, Dont lie, You would totally want to learn more about this person and possibly be closer if you could. Same for girls, Apply it to yourself and to girls, After all. As Grape, Andrew and Gay said before, Girls are just guys with Pussies
Law 6 (What most people miss out on in Life, taken from "The 50th Law" by Robert Greene and 50 cent)
"Rely only on yourself in times of need"
I think what fucks most people up in this world is relying on someone else for things. Just like relationships, when you break up you feel so horrible about it. But why? Was it because you loved her, Yes. But where does the pain come from? It comes from knowing that you wont be able to rely on someone for love and mating. This is human nature at its Deepest and we must understand that if we dont rely on ourselfs, We will fall adrift to the side and let people push us over. After all, the greatest men in life, are the ones that achieve things for themselfs, and by themselfs.
Actually I think this is my first post to actually say something usefull about game xD. Sidehugs to all!
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