Half of a facebook convo Failed :/

[amantheman]

It started out alright she was super enthusiastic cause she was bored but it jsut dwindled an dwindled to basically nothing...

she passed out giving blood so she was at home an i teased her bout that an then we talked about cookies ( they gave her some to eat) an then i tried to do taht thing where u guess the two number 7 an 3 an i failed lol. convo just slowwed down after that an i couldnt get it back. any suggestions how i could have made it more interesting?

Eamon

is it....

7?
2:13pmBrittany

close

but no\
2:14pmEamon

haha damn

aright now think of one between 1 an 5

try this one my time lol
2:14pmBrittany

ok
2:14pmEamon

ummm 3?
2:14pmBrittany

haha no
2:14pmEamon

shit

im a pretty lousy psychic lol
2:15pmBrittany

lol

it was 6 the first

and 1 the second
2:15pmEamon

wow i was kinda close on the first...

so watcha gonna do with your day off?
2:16pmBrittany

yup
2:17pmEamon

anything?
2:17pmBrittany

um..

sitting here

talking to you
2:17pmEamon

ouch that bad?

i thought u had a car
2:18pmBrittany

yeah

not my lisence and I wouldn't even try to drive in this condition
2:18pmEamon

o that sucks. im goin to a concert tonight u coulda drove out an chilled with me
2:19pmBrittany

ha. sorry

i'm going to CA this summer
2:19pmEamon

oh nice that should be tight

how long u staying?
2:19pmBrittany

not syure

not even sure where i'm staying
2:20pmEamon

southern thou right?
2:20pmBrittany

SC

Middle..

ish
2:21pmEamon

haha yea cause nobody visits north. like ever.
2:22pmBrittany

I'm from Santa Cruz, it's the most amazing place i've ever been
2:22pmEamon

o yea i think i remember u saying that

u know where San Juan Capistrano is? thats where im from
2:23pmBrittany

yupp
2:24pmEamon

its a pretty nice town, really tourist trappy thou

hey how far is san jose from u?
2:26pmBrittany

from me.. now?

i'm in fayetteville...

but from SC it's not that far at all
2:26pmEamon

nah from santa cruz lol haha not from arkansas dont be a dork
2:26pmBrittany

well you said from you??

And I'm here!

lol
2:27pmEamon

lol aright my bad

haha yea that would be nearly 2000 miles lol
2:29pmEamon

you feeling any better?
2:29pmBrittany

not really

still dizzzy
2:30pmEamon

wow that sucks

haha did u see that movie twilight?

[amantheman]

haha she got back on lol # close ;D

2:41pmBrittany
sorry computer spazzed out
2:42pmBrittany

you there?
2:43pmEamon

o yea sorry i was on the phone
2:41pm
Brittany is listed as single.
2:44pmEamon

uh oh
2:44pmBrittany

it's cool
2:44pmEamon

why are u single?
2:44pmBrittany

what?
2:44pmEamon

it just popped up brittany is listed as single
2:44pmBrittany

he's in the army..

he's a total pot head.
2:45pmEamon

haha sounds like a fun guy
2:45pmBrittany

and refused to talk to me when he was high, therefore..

we never talked..

lol
2:45pmEamon

haha why wouldnt he talk to u when he was high?
2:45pmBrittany

he didn't want to piss me off
2:46pmEamon

ohh u dont smoke at all?
2:46pmBrittany

so I told him congradulations dumb fuck. you did it anyways!

nope

I can't

and I can't be around much smoke
2:46pmEamon

o asthma?
2:46pmBrittany

Mom smoke through her pregnancy with me so I have a small case of asthma but it's way bad around smoke

and i'm allergic to pot..
2:47pmEamon

o wow that sucks i dont smoke anymore my lungs were getting super shitty
2:47pmBrittany

that's good

that means we can hang out

lol
2:47pmEamon

haha yea i guesss that could be fun
2:48pmBrittany

you know it would.. come on..

lol
2:48pmEamon

well idunno i think u might be too much of a good girl for me...
2:50pmBrittany

what?!

no you didn't
2:50pmEamon

o yes i did haha
2:50pmBrittany

just cause I don't smoke doesn't mean i'm a total goody-two-shoes
2:50pmEamon

i never said that i dont smoke anymore either

its just...

haha forget it
2:51pmBrittany

No

tell me

you can explain it and i'll brb
2:52pmEamon

you just used to roll wit alot of goody kids thats all. for real thou wats the worst thing you've ever done?
2:53pmBrittany

what do you mean by goody kids?

you don't know me like that


2:54pmEamon

maybe i dont it just seemed that way
2:54pmBrittany

and i'm not telling you the worst thing i've done..

sorry
2:55pmEamon

o why not? too bad?
2:55pmBrittany

i was on drugs for a long time

my brother got me started when I was 12

and that's as much as i'm saying
2:55pmEamon

o really? wow...
2:56pmBrittany

yup

so no i'm not a total goody
2:56pmEamon

i guess i was way wrong about u lol ur the bad one an IM the good one
2:56pmBrittany

i'm just smart about it

lol
2:57pmEamon

yea i guess so. but ur totally clean now?
2:58pmBrittany

as far as drugs yeah.

I just drink
2:58pmEamon

everybody drinks
2:58pmBrittany

I don't find pleasure in getting hammered though

not true
2:59pmEamon

only occasionally its fun. even straight edge kids drink sometimes
2:59pmBrittany

not the ones i know

lol

they wouldn't be totally straight edge.. they'd be mostly straight edge with a nook in them..
3:00pmEamon

lol i guess not EVERYBODY. haha a nook nice
3:00pmBrittany

yup


3:01pmEamon



lol

do u still see dominic ever?
3:01pmBrittany

]]

yeah I do.. but we don't talk much

he pissed me off
3:02pmEamon

o wow how do u make that one?

lol wat did he do?
3:02pmBrittany

: | ] lol all together..
3:02pmEamon

haha sweet
3:03pmBrittany

and he asked me out and told me if i said no we couldn't even be friends any more.. so I told him if he was willing to lose a friendship over that he was fucking crazy and could get the fuck out of my life.
3:03pmEamon

wow shit talk about controlling lol

he was kinda a douche but he was funny
3:03pmBrittany

yup

so he took that.. and idk we haven't talked since than really

I love him to death, he's just stupid
3:04pmEamon

i havent seen him in ages

wonder how hes doin
3:05pmBrittany

he's goingn to FHS now...

i see him, he lookes like he's doing fine
3:05pmEamon

is he really? i thought he still went to subi
3:05pmBrittany

nope

he dropped out
3:06pmEamon

tell him i say hey next time u see him
3:06pmBrittany

i helped him move out

the night you guys had that dance like a couple months ago...

ok i'll tell him
3:06pmEamon

oh huh

i dont go there anymore either dunno if u knew
3:07pmBrittany

nope

did not know that
3:07pmEamon

yea i got kicked out last year right before it ended

it was pretty lame
3:08pmBrittany

nice

what did you do?
3:08pmEamon

it was back when i smoked

me an a buddy got caught... again
3:09pmBrittany

nice
3:09pmEamon

at least they gave us credit for the year thou it woulda blown if they hadnt
3:09pmBrittany

lol

wait.. so where are you now?
3:10pmEamon

im in ******* arkansas lol
3:10pmBrittany

living there? or just school?
3:10pmEamon

living

my parents bought a fishing place out here
3:10pmBrittany

nice..

well i have to go run errands for my dad.
3:10pmEamon

no not really
3:10pmBrittany

call if you want to keep talking
3:10pmEamon

o aright its cool
3:10pmBrittany

NUMBAH
3:10pmEamon

uhh maybe some other time im about to head
3:11pmBrittany

haha ok.

later
3:11pmEamon

good talkin to u thou
3:11pmBrittany

you too

[optimus]

Is that number real? Because posting it's probly not a good idea.
And that formatting is really annoying.

The main problem in your game is that you're trying to comfort her about losing her boyfriend. That's the easiest way to get LJBF'd ever. You shouldn't have brought it up. If she wanted to talk about it she would have mentioned it.

I saw a couple of times that you tried to keep the mood light, but she just doused it. You didn't get the number because she's interested in you, you got it because she needs a shoulder to cry on.

On the bright side, it is possible to salvage, but it's going to be difficult

[Dream]

Also, try to frame things positively like
"I'm going to a concert tonight, you should drive down and chill with me" rather than
im goin to a concert tonight u coulda drove out an chilled with me

also, try not to comfort her so much and talk about her negative experiences, it just anchors her emotions about that to you

[amantheman]

Oh yea duh thats stupid of me lol. i realized i posted where i live/went to school too so i should prolly edit all that.

aright.

ouch yea i kinda got that impression too that she was just bored an lookin for somebody to talk too.

so if it gets brought up again just lead the convo away from it back to positive things? like instead of dwelling on why she broke up wit him go into a funny story about a pot smoking ex gf?

[SenorBubbz]

Keep it off drugs man. Talking about any drugs brings back memories of her addict days.

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