I cant be an alpha around this kid

[eryx]

so theres this kid who moved to my school last year in 9th grade. He was in one of my classes. I got to know him pretty well, i chilled with him during lunch but he was usually nonchalant around me. We were kinda friends. I would be a good friend, laugh at the jokes he would make even if i didnt think it was that funny. When i would make one, he would sometimes just have this blank expression on his face. Somehow, he made a lot of girl and guy friends pretty fast at my school. When i would see him talking to them, i'd just get this feeling of jealousy. Towards the end of last year, i tried to not have anything to do with him so i wouldnt get that feeling anymore.

so now the 10th grade started, and he wasnt in any of my classes. Well, until recently when he switched into one of them. I loved that class before he switched, now everytime i go i feel uncomfortable and i cant amog the class like i was doing pretty well before.

I dont know what to do. He isnt the amog of my class, he mostly just sits there and doesnt talk much. Its just that his presence prevents me from being one. I guess im just intimidated by him.

Any advice?

[darkpwns]

Don't know what to tell you man. You're just kind of pussy footing around. Don't make excuses for yourself.

If you can't act as you normally did when this kid is around you probably didn't internalize it and he just brings out the AFC you still are. Probably because it looks like he's got it easy, while you had to work at it.

Befriend the dude again and work on your issues. Or else you'd be lacking in good friends later on.

[eryx]

lacking in good friends later on?

you mean by the ones i would make as an amog in that class?

[darkpwns]

No. I mean if you can't be friends with people that can easily make friends or have exciting romantic lives, you'll miss out on good friends in the future.

As those types can help you in the future. They've got value, they're good people to keep around.

[RMO]

I completely agree with king, if you arent alpha around him, then you still have quite a bit of identity building to work on, have fun.

[kyle]

Dude I had a similar problem, you have to stop thinking about it so much. Also if you feel intimidated by the guy then you probably are thinking that youre not as cool/alpha as him. Stop fucking thinking and do what you were doing in your class before he got there.if you do he will see that the class likes you and this makes you seem more alpha. Does this shit help?

[britlee]

I think this is a really good one for the parents and it make them understand about the kids and it is for the teachers also.

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