Post by Eastcoast on Jun 29, 2010 22:14:54 GMT -5
Dance Floor game (High school edition)
Ok guys so dances are a part of high school that you can definitely have some fun at. Heres some tips, I talked to a bunch of girls about what they like and stuff but if you wanna add anything go for it.
** These are the dances ive been to, grinding is pretty much the only dancing that happens. Other than on the slow songs where people slow dance. Might be different where you’re from. Also a lot of guys say that they don’t have dances, so if that’s you I guess this wouldn’t really apply.
Before You go
Your gonna get all fresh looking for it. Most the dances ive been to have gotten really warm so definitely don’t wear too much clothing. If it’s a theme dance definitely consider putting the little bit of time to make a costume. Neon and Jungle themes are popular and super easy to make a costume for so do it. For jungle theme I bought two cheap t shirts and cut holes on the outer one. For neon just buy a 3 dollar white t and get some sorta neon on it not hard to do. Girls definitely like the effort and you can stand out if you make it awesome.
Showing up
If you wanna get drunk or high be real careful cause that’s where you’ll most likely get caught and usually the consequences are pretty harsh. At my school its an automatic 5 day suspension so you have to decide if it’s worth the risk. Its fun to go with some buddies to the dance and get the music going in your car to get you all pumped up. Show up at a decent time don’t be the first one there just cause that’s no fun at all ,I like a half hour late its enough that the people are warming up a bit, doesn’t really matter that much though whenever you feel good is fine.
Once your in
Once you get in the best thing you can do is get in the mood for dancing, try to feel the music and just get stoked to have a good time. I like to dance with my friends who are girls first to get me in the dancing mood. I find this helps you avoid getting scared of asking girls to dance.
Asking girls to Dance
I just try to walk up and look confident try to make some solid eye contact, that’s pretty much all you can do. Your going to be judged on your looks a lot if you don’t know her and if you do she’s probably already made her mind up. For asking her a simple “do you wanna dance” works fine or you can just grab her hands and lead her to the dance floor. Kind of a nice touch. Now you don’t necessarily have to ask her, you can just grab on from behind and this does work. But I find its better to ask or pull her from the front because you can make eye contact and she actually knows your not some random creeper. After that Dance with whoever you want, if a girl says no to you, no big deal, it’s her loss and it’s just a dance not a big deal. If you’re not dancing don’t be the wall flower. You can dance a little by yourself while you’re finding girls or weed yourself through the crowd looking for someone who isn’t taken. Most the dances ive been to standing by yourself and dancing in one spot is kinda taboo but if your confident and can pull it off go for it.
How to dance
If you’ve never grinded before, don’t freak out, anyone who has will tell you its real simple. Just put your hands around her waist and just follow the rhythm, I like grinding from behind the best there is grinding from the front, it’s not bad and easier for kissing but it can be kinda awkward if you or the girl isn’t really on the same page. For dancing from behind I talked to a bunch of different girls and it’s all over the place for the best spot to put your hands. I’m a fan of right on the hips cause you can follow the rhythm easier. You can put them on the thighs too or just wrap your hands all the way around her waist and grab them. You can kinda feel out where she likes them.
You gotta feel out the dance itself, literally, let your hands roam if you want. After dancing for a while its easy to tell if a girls interested in you or not. Just judge the amount of effort she’s putting in. If she’s really going at it and you know she’s ready to be kissed go for it. Just lean over her shoulder and kiss her on the cheek or she will turn her head and start kissing. You can spin her around from there and grind her from the front while kissing if you want. Also you can go for fingering her but I personally don’t like it kinda feels dirty doing it on the dance floor and depending on what she’s wearing you cant get your fingers in.
The dreaded boner
So that’s pretty much it other than the issue of boners. If you get one your not gonna be able to hide it and you shouldn’t have to. Embrace that boner, your supposed to have it. All the girls’ ive talked to have said that they don’t mind it and many of them like it. So keep going and hopefully you won’t break it off haha.
That’s all I got. Be confident. Enjoy yourself, that’s what dances are for.
Ok guys so dances are a part of high school that you can definitely have some fun at. Heres some tips, I talked to a bunch of girls about what they like and stuff but if you wanna add anything go for it.
** These are the dances ive been to, grinding is pretty much the only dancing that happens. Other than on the slow songs where people slow dance. Might be different where you’re from. Also a lot of guys say that they don’t have dances, so if that’s you I guess this wouldn’t really apply.
Before You go
Your gonna get all fresh looking for it. Most the dances ive been to have gotten really warm so definitely don’t wear too much clothing. If it’s a theme dance definitely consider putting the little bit of time to make a costume. Neon and Jungle themes are popular and super easy to make a costume for so do it. For jungle theme I bought two cheap t shirts and cut holes on the outer one. For neon just buy a 3 dollar white t and get some sorta neon on it not hard to do. Girls definitely like the effort and you can stand out if you make it awesome.
Showing up
If you wanna get drunk or high be real careful cause that’s where you’ll most likely get caught and usually the consequences are pretty harsh. At my school its an automatic 5 day suspension so you have to decide if it’s worth the risk. Its fun to go with some buddies to the dance and get the music going in your car to get you all pumped up. Show up at a decent time don’t be the first one there just cause that’s no fun at all ,I like a half hour late its enough that the people are warming up a bit, doesn’t really matter that much though whenever you feel good is fine.
Once your in
Once you get in the best thing you can do is get in the mood for dancing, try to feel the music and just get stoked to have a good time. I like to dance with my friends who are girls first to get me in the dancing mood. I find this helps you avoid getting scared of asking girls to dance.
Asking girls to Dance
I just try to walk up and look confident try to make some solid eye contact, that’s pretty much all you can do. Your going to be judged on your looks a lot if you don’t know her and if you do she’s probably already made her mind up. For asking her a simple “do you wanna dance” works fine or you can just grab her hands and lead her to the dance floor. Kind of a nice touch. Now you don’t necessarily have to ask her, you can just grab on from behind and this does work. But I find its better to ask or pull her from the front because you can make eye contact and she actually knows your not some random creeper. After that Dance with whoever you want, if a girl says no to you, no big deal, it’s her loss and it’s just a dance not a big deal. If you’re not dancing don’t be the wall flower. You can dance a little by yourself while you’re finding girls or weed yourself through the crowd looking for someone who isn’t taken. Most the dances ive been to standing by yourself and dancing in one spot is kinda taboo but if your confident and can pull it off go for it.
How to dance
If you’ve never grinded before, don’t freak out, anyone who has will tell you its real simple. Just put your hands around her waist and just follow the rhythm, I like grinding from behind the best there is grinding from the front, it’s not bad and easier for kissing but it can be kinda awkward if you or the girl isn’t really on the same page. For dancing from behind I talked to a bunch of different girls and it’s all over the place for the best spot to put your hands. I’m a fan of right on the hips cause you can follow the rhythm easier. You can put them on the thighs too or just wrap your hands all the way around her waist and grab them. You can kinda feel out where she likes them.
You gotta feel out the dance itself, literally, let your hands roam if you want. After dancing for a while its easy to tell if a girls interested in you or not. Just judge the amount of effort she’s putting in. If she’s really going at it and you know she’s ready to be kissed go for it. Just lean over her shoulder and kiss her on the cheek or she will turn her head and start kissing. You can spin her around from there and grind her from the front while kissing if you want. Also you can go for fingering her but I personally don’t like it kinda feels dirty doing it on the dance floor and depending on what she’s wearing you cant get your fingers in.
The dreaded boner
So that’s pretty much it other than the issue of boners. If you get one your not gonna be able to hide it and you shouldn’t have to. Embrace that boner, your supposed to have it. All the girls’ ive talked to have said that they don’t mind it and many of them like it. So keep going and hopefully you won’t break it off haha.
That’s all I got. Be confident. Enjoy yourself, that’s what dances are for.
