neil
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Post by neil on Sept 2, 2010 19:10:24 GMT -5
Hi Im Neil  . As a Junior in HS and as a person who has known about the pick up community since 7th grade, its really frustrating to still find myself as a major AFC  . Everyday during lunch, for years, my friend and I say we will approach but never do. I have my eye on this HB9 and we dont have any classes together, so the only way i could talk to her is during lunch. More than anything I would love to be with her but i'm not sure how i should go about doing it. After the Opener what do i do? What do i say to seduce her (pick her up)? Description about her: Long Black Hair Mexican Lip piercing (I have a lip piercing too) Nice tits Nice ass She wears shorts like every day I'm sick of being such a wuss and i have no idea how to change. I would really appriciate it if you guys(my brothers) could help. I need a mentor, a teacher to teach me the pua ways. THANKS ALOT!!!! P.S. Sorry if it was too long... |
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Post by Luis the awesomest of awesomes on Sept 2, 2010 21:12:53 GMT -5
ok here is my tip,
approach a girl who you know you won't care afterwards.
then when AA approaches. do it no matter what,
if you want to ease into it then here is how:
ask someone random a question and get your answer then walk away, get used to that then approaching will be easy
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neil
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Post by neil on Sept 3, 2010 16:46:25 GMT -5
oh thats a good idea...
thank you!!
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Traxx
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There's a difference between knowledge and wisdom. Be wise and know things from experience.
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Post by Traxx on Sept 4, 2010 21:19:03 GMT -5
Remember there is a difference between knowledge and wisdom. Knowledge just means you know things while wisdom means you know things from experience. Be the guy with wisdom and get out there. (Thats gonna be my new personal text  ) If a singer had their first concert in front of a million people, they wouldn't know what the hell to do with themselves. How do they start out? With hundreds of smaller gigs over time. You can't just start out with your main target when you can't pick up a single girl. Start small then go big. |
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Post by igotwheelz on Oct 14, 2010 15:19:36 GMT -5
whats a afc |
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Nick
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Whether you think you can or can't... You are right.
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Post by Nick on Oct 14, 2010 17:28:51 GMT -5
An AFC is an Average Frustrated Chump. I'm pretty sure there is a definition guide around here somewhere. If not it's easy to look up using google.
Basically an AFC is about 80% of the guys out there. They barely get women and are frustrated... AFCs come in all shapes and sizes ranging from nice guys(ie: nerds) to assholes(ie: jocks, jerks) and everything in between.
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narrator
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Post by narrator on Nov 27, 2010 0:01:46 GMT -5
I'm having similar problems I can't break my AA and other social shyness. I think I'm going to try the random questions. Are there any other exercises that could help?
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Post by scripts on Nov 27, 2010 9:35:48 GMT -5
I'm having similar problems I can't break my AA and other social shyness. I think I'm going to try the random questions. Are there any other exercises that could help? Someone suggested talking to girls like their your guy friends, like calling them man, bro, etc. |
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narrator
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Post by narrator on Nov 27, 2010 23:15:04 GMT -5
Sounds good i'll try it out and post a field report.
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Post by kyle on Nov 28, 2010 15:01:49 GMT -5
Dude, I had the exact same problem you do. Want to know how I got over it?
Slowly. All you have to do is practice. Every single day, and it WILL come to you. Once you can have a chill conversation with a girl for about 30 min, only then start worrying about trying to pick her up. You want to have natural conversation skill before you try any cocky funny or shitty canned routines. And forget your mexican hb9 for now. Go out , get experience, experiment, and stop apologizing for everything! but congrats though, you've taken the first step.
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