What to say?

[timmywimmy]

Alright guys ive gotten my confidince up a bit so i think i could approach girls but i still dotn know what id say. Should i say hey whats up or something like that or what? Also how do i leave like i assume that part would be pretty akward when i walk away so can someone tell me how to apprach have a good convo (number close if possible) and then leave without her thinking im weird. (PS i am in grade 9 so will it work with older chicks to not expecting grade 12's or 11's but maybe 10s)

[Sloth]

forget everything you're thinking of doing.

You will fail, it's inevitable.
Experience is drawn from mistakes.

Just go up and say something, look at canned openers if you must - and look at routines if you're that nervous

but really it's not about what you say, just how you go about it.

[timmywimmy]

So how do i go about it? and are you saying im gonna get shut down my first few times?

[friedice]

YES you'll get shut down the first few times you also shouldn't give up and continue to think positively just when you talk to people think of it as an adreneline rush or a high. Be positive with your approach and it will instantly be more positive of an interaction

[timmywimmy]

So what walk up to a random chick in the hall say hey whats up try to create a convo if i get shut down then what?

[Sloth]

You get a great sense of accomplishment regardless. Getting shut off is scary but once its over its over, just keep ploughing through.

walk up to a random chick and say hey i'm ____, can i ask you something'
blah blah what?
(example question) 'well my friends throwing a costume party and i have no idea what to go as'

blah blah blah - maybe she'll be interested and ask questions about the party - even if it's a fake party you could say 'you should come'

Anyway like i said it doesn't matter what you say - and check out canned shit like i suggested

BUT REMEMBER
don't walk up thinking 'time to get shut off' - we have no idea whether or not you will, walk up thinking you're going to do well and you will, sometimes girls are bitches, if you approach ten girls, one will probably be a bitch or have a boyfriend, so you'll get shut down.

don't expect it, but be prepared.

happy humping

[timmywimmy]

Alright thanks and where can i check out some canned routines

[Shampoo]

Dude not trying to stop you from reaching your "goals" but I think your better off hanging out with friends that YOU have that has access to girls that you all can hang out with. Atleast 60% of the girls I know are from my friends knowing them and me meeting them. You know what they say, "Its not how good you are, its who you know."

[Sloth]

I'm sorry but that last line is bullshit.

Who you know is a great advantage, but game is about how good your are, it's about becoming natural.

It's cool that you meet girls through your friends - but your friends should be meeting girls through you.

Canned material is all over the internet, google that shit man.

[Sloth]

although i really don't recommend canned material, just if you really need it

[Kev]

Once i saw this reallly cute chick and i purposely but softly bumped into her and i looked at like she was a weirdo and said ''are you ok?'' and she had the biggest smile ever and i smiled and i just started talking to her. Side Note; this may not work on all girls cause some girls might be creeped out or look at you weird, and make sure you do it softly dont bump the girl over she might slap you lol.