How to get a pair of balls

[timmywimmy]

Alright guys im not gonna lie im have absoultly no balls when it comes to girls. I get so nervous over hanging out with them 1-1 and just seem like a loser. Also i cant apporach a girl thats by herself or with friends at all unless i know her a good amount. I freeze up and have nothing to say and it just gets akward. The worst part is i atuallly got a gf (about an 8 no idea how i pulled that off ) but honestly i had nothing to say to her and the most i got was a hug and it was akward as shit because i was so nervous around her. We broke up after not even a week... anyways so pretty much i have less balls with chicks then a 10 year old. How do you guys get the balls any mind tricks or anything just tell me how you first got over your fear of rejection

[kyle]

Nov 19, 2010 21:38:10 GMT -5 timmywimmy said:

tell me how you first got over your fear of rejection

Practice!!! You need to realise that making mistakes is a GOOD thing it means that you have an opportunity to learn from it. The only way to get really good at something is to do it again and again until it feels natural. One thing that i did that helps a lot is to walk around a mall and smile and say "Hi" to EVERYONE that walks past you. this includes everyone from old men to girls your age, even if theyre 3s or 4s.

Nov 19, 2010 21:38:10 GMT -5 timmywimmy said:

any mind tricks or anything

Ive heard NLP is useful here. Just search the forum for a thread about it. The only thing is, when you say you want "mind tricks" it sounds like youre trying to find an easy way out. (its a natural thing to do) You have to make sure to actually put effort in, or you wont get much out.

Peace!

[Shampoo]

Dude, first try to figure out why your getting nervous before you start going off running with "Mind Tricks". Once you figure THAT out Timmy, find ways of HOW you can fix it.

[canadiankid]

Just socialize alot man. I definitly had that same problem but I'm getting over it. Before this school year I couldn't keep a girls attention for more than a minute. Last night I had 6 girls in my hot tub for 45 minutes, while everyone else was inside. I don't profess to be perfect or even good at this (I shoulda k-closed one of them later but I pussed out). So practice, everyone has to, and besides what have you got to lose?

[Traxx]

Read up on alot of inner game stuff that is available in these forums. If you have the time, get David Deangelo's Inner Game and Hypnotica's Collection of Confidence as these are what helped me overcome my own barriers.

Also, just start to not care about what other people think. Go up to any random person with an attitude of wanting to have fun, make them feel good and laugh, and most likely you'll have a new friend or potential target. Doing this repeatedly over time can help you get over your insecurities and nervousness.

[scripts]

MM says to follow the three second rule. Also another thing is that people aren't usually mean so just talk to them like normal and that should help. It worked for me, try it for yourself.

Nov 19, 2010 21:38:10 GMT -5 timmywimmy said:

Alright guys im not gonna lie im have absoultly no balls when it comes to girls. I get so nervous over hanging out with them 1-1 and just seem like a loser. Also i cant apporach a girl thats by herself or with friends at all unless i know her a good amount. I freeze up and have nothing to say and it just gets akward. The worst part is i atuallly got a gf (about an 8 no idea how i pulled that off ) but honestly i had nothing to say to her and the most i got was a hug and it was akward as shit because i was so nervous around her. We broke up after not even a week... anyways so pretty much i have less balls with chicks then a 10 year old. How do you guys get the balls any mind tricks or anything just tell me how you first got over your fear of rejection

[RMO]

Please dont preach MM, not here man. you have to be fast yes, no wallflowering, but just approaching in 3 secs doesn't necessarily mean you have balls. I takes balls to maintain seductive eye contact too.

[timmywimmy]

whats the 3 second rule?

[RMO]

the three second rule is a MM tatic where you have three seconds to go into set as soon as you enter a venue, or you lose value. Its also used to force guys into sets. Some guys, think alpha male sean connery status, dont have to do that, they can go in at their leisure.

[owl]

The 3 second rule can be for certain people, a good stepping stone into that Sean Connery-esque type of approach.

And stop giving a flying fuck. No one's going to bite you for talking to them. Go into every conversation you hold with a positive mindset.

Now get off the computer and try it. Obviously easier said than done of course, but it really is the only way. Keep on trying friend.