Adam
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Post by Adam on Nov 24, 2010 19:35:35 GMT -5
Hey I'm new to the boards and I need help. I'm a freshman at this art high school and im in dance. there are like 20 HB8's to HB9's in my class but I didn't know about the pick up community when I started. I kept on acting stand offish and when a girl tried to approach me I'd act completely cold to her turning her off.
So basicly I wrecked my whole harem I've been able to practice on some girls (2 in my dance class) and I'm confident in my ability to at least get to C1 (comfort building) but when the next day comes I have no energy and act completely cold.
So basically how do I undo the shit I've done and how do I follow through the next day or avoid girls and not hurt my game.
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Post by canadiankid on Nov 24, 2010 19:51:45 GMT -5
I'm gonna start off by saying time. It will take time to fix this and time to become a pua. Your problem was probably lack of congruency, used to be mine too, because you used shit that wasn't designed for high school. Negs and that stuff doesn't work. I learnt the hard way, people will just think your your an ass. The only thing you really need to work on is inner game coupled with just being a fun, cool guy. Be the man every damn girl thinks is fucking sexy and funny. This will give you value and eliminat the need to DHV. It will also give you high quality friends and things will just start going your way. Anyways your doing good by trying but beware of the canned material trap. Good luck bro!
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Adam
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Post by Adam on Nov 25, 2010 14:21:01 GMT -5
Thanks for the help. I'm really good at dhving and thank you for saying negs don't work. I watched mystery and neil and the only thing that wasn't working for me were negs. Also how do you work on inner game that might be my problem. My low energy is a handicap in field
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Post by canadiankid on Nov 25, 2010 14:52:44 GMT -5
Read the books in Prodigys post "let it begin" or something to that effect. Also the confidence/inner game sections on this forum. Negs are for cold pick up in a club type setting where women have bitch shields. DHVing in high school is mostly a popularity contest lol
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Adam
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Post by Adam on Nov 26, 2010 18:33:01 GMT -5
But how do I start. Every girl there thinks I`m a distant person so I don`t know how to approach people who already know old me.
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Post by RMO on Nov 26, 2010 19:27:23 GMT -5
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Post by Contempt on Nov 28, 2010 22:00:39 GMT -5
Often, people arent concerned with how you acted before, as opposed to how you are acting now, at this moment. just start.
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