How to get talking to girls from classes

[alex77]

I'm basically wonder how you can go from just sometimes talking to a girl in class to "talking to her" ie chilling with her alot, texting her ect, the point where everyone knows you're about to go out. I mean lately I've been trying to talk to more girls at my school but I'm not sure how to not fall into the friend zone bullshit. Another thing that makes it hard is that the social scene at my school, a small christian school, is weird. the "High value" guys all date and hang out with girls from different schools so there isnt much interaction between them and the hotter girls. It also makes me confused as to what my social value is, I played football so I hang out with the "high value" guys from the football team during school but outside of school I chill with different people. I don't talk much in class and I'm pretty chill and like sleep a lot in class and shit. I think I'm viewed pretty positively by most of the girls but at the same time I'm not sure if I'm really "high value". So basically I'm wondering how I should go about both talking to more girls and going from just talking occaisionally in class to texting a lot and chilling and shit.

[dcfly]

I don't know what the academic culture is at your school, but at mine, which is also a small christian school, but worse because it is all guys with some coed classes with our sister school, intelligence is highly valued. So participation in class is good if this is the case, b/c it exudes confidence, just dont be over-eager. Even if your school is less academic, you shouldn't sleep in class, it looks like "wallflowering", rather than looking like you are aloof, which is what I am assuming you are aiming for. Instead talk to people, flirt with girls, crack jokes IF you are funny, etc.

But on to your problem, I generally just befriend her friends, and if they like you, they will invite you to hang out. Also, read some of the things on this forum on how to generate attraction, I specifically like Andrew's Journal - highschoolpuas.proboards.com/index.cgi?board=staffsociety&action=display&thread=748&page=1

Another solution is to hit on her at parties and shit like that. Ask for her number after one, and text her then. If you both go to drinking parties (i don't know how christian your school is, but i assume you have them), then try to make a move. The drinking one I personally dont use, those for me are more one-and-done, but it seems to work out well for the high value guys at my school.

In short, there is no exact science, and it is not very different than befriending a dude; the only difference is there is sexual tension. I know its a cliche around here, but girls are people too. Hope this helped, and best of luck.