king2423
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Registered: Oct 15, 2010 0:03:44 GMT -5
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Post by king2423 on Mar 23, 2011 21:54:26 GMT -5
Today at school i felt kinda jealous of my friend(natural). He always has girls checking him out and everybody sees him as your typical high school prep. I try to dress like one but i dont really get noticed for doing that as much as he does. He always has different girls hanging out with. In one of my classes this girl kept telling me to tell him that she thinks he's cute and that kinda got me down. I dont know how i can keep up with him.
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infamous93
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Life is easy.
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Registered: Mar 15, 2011 17:29:22 GMT -5
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Post by infamous93 on Mar 24, 2011 0:26:29 GMT -5
Befriend him and you to will reap the rewards. But seriously dude befriend him and make yourself his equal and you will have girls obsessed with you just like him  |
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Post by taxman on Mar 24, 2011 3:27:03 GMT -5
Your making him your standard instead of setting your own, your living in his world. The girls will always go to his reality even if you befriend him. Game over
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Post by milehighclubber on Mar 24, 2011 5:46:45 GMT -5
Dressing like you're friend is living in HIS REALITY
In your friend's reality everything works for him and he makes it work. Not by trying hard but by being just a fun loving guy. A natural doesn't rely heavily on routines but makes the routines work for him IMO. He just says what he wants/thinks and sticks with it 100%.
Assuming that what he says isn't insulting or something.
Say for example:
He uses lines (assuming he doesn't know about PUA) and he goes on from there. Natural conversation and he probably doesn't even worry about losing the girl which makes it seem that he is a "challenge" and/or "hard to get" by other girls. He just does.
If you're confidence is that low then you might as well watch
"The Blueprint" by RSD
or
"The Power of Now" by Eckhart Tolle
I cannot give you your confidence but I can show you the 'know how' on how to find it.
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Post by scripts on Mar 24, 2011 6:10:34 GMT -5
What makes you different from him? You need to make your own person, not copy off another. You may use someone as inspiration but other than that, it's just pathetic. I see a lot of people dressing like me around school but, I don't see them getting any girls.
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Post by milehighclubber on Mar 24, 2011 6:24:49 GMT -5
^ Amen brother! Preach it! ;D
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Nick
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Whether you think you can or can't... You are right.
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Registered: Apr 13, 2010 23:02:08 GMT -5
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Post by Nick on Mar 24, 2011 6:44:40 GMT -5
Everyone that has spoken so far has said it spot on. Listen to what they say.
It's about YOU not him.
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