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Post by mims277 on Jun 20, 2011 13:25:09 GMT -5
Today was my first day at community college and I hated it! Everyone was so quiet and awkward, I was there with 2 friend's and we would make fun of the teacher during breaks, but there was this really cute girl sitting next to me but I didn't know how to approach because:
1) I don't know how to open a girl naturally
2) I wouldn't know when or how because the class seems so strict on talking during class
Any advice guys?
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Post by Sloth on Jun 20, 2011 15:41:47 GMT -5
1) is about doing, you can read all the openers and conversation you want, but at the end of the day YOU DO KNOW HOW TO OPEN A GIRL. You just have MAD approach anxiety, everyone gets it.
Thing is you have to ACT before you have time to THINK, next time, when you're in a situation and ya get AA, remember what i just said and JUST DO IT. even if you freeze up a bit, you can just say 'gotta go' and leave, if everyone is silent, and you're talkative, then that is alpha, have some confidence man.
2) read Andrew's post on classroom game, it's very relevant.
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Post by canadiankid on Jun 20, 2011 17:06:04 GMT -5
College classrooms are very strict on talking usually. Alot of professors will completely embarass you then kick you out for talking during their lecture, thus keep it more to the people near you
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Post by mims277 on Jun 20, 2011 22:37:52 GMT -5
So after class ends? Or maybe before class ends just go up and say hi? and try to start a conversation.
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Post by libertine on Jun 21, 2011 0:10:32 GMT -5
It doesn't matter,really.Don't be a social robot,just do it when you feel like it.
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Post by wespeezy on Jun 21, 2011 0:23:33 GMT -5
College classrooms are very strict on talking usually. Alot of professors will completely embarass you then kick you out for talking during their lecture, thus keep it more to the people near you Umm apparently canadian colleges and american colleges are different. You can talk and text in class, your not supposed to but people still do. Most people don't because they are actually trying to take notes, sleeping or if they don't want to go to class...then they don't fucking go. Try and get eye contact by looking at her with your head kinda cocked to the side a little bit, smile at her then look at the board while still smiling if you get eye contact with her. Don't just fucking stare at her tho. OR you can drop her notes is class, which works like a fucking charm ( i explain this all in one of my journals). Community colleges are just like highschool. Do yourself a favor and get the fuck out. PS me and the other mods in college are doing a webinar soon for all you kiddies headed to college |
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Post by canadiankid on Jun 21, 2011 0:47:14 GMT -5
Oh man a couple of my teachers were telling me stories about kids who got fucking humiliated by profs (in a university, maybe different than a community college)
I was told the profs don't give a shit unless you disrupt class (like you would in high school)
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Post by wespeezy on Jun 21, 2011 1:03:22 GMT -5
if your loud as shit, Hell I will or someone else will tell you to shut the fuck up before the teacher does.
I go to a 4 year university not a community college
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Post by canadiankid on Jun 21, 2011 1:07:58 GMT -5
Haha fair enough. Class time is for classes, considering how much fricken money you paid to be there lol
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Post by mims277 on Jun 21, 2011 16:28:00 GMT -5
So during break I had a 3 minute conversation w\ her about how summer school was ehh. I asked smart questions in class that involved TV shows to try to DHV. I wanted to get her facebook or her number but my AA got to me after class, so I'll do it tomorrow. She seems to be lonely in class, she has no friends to talk to and is always by herself.
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Post by wespeezy on Jun 21, 2011 18:52:58 GMT -5
Dude don't talk to her about class if you want to fuck her, talk to her about other things!
Its good that you are finally doing it, but eventually you have to break off from the conversation.
Also, there is no such this as a tv show DHV unless you're like in the fucking tv show or something.
Pass her notes and stuff, ask her where she goes to school outside of the community college, greek stuff anything but questions about class once you get into conversation.
If you want her to view you as some one to hang out with outside of class, don't set yourself up as the guy who just asks her questions about class
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Post by mims277 on Jun 22, 2011 2:11:34 GMT -5
I didn't ask her anything about class. I meant while class was in session I made witty and comical comments. After, during break I talked to her about how I'm trying to keep up with summer school and still party till the AM at the same time. She responded fairly well.
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Post by mims277 on Jun 22, 2011 17:45:51 GMT -5
I fb closed her today.
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Post by wespeezy on Jun 28, 2011 13:18:49 GMT -5
good for you, but you should have just gotten her number!
You already have her in person. With online you don't have her in person so you have to use the internet as a means of communication...to then communicate more with her.
Try and get her number now
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