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Post by jmac on Aug 4, 2011 16:53:46 GMT -5
And I wouldn't suggest messaging. I don't like that either. But you use the chat function on there That is messaging..... |
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Post by Sloth on Aug 4, 2011 19:51:18 GMT -5
You know exactly what you need to do, and who you need to talk to. You're just scared cause it's completely out of your comfort zone.
and don't tell me i'm wrong because there's nothing you can say that will make me believe you. Some of the advice here pretty much spelt it out for you, it's just NOT EASY.
Your choice.
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Post by xploxstriker on Aug 4, 2011 21:15:06 GMT -5
You know exactly what you need to do, and who you need to talk to. You're just scared cause it's completely out of your comfort zone. and don't tell me i'm wrong because there's nothing you can say that will make me believe you. Some of the advice here pretty much spelt it out for you, it's just NOT EASY. Your choice. I'm not saying the advice wasn't helpful and I recognize that its out of my comfort zone but I can't just go out and randomly game girls by myself or strike up convos with random dudes right? |
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Post by DanZy on Aug 4, 2011 23:17:37 GMT -5
You know exactly what you need to do, and who you need to talk to. You're just scared cause it's completely out of your comfort zone. and don't tell me i'm wrong because there's nothing you can say that will make me believe you. Some of the advice here pretty much spelt it out for you, it's just NOT EASY. Your choice. I'm not saying the advice wasn't helpful and I recognize that its out of my comfort zone but I can't just go out and randomly game girls by myself or strike up convos with random dudes right? Why not? They're just people dude, they're not going to bite your head off |
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Post by mattattack on Aug 5, 2011 2:08:48 GMT -5
You seem to be in a similar situation to me. I do not have a large social group, but am making plenty of new friends. You said you have friends to hang out with. Meet all of their friends etc. (if you can) take up a hobby, or sport. GET INVOLVED IN SOMETHING. You can make friends through recreational activities. You do not need to be good at the activity just go to have fun and don't give a fuck.
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Post by perceverance on Aug 5, 2011 3:21:57 GMT -5
If you are friends with any kids like even just one in a popular group who parties then just be chill as fuck and they will introduce you. That's really all it is, it is a chain-reaction of you just constantly meeting new people. not true, ive tried it. |
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Post by jmac on Aug 5, 2011 11:04:38 GMT -5
If you are friends with any kids like even just one in a popular group who parties then just be chill as fuck and they will introduce you. That's really all it is, it is a chain-reaction of you just constantly meeting new people. not true, ive tried it. Then you must not have made a good enough impression to have them want to introduce you to their friends (no offense or anything), because I have met kids from my newer school and thought "he's pretty chill" and ill chill with him and introduce kids to my other friend groups and shit. So yes, it is true. |
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Post by Sloth on Aug 5, 2011 15:46:05 GMT -5
it's important to note that everybody is different. the people we all know, and how they react to people. And also how we act.
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Post by libertine on Aug 5, 2011 16:09:13 GMT -5
Man, use your phone! A month ago I was so lame I went out with barely anyone.I only went out with my best friend and it was once in a while.Then I went to my village and after I returned I just started using my phone.I called some friends,got a friend's number because I didn't have it and now I just call him and go chill with his buddies.I also meet up with some girls that are also friends.
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Post by pcoq on Aug 5, 2011 16:17:38 GMT -5
A lot of us have been there at the start. Going out solo is the single best way to develop your game. I used to always go out solo when I had no friends, and I closed quite a bit and had a few of those times where you just feel awesome because youre approaching. I was 15 at the time, and I'd go to malls alone because I had no friends. I was saying hi to everyone walking by to get warmed up and feeling good, and one of them happened to be a reeeally cute girl. when I said hi, she stopped, smiled, brushed her hair, and said "heyy!" I didnt know what to do and kept walking by but man, it was the first time I realized how awesome it can be to just go out and talk to girls. Sloth is right, all the advice you need is right here. Just step out of your comfort zone, you don't even have to do it too much. If your shy talking to girls just practice saying hi to people as they walk by. And honestly, when you do it you'll feel even better BECAUSE you were so shy about it before and realize how silly that was. Good luck!
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Post by DanZy on Aug 5, 2011 16:24:55 GMT -5
I can only agree with all 4 of the above posts.
Jmac's: He's totally correct, make friends with one guy and if he thinks you're cool he'll introduce you to others
Sloth's: Spot on
Libertine's: Networking is key
Pcoq: Those initial solo successes drive you on further
Quality posts all round
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Post by jmac on Aug 5, 2011 21:13:44 GMT -5
I can only agree with all 4 of the above posts. Jmac's: He's totally correct, make friends with one guy and if he thinks you're cool he'll introduce you to others Sloth's: Spot on Libertine's: Networking is key Pcoq: Those initial solo successes drive you on further Quality posts all round Am I going to Hollywood?  |
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Post by xploxstriker on Aug 5, 2011 21:52:17 GMT -5
damn all this advice has got me pumped. Guess i'm gonna have to suck it up and finally step out of my comfort zone.
Thanks guys.
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Post by amarok on Aug 5, 2011 22:16:41 GMT -5
And I wouldn't suggest messaging. I don't like that either. But you use the chat function on there That is messaging..... I mean chatting her while she's online, not the stupid new messaging/chat system they made. |
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Post by mikedaman on Aug 15, 2011 17:26:18 GMT -5
If you are friends with any kids like even just one in a popular group who parties then just be chill as fuck and they will introduce you. That's really all it is, it is a chain-reaction of you just constantly meeting new people. not true, ive tried it. Im going to go ahead and say, im not arguing with ya pers, but im gonna come from my point of view. The day before i left for hawaii, i hopped in football strength and conditioning camp at my school i was attending. In those 6-7 hours i had...i caught up with a few of the people from last year, showed myself as a much funnier and social guy. Did some of that little fake gay crap guys do to grab peoples attention...and it worked great, everyone was my buddy. At lunch i sat with the freshman and juniors. (im a sophomore), and chatted it up like we're best friends...it was almost like gaming...no homo. But i made everyone laugh and shit. So i recommend getting actively involved with sports, especially football. Then girls know your not a pussy, and play baseball (no offense guys)..and you get other guy friends which by the way (most partyers are football jocks) so its win/win. Plus you get in shape. Nuff said. GL |
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