alex77
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Post by alex77 on Sept 5, 2011 23:02:33 GMT -5
I'm a senior now and I've been going to this school since last year. I quickly made friends with the guys on the football team in my grade and ate lunch with them and talked in class and shit, but I was mostly hanging out with kids from other schools. I want to start hanging out with these guys now, and they're really "high value" or whatever in my city, but I'm basically just a friend they see at school and occaisionally going out. I dont know how to start getting invited to go out with them without like inviting myself.
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Post by Sloth on Sept 6, 2011 17:52:44 GMT -5
organise an event yourself and invite them
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alex77
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Post by alex77 on Sept 6, 2011 19:31:21 GMT -5
dont know enough people or have access to a house or anything to do that.
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Post by Sloth on Sept 9, 2011 19:49:59 GMT -5
do you have access to a cinema/park etc. Think outside the box you don't have to stay at someone's house.
and you must know enough guys, surely 'these guys' are enough guys
p.s inviting girls always scores points for you
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infamous93
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Post by infamous93 on Sept 9, 2011 21:59:34 GMT -5
The Key to being amazing socially is to be friends with EVERBODY (or as many people you can) seriously though talk to people you haven't before make your present know, you want to be the guy who walks into a room and everbody's like "hey its (your name)"
Example form history: Lorenzo De Medici (1449-1492)
When his father died Lorenzo was left with an empire, unfortunatly for him people didn't like his father that much. What did Lorenzo do? he listened to the common people and helped them out when he could. Did he actually care about them? Probably not but when the Pazzi's attacked the Medici family all of Flourence rose up and took revenge on them because they were buddies with the Medici.
Lorenzo died "Lorenzo the Magnificent" people loved him all because he listened to them.
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alex77
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Post by alex77 on Sept 10, 2011 14:03:44 GMT -5
I guess I could invite everyone to smoke with me but thats all I can really think of. Theres only like 6 of them cuz my school is small as fuck and they've got maybe 3 or 4 other dudes they chill with outside of school who I kind of know who make up the whole group.
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infamous93
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Post by infamous93 on Sept 10, 2011 14:53:32 GMT -5
Do it
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crazyman
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Post by crazyman on Oct 1, 2011 21:10:40 GMT -5
The Key to being amazing socially is to be friends with EVERBODY (or as many people you can) seriously though talk to people you haven't before make your present know, you want to be the guy who walks into a room and everbody's like "hey its (your name)" Example form history: Lorenzo De Medici (1449-1492) When his father died Lorenzo was left with an empire, unfortunatly for him people didn't like his father that much. What did Lorenzo do? he listened to the common people and helped them out when he could. Did he actually care about them? Probably not but when the Pazzi's attacked the Medici family all of Flourence rose up and took revenge on them because they were buddies with the Medici. Lorenzo died "Lorenzo the Magnificent" people loved him all because he listened to them. some solid assassins creed 2 right there. |
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Post by infamous93 on Oct 2, 2011 12:07:35 GMT -5
^ hahaha yeah, also I am in Ap European history but yeah  |
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