crazyman
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Registered: Jan 4, 2011 15:40:37 GMT -5
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Post by crazyman on Sept 28, 2011 18:41:04 GMT -5
I'm about 2 months in college right now, and am loving it. Near the beginning, I was very open towards people, and made friends pretty fast. But now that I've made some friends and have my group, I don't really feel social any more, and feel no more need to meet people. So I come across as boring to new people. How can I get out of this slump?
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Post by amarok on Sept 28, 2011 19:26:50 GMT -5
Go back to the beginning. Approach girls as if you were trying to break AA. But maybe instead of going on to seduction friend zone them and keep them as friends and bridges.
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Post by Contempt on Sept 28, 2011 20:06:52 GMT -5
Go do fun shit w/ your friends. you should judge yourself whether your having the time of your life or not, not how "social" your being. you dont want to look back in 80 years and be like "i spent the greatest years of my life worried about how social i was being." Go fuck shit up.
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Post by Eastcoast on Sept 28, 2011 22:45:24 GMT -5
Try to make a friend thats in a different group than you and meet their friends, for example if your friends are all people you live in dorms with then branch out and meet some people in your classes. Or if you like professional ballet dancing take a class in that and meet friends there. Then once youre solid with that one person and they know your cool try to meet their own personal friends. Its kind of an umbrella effect, I have a group of guys i go to the gym with, a group who i go to class with, a group i chill with at home. And every one of the groups provides something different and they all have their own personal friends who i dont know. So when im meeting everyone then im slowly branching them all together until you have friends from all over. Then you start to get the multiplier effect. I find that one solid in with a person is key though because once you have that they wont mind bringing you along and then you can show all their friends how cool you are.
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Post by looknlisten on Sept 28, 2011 23:39:28 GMT -5
Do new things, find a new challenge, go to new venues and you will be motivated to do shit .. It will come
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aadison
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Registered: Dec 23, 2011 7:16:24 GMT -5
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Post by aadison on Dec 23, 2011 8:16:16 GMT -5
the Sims Social has lost one-third of their daily active users (DAU) in the last month and lost eight million Monthly Active Users (MAU). This is despite their three special events (Halloween, Japan and Future) in the past 45 days.
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infamous93
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Life is easy.
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Registered: Mar 15, 2011 17:29:22 GMT -5
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Post by infamous93 on Dec 23, 2011 13:09:12 GMT -5
^BOT!!!
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