Time to man the fuck up!

[MickeyD]

Hi guys. I know this is a long post but please bear with me. Im a sophomore in high school. If you get a first glance at my life outside school im your average never had a girlfriend guy. I have no social life whatsoever. I only have about 3 friends i actually hang out with outside of school (and that's on occasions). I live with my grandmother for Christ sake. But heres the twist, in school im kinda different. How you ask? In school im this funny crazy guy that everyone likes. You would call me the class clown. Im known of this identity by nearly in my school. As a result of this, I have a good amount of popular kids as friends. The only problem is that almost all of time people don't take me seriously. If i were to talk seriously about something in a group most of the time i am just completely ignored even if i talk over the person. But sure enough if it is something funny they want to hear it. Also i am treated as a beta because people always joke about me being a virgin and stuff like that. Some people will take me seriously but thats only in a one on one conversation. It was only about 4 weeks ago that i have realized the severity of my situation. You see, 4 weeks ago i was really sad for about a week. In this week, i thought about how people view me and most importantly how girls view me. How would i ever get a girlfriend? Then i stumbled upon PUA. I was so fascinated by the concept. I began to read famous books such as Mystery Method and The Game. These readings were ultra useful but not really helpful for my situation. I then came across this forum. I knew this forum was for me as soon as i laid eyes on it. I started to browse. It was only recently however that i was pushed to the breaking point and found true motivation. Today, i had done the usual routine. In one of my classes there is this AMOG that literally owns the class. Now me and this guy are pretty good friends (in fact he is one of the guys that take me serious in a one on one conversation) but today was just too much. He is one of those guys that always has girls all over him. In fact after observing him, he has many traits that make him a natural. In class we were hang out with these girls and they like me (like everyone else), and as usual he had full command over the group. From time to time they would crack jokes about me and i would smile and shrug it off. But today they were relentless. It was mostly the girls that just completely make some crazy joke about me but he had his role in it too. I knew the jokes were harmless and supposed to be fun but enough is fucking enough. I knew right then and there that if i wanted girls and wanted all this other stuff i would have to completely peel off this this identity and find the inner PUA. So here i am. I know this road is gonna be tough, but i am 100% determined to do this. No matter what the cost may be. I am a man. I have landed on the moon. I have controlled massive empires and taken over hundreds of nations. I have climbed the largest mountains countless times, I have kissed and banged every woman on planet fucking Earth. I have ripped, clawed,torn, bled, and have sweat through every goddamn obstacle that has ever had the balls to stand in my way. And its time to start acting like it. It's time to man the fuck up!

[NorwegianDJ]

So how are you gonna go about this journey into manhood? Let us hear how you plan to achieve this.

[DanZy]

You let them get away with making you a joke. Seriously what the fuck?

[MickeyD]

Mar 29, 2012 7:47:17 GMT -5 NorwegianDJ said:

So how are you gonna go about this journey into manhood? Let us hear how you plan to achieve this.

Well today i didn't really have a plan. This was literally the first i have actually explained my whole entire situation to someone. I was so confident and determined from what i had posted last night that i just blew caution to the wind and just had this alpha "i don't give a fuck" persona all day. I actually had gotten stunning results from this. It also gave me some good ways to improve.

Anyway besides all the stuff that happened today, I plan to engage more girls in school with this new persona i seem to have found in myself. I also want to try to take down this massive AMOG while still keeping him as pals.

The big issues i seem to have is trying to converse with people that insist on having inside conversations that don't include me. Also, trying to get people to understand that i fucking mean business and trying to get them to stop joking about me. Any tips would be greatly appreciated. ;D

[qaz]

Damn man, I came from a similar situation actually. I used to be a really goofy class clown type person so I've still got some of the goofy personality instincts in me. And not being taken seriously is something that I hate. Still working on this but what I usually do when someone isn't taking me seriously is I give them a look that shows almost disappointment (hard to explain) and make it a point to focus on the rest of the group more than them. That usually sends the message. But don't take what I'm saying as the perfect example of what to do because I'm still working on this.

[MickeyD]

Mar 29, 2012 20:53:23 GMT -5 qaz said:

Damn man, I came from a similar situation actually. I used to be a really goofy class clown type person so I've still got some of the goofy personality instincts in me. And not being taken seriously is something that I hate. Still working on this but what I usually do when someone isn't taking me seriously is I give them a look that shows almost disappointment (hard to explain) and make it a point to focus on the rest of the group more than them. That usually sends the message. But don't take what I'm saying as the perfect example of what to do because I'm still working on this.

Wow it feels great knowing someone was in a similar situation that I am in. Thanks a bunch for the tip i'll be sure to try tomorrow. Do you also think this would work when they joke on you?

[qaz]

Yea man. And it really depends on your situation, sometimes it's alright to laugh at yourself but I only do it rarely. It's all social calibration. Give me an example of something recent and we'll work on this shit together.

[MickeyD]

Thanks alot man this is fuckin sweet!

Ok usually they will crack jokes that give me DLVs. For example, they'll be talking about something sexual and say something like "better cover your virgin ears mickey". Another one would be from a few days ago when the AMOG i keep talking about has like a small pencil and says "this is about your size mickey". Most of the jokes can be crazy demeaning and bring my value down so low. I usually just laugh em off but the shit gets fucking ridiculous after awhile and now i can't have them joking about me like that with the alpha persona i want to display.

[Sketch]

if i were you, don't just laugh at their jokes to you, top them. For example, when they say "cover your virgin ears" , get really serious (but still so they know you don't actually mean it...it hards to explain) and say something along the lines of "but guys...i'm just waiting for the one" or after marriage, whatever you can think of that will get them laughing with you, not at you, and essentially, not laughing at his jokes, but yours. eventually they'll stop those sorta jokes, and you could even try dishin them out to other guys too to keep them off you

-Sketch

[qaz]

Yea I would probably top their jokes. Something like when they pick up a pencil and say it's your size find a smaller pencil and say it's their size or a larger one and say that's about the size of his vag. Bad examples but you should kinda get the idea.

[MickeyD]

Cool i never thought about that i'll be sure to try this next time.

Also, what should i do when they ignore me? And then there's the huge AMOG problem i have. One of the issues is that when he comes into play he is already familiar with some of the girls. He also kinos the shit out of them and this is how i initially found him to be a natural. When he fucking kinos he fucking KINOS. I'm not talking about just small touching and shit. I'm talking grabbing their ass, grabbing their tits (Yes he grabs their tits), hugging them and even sometimes kissing them on the cheek. This guy has balls and the shocking part is, the girls just joke about it as if it's no big deal! It's as if some of them never had an ASD in the first place! The only thing i have going for me is that now, i mentally know i can beat him somehow. In fact I actually look forward to his presence because i know that if i find a way to take him down, it would make me one bad motherfucker and would give me extraordinarily large value. But here are the catches (as if there aren't enough), me and him are pretty tight and have good conversations. At times I feel he's using me to heighten his value , but at the same time he tells me about his problems and about his plans for life and things beyond high school. So how should i go about this AMOG?

[Sloth]

keep coming back at them and the only thing theyll use to burn you will be your virginity, and at that point you can say 'you need new material/yawn/ etc etc'