Most Effective Way To Remember Things.

[bballphenom]

Hopefully we all know, the fastest way to remember and truly understand a concept. And if you don't, I'll tell you... ITS TEACHING OTHERS! Us humans remember 90% of what we learn by teaching others. If you really want to apply and implement the things we learn in life, and specifically what we learn on this website, then you should try your best to teach others.


This is me teaching, well at least attempting, to teach stuff I've learned from this website and many others to this man I met on Omegle (gay I know). Hopefully I didn't fuck the man up too bad, and if I did, at least I directed him here ........

I'm the you, if you couldn't figure that out.



You: Hi!

Stranger: hey

You: how are you?

Stranger: i am very awesome

You: haha hell yeah, me too. why are you so awesome?

Stranger: because honey badr dont give a shitg

You: what?

Stranger: because honey badger dont give a shit

You: haha okay honey badger. your completely unoriginal... sorry

You: ?

You: cat got your tongue?

Stranger: dont trip hahaha jus being random

You: haha okay

Stranger: i like tacos

You: seriously, i know you come here to talk to girls, and man do you need the help!

Stranger: omg you are so wrong! i come here to randomly talk

You: not true or you wouldn't have been so offended by me saying that

Stranger: not offended at all it takes alot offend me

You: give me your best pickup line.

Stranger: i have non

You: lame....!!!!

Stranger: i know but oh wells

You: what is interesting about you?

Stranger: im a laid back person

You: thats not interesting, thats a characteristic, and a boring one at the least.

Stranger: so let me i choose to be how i want to be

You: thats good, so did you always want to be gay?

Stranger: never at all

You: interesting...

Stranger: i guess

You: your lame, learn how to talk to people and flip the script on to the other person. i just shit on you in this convo.

Stranger: yea so i could care less

You: your to passive, you should be more assertive. you just let me down play you this whole convo. have some dignity and self respect, stand up for yourself.

Stranger: see thats my problem i dont know how cuz i dont talk much an im shy so i dont do much

You: i want to help. talk to more people. dont take shit from people. if they make fun of you dont try and redeem your self by stating that your not that bad or something like that. reverse the script be a challenge.

You: The biggest life hint i could possibly give is..... BE POSITIVE!!!

Stranger: see thats where i freeze cuz im on the spot everybody expects me to say sumthing right back but i panic

You: don't panic. easier said than done i know, but always remain relaxed and unmoved. what your biggest problem seems to be is confidence.

Stranger: im very shy an i hate that an i cant do much cuz i tend to jus freeze up

You: okay, well working on your confidence would eliminate your shyness. believe me, i use to be supper shy around a hott girl a few months ago, but now i don't get shy at all.

You: the first step you need to make is self improvement. do you play sports?

Stranger: nope not really

You: how old are you?

Stranger: 21 i used to play woods ball

You: haha never heard of that.

Stranger: its like paintballing but in senarios

You: well lets be honest are you in shape or cut?

Stranger: ima 250 pound guy that can still move

You: is it muscle or fat?

Stranger: both but mainly fat

Stranger: i guess husky

You: okay, so thats probably were you lack of confidence is coming from, right?

You: your scared people will judge you for you apperance right?

Stranger: sum what but thats not it

You: what else then?

Stranger: i cant seem to keep a conversation going for long

You: well as long as you feel comfortable in your own body than you have alot less to work on than you may think.

You: what you need to work on as i stated before is confidence, and personality.

Stranger: i try to do that but to me its jus hard cuz i dont know what to say, for instance i see i nice look girl right, well the way i see it is if i go up to a girl an say hay you have pretty eye, i can expect them to say eeww get a way creep

You: thats your problem. your not confident in what you say, its all about how you say things. if you say it sounding nervous and shy, then she will sense that and it will make you look unattractive. If you say it like a man, and not in a voice pleading for sympathy she will more than likely respond with something along the lines of. "Haha thank you "

Stranger: well ok but at the same time i dont wanna come too strong or be a dick iether

You: that is another thing, how would you seem like a dick if you said you have pretty eyes?

Stranger: ok thats not what i meant i guess cocky is the word im looking for

You: Believe it or not but girls like a cocky confident man.

You: as long as your not to cocky and try to impress her by doing shit.

Stranger: ok now that i have that figured out, i also dont talk much im not a big talker cuz i really dont have much to say at all

You: well you dont have to talk much, you and me both know that women like to talk, so you know what let her do the talking. You will have something to say if you truly listen to what she is saying, weither it be a statement or a question.

You: another thing, while your talking to her dont try at all to think of what to say. thoughts will just come to your head.

You: believe me, you must stop worrying about what she will think about what your saying.

Stranger: ill try that but also how do i stop being boring

You: and on a side note if you have any questions just ask.

You: why do you think the stuff you say is boring? thats a reflection of how you percieve your own self in talking to girls.

Stranger: i mean thats what everybody says an you even figured me out like in a few min

Stranger: hell few seconds

You: haha but its true. your problem in attracting girls is coming from yourself.

You: your personality to be more specific.

Stranger: not jus girls man i mean like everybody around me

Stranger: ok yea i can talk to a girl

Stranger: its easy but getting to know more ppl is hard

You: i dont know why but that has always been so easy for me and i just cant figure out whyy.

Stranger: ok check this, my best friend is opposite of me

You: okay.

Stranger: he can get the ladies no problem he can talk to anybody no problem

Stranger: i mean you jus talk to him an jus be talking about on an on an on

There was a little more but mostly me telling him about this website.

In conclusion, please just teach other what you've learned, it will help you understand better, and the person you teaching may come up with some ideas you can add. Thanks!

[mattattack]

Dude, I think you were talking to a troll...

[bballphenom]

Probably was, but that's not the point. The point is to test yourself and your memory to see if you can answer the questions, and think of how to handle certain situations.

[Sloth]

agree/disagree

we dont want the guys on this forum to go around teaching others, acting like they know their shit, when wactually they havent taken any action and theyre all talk.
It's easily done, you read everything and know what to do, so you dish out advice like a love guru. This is a horrible trap to fall into.

So here's the balance. If you've legitemately gone out and done the shit you're teaching, and mann'd up and got the results and learnt that way, then AND ONLY THEN can you teach it.

[slater]

Haha yeah don't trust anyone that gives advice off another mans stories and tales

[bballphenom]

I gave him advice from my personal experiences. He didn't know how to keep a conversation going, and neither could I a few months ago. But in practicing I have learned how to do it, and have significantly increased my game.

[slater]

Keeping a conversation is bullshit, you can't fuck nice lines. The less you talk the better in most cases. Hold your frame and your boner and everything should go fine

[chiragaegis]

i find for me that i have quite a visual memory and i tend to remember colurs and the exact plcae of how and where it's written on the page. spider diagrams, colour coding, etc, works best for me!

[absinthe]

Dec 20, 2012 6:06:02 GMT -5 chiragaegis said:

i find for me that i have quite a visual memory and i tend to remember colurs and the exact plcae of how and where it's written on the page. spider diagrams, colour coding, etc, works best for me!

someone needs to ban this fucker, i think he's a troll