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Post by Sloth on Apr 7, 2012 13:26:13 GMT -5
I was thinking this was a decent thread, then i read this Getting pussy isn't always about being a fake ass person and tailoring yourself to the girls preference, and if your in a good relationship being real and genuine once in a while really does make the bond stronger. She will always be comfortable around you, and (if your not as serious yet) will develop stronger feelings for you. Getting 'pussy' is NEVER about being a fake ass person and tailoring yourself to ANYONE'S preference. Being real and genuine 'once in a while'? what the fuck is that, if you ain't real then you ain't shit. and the whole part where you go on to say it builds comfort.. yeah it does, that's why you should just be real and genuine legitimately, you make it sound like being real is against Pick up, and we have to be fake, that's toilet. |
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Post by virtue on Apr 7, 2012 14:02:31 GMT -5
I see why you say that, and I probably didn't word it right. It's just a lot of the posts I've seen here recently have been guided on one thing, and this to get into a girls pants. So thats why I wrote that, I didnt clarify but whatever. And most of the time "pick-up" is indeed fake, and generally to just in the long run have sex. There are few who actually approach people, to MEET them and get to know them for who they are. At least in High school that is. After all, this is a high school forum, and the vast majority of people i know who "game" are fake ass fuckers to every girl they meet. Assuming this, I decided to post with that in mind. I'm not saying this is everybody. In fact, probably half of the people on this forum are undoubtedly real, and down to earth people.
Didn't mean to come off wrong though, poor choice of wording does me in.
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Post by Sloth on Apr 7, 2012 20:54:54 GMT -5
you need to learn what this forum is about. We look down on the fake people like they're worse than the people who don't get any pussy.
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Post by virtue on Apr 7, 2012 21:48:19 GMT -5
Okay good. I saw things differently, but it may have just been a few bad posts.
My OP does probably need some editing, but whatever i'll just close this lmfao
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Post by slater on Apr 8, 2012 1:53:22 GMT -5
His right in a way, in terms of fucking girls. Firstly no one is fake, again iv said this a lot but everybody is a very nice person WHEN you get to know them, their passions, their goals, dreams but until then its all just a game, then its pretty much fake, the only reason you wanna stay real is so that she too can be real and then you may click as a boy and a girl. But sometime that's not possible so you gotta be a cocky pimp or whatever fake persona you have down to match her fake persona of being the shit externally so if you wanna fuck a lot of girl then you gotta be a little shady sometimes haha
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Post by Contempt on Apr 8, 2012 10:23:46 GMT -5
Nah, i gotta back sloth up on this. Im not going to repeat everything he said but its my personal opinion that if your putting up a fake persona for the sake of a girl, your putting "the pussy on the pedestal" which is NEVER a good thing because it raises her value and lowers your own. Be yourself and remember that you don't have to pretend to be anyone else in order to achieve your goals or improve.
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Post by slater on Apr 8, 2012 11:56:34 GMT -5
Yeah that's true, but again you can't always communicate authentically when someones ego is too large. Ego being a persons sense of self-esteem/self-image. Example the "fake blondes" its almost impossible to be real with them, there's too many guys, friend, family that re-inforce her image of herself and at that time she's still got low intelligence and that's her world, if you can break through to that then teach me. Its a fake persona yup, you could also call it flipping the switch, iv said this before - there is many ways to skin the cat, we are all here so we know many ways to skin the cat, so that we can skin cats all the time haha. And you knowing and being aware that your just putting up an act means your waayy ahead of that pedastal shit
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Post by Contempt on Apr 8, 2012 13:21:52 GMT -5
well i personally think that its become a part of her persona because of the reinforcement, not that its a fake one (if thats what your saying, i wasnt quite sure). And i prefer to call that a bitch shield  How you break through that shit is BY being yourself and not being reactive to what shes saying. Dont let her shit get to you at all, as brad branson would say, be the "yacht" and just keep plowing along. Honestly, i try to do this in almost every situation. |
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Post by slater on Apr 8, 2012 13:34:55 GMT -5
Yeah 100%. I'm just saying her "bitch shield" is so real to her, she's not often being authentic with a guy that's authentic you see. Being authentic does not mean you will get the girl, infact you will get rejected twice as fast if your authentic all the time, your good sets will almost always be glory, quite often really. but the few times you get blown out will be hard and quick cos there's no front or hiding and you can't whine either cos you brought you and she said no thanks. Her act is a bitch shield,your act is a pimp persona. If you make it through that it will feel a whole lot natural to her, its fun to play around with it then switch it off like "ok be real now, stop being weird" - juliens shit. Being real all the time is amazing but ey in terms of fucking girls sometimes you gotta play by their rules
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Post by Contempt on Apr 8, 2012 21:55:16 GMT -5
Nah, not for me. I act like myself, and dont pretend to be anybody else and it works perfectly fine.
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Post by Sloth on Apr 8, 2012 22:19:26 GMT -5
to each their own. Except the guys at teengame.com - they can go eat the shit they talk. It's what they expect the girls to do...
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How you break through that shit is BY being yourself and not being reactive to what shes saying. Dont let her shit get to you at all, as brad branson would say, be the "yacht" and just keep plowing along. Honestly, i try to do this in almost every situation.