slimjimm000
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Registered: Apr 3, 2012 11:46:11 GMT -5
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Post by slimjimm000 on Apr 8, 2012 0:00:28 GMT -5
I went on this date with a girl, and I couldn't look her in the eyes for more than 3 seconds at a time, also she said she was very bored, she said I was very nervous. Whenever I asked her questions it was like I was interviewing her and after the question she would say "anything else?". She asked me to tell her about myself but I don't know what to say. But at the end she gave me a hug and said we should hang out again sometime. I don't understand what this means.
I'm 6ft tall and I'm in the best shape of my life, but I still have no self confidence. I also read the game and mystery method I tried to palm read her, but she said she didn't believe in that.
What exactly should i say on a date?
How Can I look a girl in the eyes?
How can I stop being nervous around girls?
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tp5k
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Registered: Mar 1, 2012 23:03:19 GMT -5
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Post by tp5k on Apr 8, 2012 0:19:09 GMT -5
Ah, looking into the eyes. I know that feel bro. I have Asperger's, which, has the symptOm of making it difficult for the bearer to look into someone else's eyes. What I do is look at their forehead. It works. And for me, I can actually look into the eyes of girls I like. But my best advice is to not look directly into her eyes, just near.
As for being nervous, the best thing to do is to get comfortable around her. She's a friend, not Jesus, so you don't have to panic. Talk to her like a longtime friend. Know what both of you like, and talk. Point out things, be clever, be CONFIDENT. CONFIDENCE IS THE KEY.
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Post by slater on Apr 8, 2012 1:05:26 GMT -5
Bro she doesn't like you, your far from attractive. I look girls in the eyes so hard I have to remind them every minute to do the same when we are ebracing each other. It shows 2 signs when a person can't look you in their eyes 1)lower value 2)your lying about something/hiding something. That's all. Best advice, leave the house and start hitting up girls, she does not like you, not at all. Put her on the side for time being, avoid her, then come back a little later when you can be more of yourself
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Post by canadiankid on Apr 8, 2012 18:58:55 GMT -5
She's not into you. Move onto the next one, but hey, its a learning experience. SO for next time you know to make more eye contact and chill out so you don't seem so nervous. You also know that you don't need to ask lots of questions, just go with the flow of the conversation. Make statements, joke about things she says etc. You also learnt that MM and palm reading is complete shit and your never going to use it again or your balls will turn green and fall off. Everything I just said there, you told me. You just needed it to be validated for you which is an issue many of us have/had.
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