snognog
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Post by snognog on Apr 11, 2012 14:18:52 GMT -5
Would the same that apply to a mall situation for example be applied to a class?
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Post by slater on Apr 11, 2012 15:19:09 GMT -5
Yeah
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snognog
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Post by snognog on Apr 11, 2012 16:08:13 GMT -5
But wouldn't you have to act a certain way the whole time?
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Post by NorwegianDJ on Apr 11, 2012 23:37:45 GMT -5
It's called being yourself; you shouldn't have to act like anyone else at any time.
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Post by canadiankid on Apr 12, 2012 0:33:42 GMT -5
It's called being yourself; you shouldn't have to act like anyone else at any time. True story. Fuck routines that you'd use at the mall dude, then you are acting a certain way. You should never be acting, girls will see through it, and you'll become a weird loser in your school. You should look around the forums and at the website in my signature, there is some great advice there to get you started. |
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Post by slater on Apr 12, 2012 10:24:54 GMT -5
At the same time give him a chance. This is a process, just now routines work well and he just needed a jump start. For me there's nothing wrong with routines, as long as your closing. But sooner or later false realities will come down and as bitter as experience is, it gives the leverage to change your life around so I think he is heading in the right direction. Also there is still some success in routine based game don't rob him of a journey, the same one you look back at and laugh at the stories that came from it.
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Post by canadiankid on Apr 12, 2012 22:16:49 GMT -5
I feel its the acting part that I have more issue with. The occasional line/routine ain't so bad, but its impossible to remain congruent in a high school situation with routines. Especially with things like palm reading and shizz. snognog - Let me rephrase my advice to you. You shouldn't be acting any certain way to talk to the girl in your class because you will slip up at some point and she will see through it. If you need a little confidence boost with a couple lines to talk to her thats fine. One of my favourite "openers" is to comment on a unique jewellery or clothing item she is wearing. In the long run however you should be more focused on having fun in class which will allow you easier opportunities to speak to girls, and everyone, more naturally. There are some solid classroom game articles on here. While your at it hit up the confidence section, that will help you as you progress too |
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smoob
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Post by smoob on Apr 23, 2012 18:58:34 GMT -5
I think when you're learning how to be a better conversationalist, its a smart idea to make up your own canned lines. That way you have something to fall back on when you freeze up but it's something that reflects your own personality. I've never had any bad experiences with canned material, I just don't use any lines that don't seem like something I would say.
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