Starting a second conversation

[elitis]

So, there's a girl I'm after and I think I have my "plan" for talking to her and starting the first conversation. But (and I may be overthinking all of this) I was wondering after our first convo is over, how exactly would I start a 2nd convo? I'd assume starting another convo with another compliment wouldn't exactly work out?

Keep in mind, I have no classes with this girl as she's a sophomore (high school), and I'm a freshmen.

[NorwegianDJ]

This stuff doesnt go according to plan, you might as well not plan; just do it.

[pyro]

The first conversation, open and talk, if you can, come up with a cute nickname for her that is unique to her ex. bugs bunny, dweeb, or one that I've used... Defective German Hanwarmer. then the second time you talk to her bring up the nickname, so like say "Mein Hanwarmer my hands are cold come here," or "hey bugs, nibbled on any carrots lately?" Just be creative and memorable and you'll have opened, and gotten her in a personal and funny mood.

[elitis]

Apr 19, 2012 23:55:51 GMT -5 NorwegianDJ said:

This stuff doesnt go according to plan, you might as well not plan; just do it.

Ik, my "plan" just involves complimenting her and hopefully turning the simple compliment into a conversation.

[DanZy]

Apr 20, 2012 17:50:56 GMT -5 elitis said:

Apr 19, 2012 23:55:51 GMT -5 NorwegianDJ said:

This stuff doesnt go according to plan, you might as well not plan; just do it.

Ik, my "plan" just involves complimenting her and hopefully turning the simple compliment into a conversation.

Well that's pretty damn gay. Just say hey and talk, it's not hard

[slater]

Lower the bar. You can't talk forever anndd your words don't turn a girl on in the slightest, infact the more you say the higher you risk fucking up cos of the imbalance of congruence and where you are coming from. You can talk about the weather if you feel like it but you must know the game lies in emotions and physicallity. Cut the gap between thought and action and well .. Just do it. You want to get her to do the talking and people love to talk about themselves, what they doing, where they going and shit. Once she's talking = hooked/attracted/in your reality/your work is done and you can chill. Just like grin at her, she grins back tell her she has a nice smile, ask where she's from and name, answer with good tone, like she just surprised you and that she should keep on talking then shut up or if your in the mood. Talk more. This girl I knew said I touched a lot and was close most of the time so she basically said let's chill back and talk and she asked a ton of questions. Moral of the story. Get her to do the talking (you do the touching) if your not in a self amusing and indifferent mood and can't deliver.

[nolimit]

Yeah good advice pyro thats what I do and it works pretty good!

[popay69]

The first time you talk to a girl is the time you suppose to hook her.
then, the second time shouldnt be a problem.. you can tell her ANYTHING.

If its a message i like to send "1+1=?" and make a joke about that she responded after a few second.
if its face to face just tell her that she look like a teacher and make fun about it, or be original and tell her about something funny you saw on your way to school/at school.

Today I opened a girl I only talked to 1 time last week by telling her "you were driving a bike while making this braid?" , and we're meeting tommarow.. BE ORIGINAL AND SPONTANIOUS ;]

[Sketch]

Ok, now i know you're thinking of the whole compliment her thing because of my article on the hsg site. BUT. I would never recommend someone to try this in school. It works for cold approaches out in the streets.
Just do what pyro said and your golden.

-Sketch