mxer720
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Registered: Sept 24, 2011 22:31:26 GMT -5
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Post by mxer720 on May 29, 2012 17:38:13 GMT -5
I wasn't quite sure what to title this... So sorry for the blunt title.
I am pretty comfortable talking to hot girls I don't want anything with, and I can easily be myself and have fun with them. However, when it comes to a girl that I actually see as unique and someone I'd like to date... I'm not too comfortable. I'm not sure how to initiate anything with this one girl, she's hardly had any boyfriends to my knowledge. I've known her for a long time and we've always talked a little as friends. I feel as if I've fucked things up a little too much because everytime I get the balls to text her, I end up not replying for various reasons.... How should I start things off? I'm going out to the lake tomorrow with a group of friends and they all have girls to go with them, should I invite her? It's hard for me to do anything but text/call now, as I never see her during the summer.
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Post by wespeezy on May 29, 2012 18:21:35 GMT -5
The reason why its harder for you to talk to a girl you'd want to date is because in your mind you are afraid to mess up--> You're afraid to mess up so you over think things.
You talk and do it naturally with the girls you don't want anything to do with because you don't care about messing up. Stop focusing so much on how hot or cool she is and just text her what you want. Something that can help is texting her while you're busy with something else, it kinda distracts your mind from focusing on just her.
About the lake :Whats the worst that can happen, you text her and she says no? Oh well, at least you know in your mind FOR SURE that she couldn't go instead of just being a pussy and not asking at all.
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