R Kelly
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Post by R Kelly on Jun 2, 2012 13:47:57 GMT -5
I have a bunch of hot facebook friends that go to other schools that I have never talked to. I've had a bunch of girlfriends telling me about guys who randomly start trying to hit on them over facebook and how creepy it is. Is there a way to open the set (through like facebook chat) without it being creepy. I was thinking of trying cocky funny but I am scarred they will interpret what I am saying wrong. My goal is just to be a # and start building attraction. Any advice?
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infamous93
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Post by infamous93 on Jun 2, 2012 14:22:06 GMT -5
Just say "Hey what's up?" and see where that takes you, it's not a big deal man
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Post by NorwegianDJ on Jun 2, 2012 16:20:42 GMT -5
Just dont come off as trying too hard or coming on too much too fast. You'll gget the hang of it.
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Javelin
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Post by Javelin on Jun 2, 2012 17:48:10 GMT -5
Don't come off as the creep. I'd recommend slowly integrating yourself into their newsfeed.
Start my liking their shit that warrants liking, don't overdo it though.
Then start posting DHV statuses, shit that will get hella likes.
Then if they comment, give a witty reply and later on shoot them a message. You MUST have patience. Otherwise you come off as needy.
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Post by OHM on Jun 4, 2012 22:31:10 GMT -5
The only way to open on facebook is to have either huge pre-selection from her friends or have a mutual friend that is close to both of you where he'll vouch for you if she asks him.
Otherwise don't waste your time. It's way too flaky to bother.
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Fishie/Kingdom
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Post by Fishie/Kingdom on Jun 13, 2012 16:15:14 GMT -5
I like the preselection/social proof material, whatever that is. But I life saying this to girl who just added me... Hey you just added me, know what that tells me? usually I just BS from there... I'm not good with the number thing though... But I've gotten one or two saying "FB isn't what it used to be lets text instead" I've only tried it with a few girls I fairly knew... but, idk, but thats all I got, lol. But I don't think I'm one to give advice... Whatever works  |
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RMO
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Post by RMO on Jun 13, 2012 18:38:02 GMT -5
Open her face to face. Maintain a sexual vibe on FB but make sure your always escalating and staying authentic online and offline.
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madeindetroit
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Post by madeindetroit on Jun 13, 2012 19:31:35 GMT -5
I agree with Prodigy, I hate opening girls on Facebook since it's hard to show confidence and dominance through text. I think of interactions by calling, texting, Skyping, messaging on Facebook, etc.. are best used to just build up tension and plan meet-ups with girls.
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Post by Icy on Jun 24, 2012 13:37:22 GMT -5
If I want to talk to a girl who knows me and that I havn't talked to in a while, I'm usually gonna use text or facebook to plan a get together.
I often use cocky-funny lines because it goes with my personality. I joke around if she asks what I'm doing, I say "saving the world" or anything that makes you different than all those other guys.
My favorite way to open a girl on fb if shes met me before is "I am luring girls to my house with candy, which do you prefer Kit Kats or M&M’s ? "
From experience, I've found that girls like cute little nick names so once you get to know the girl, give her a cute nickname so when you call her that, she knows its you.
The whole point is to be different that all those guys who ask boring questions and are just..... boring, so be spontaneous and don't think tooo long about something to say
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