Post by Luc on Dec 8, 2008 19:52:24 GMT -5
Have you ever been called a pervert?
Sucks doesn't it? I know, it's hard not to be one.
Some people say that some guys are naturally just perverts and they can't help it (I know, I bet that you think YOU are the exception...). What I've realized is that we are all the same. Some just have different/ better filters than others.
And yes I am including women in this. Women want it JUST AS BAD AS WE DO. They just don't want to be called a slut, and of course, they have better filters than we do. The key to unlocking this though, is to filter yourself in the right way, in a way that will bring down her filter. If you can figure this out it will unlock so much for you. It will help your C&F game, your open loops, push pull, etc.
BEFORE YOU CONTINUE READING:
This DOES NOT work on all HB's. If you know that one is more experienced, and a little more open with her sexuality, then you can lower her filter, but if you try to early, or come off wrong, your chances are DONE.
Heres the problem, most guys will try this:
AFC: Damn Girl! Look at that ass! Mmmmm... i just wanna oil that shit up!
(If you are looking to get slapped, try that ^)
The truth is, most women just feel objectified by that (as I'm sure many of you know).
What I've done in the past is turned it into a game. To tell you the truth I stumbled on this by accident with a girl a couple of years ago, before I even started PUA.
OK so here is the test to see if you know it will work:
PUA:...that's what she said.... Wow my bad that was totally uncalled for.
Now the answer lies in the response....
If she laughs or responds with:
HB: hahahaha wow that's ok I do it all the time.
Then you are in the clear. Once I got a girl to chalenge me to a perverted contest. I was shocked, it was a PUA's dream. And of course I won.
Anyway back to the topic at hand....
If she says something like:
HB: aww its ok. Im used to it....
or
HB: yea thats gross...
THEN STOP. STOP RIGHT THERE. You cannot continue with that frame, you may not pass go and collect your $200. Start to reconsider your game plan and/or your target.
The thing is, if you do get the positive response you can continue with this perv frame.
SO! after you do the test the key is to keep making perverted comments. In the beginning keep saying that you can't control yourself and keep apologizing, but start to lay off of the apologies. Eventually you wanna get a little cocky with it. After you say one you should be saying things like "Damn! I'm on a roll!"
At this point it should start turning into a game, she should be saying some too. If she isn't you need to start to set her up for some.
Slowly edge into more sexual talk. You can still say it jokingly, but start to avoid things like yo mamma jokes. After a while you should be talking really dirty to her, and it's going to start to make her want you balls.
A Few cautionary measures:
1. Your target will start to interpret everything you say sexually. This could harm you, but it could also work to your advantage depending on how you play it...
2. This does NOT work on all girls. I said it before and I'll say it again. The more sexual the girl, the better it works. It works well on past targets that you have froze out especially well, but if you haven't built enough rapport, or the girl just isn't that sexual, don't do it. don't do it don't do it don't do it.
3. Caution: Sudden grabbing and face sucking is common.
Good Luck xD
P&L
--Luc
Sucks doesn't it? I know, it's hard not to be one.
Some people say that some guys are naturally just perverts and they can't help it (I know, I bet that you think YOU are the exception...). What I've realized is that we are all the same. Some just have different/ better filters than others.
And yes I am including women in this. Women want it JUST AS BAD AS WE DO. They just don't want to be called a slut, and of course, they have better filters than we do. The key to unlocking this though, is to filter yourself in the right way, in a way that will bring down her filter. If you can figure this out it will unlock so much for you. It will help your C&F game, your open loops, push pull, etc.
BEFORE YOU CONTINUE READING:
This DOES NOT work on all HB's. If you know that one is more experienced, and a little more open with her sexuality, then you can lower her filter, but if you try to early, or come off wrong, your chances are DONE.
Heres the problem, most guys will try this:
AFC: Damn Girl! Look at that ass! Mmmmm... i just wanna oil that shit up!
(If you are looking to get slapped, try that ^)
The truth is, most women just feel objectified by that (as I'm sure many of you know).
What I've done in the past is turned it into a game. To tell you the truth I stumbled on this by accident with a girl a couple of years ago, before I even started PUA.
OK so here is the test to see if you know it will work:
PUA:...that's what she said.... Wow my bad that was totally uncalled for.
Now the answer lies in the response....
If she laughs or responds with:
HB: hahahaha wow that's ok I do it all the time.
Then you are in the clear. Once I got a girl to chalenge me to a perverted contest. I was shocked, it was a PUA's dream. And of course I won.
Anyway back to the topic at hand....
If she says something like:
HB: aww its ok. Im used to it....
or
HB: yea thats gross...
THEN STOP. STOP RIGHT THERE. You cannot continue with that frame, you may not pass go and collect your $200. Start to reconsider your game plan and/or your target.
The thing is, if you do get the positive response you can continue with this perv frame.
SO! after you do the test the key is to keep making perverted comments. In the beginning keep saying that you can't control yourself and keep apologizing, but start to lay off of the apologies. Eventually you wanna get a little cocky with it. After you say one you should be saying things like "Damn! I'm on a roll!"
At this point it should start turning into a game, she should be saying some too. If she isn't you need to start to set her up for some.
Slowly edge into more sexual talk. You can still say it jokingly, but start to avoid things like yo mamma jokes. After a while you should be talking really dirty to her, and it's going to start to make her want you balls.
A Few cautionary measures:
1. Your target will start to interpret everything you say sexually. This could harm you, but it could also work to your advantage depending on how you play it...
2. This does NOT work on all girls. I said it before and I'll say it again. The more sexual the girl, the better it works. It works well on past targets that you have froze out especially well, but if you haven't built enough rapport, or the girl just isn't that sexual, don't do it. don't do it don't do it don't do it.
3. Caution: Sudden grabbing and face sucking is common.
Good Luck xD
P&L
--Luc
