PERSONAL COACHING

[RMO]

So Sloth, Eastcoast, Canadiankid, Danzy, Parkwhore, Norwegian DJ, and Myself ( for now, there will most likely be more) are going to be personally coaching 1-2 people each for over the summer. This is free since HSG is still in its infant stages, its unlikely that you will get the same opportunity again. Sloth already has chosen his team that hes coaching and I will be closing my roster in the next week or so. Sketch and Norwegian DJ have just volunteered as coachs.

PRODIGY:
Icarus
Pyro
Qaz

Canadian Kid:
MickeyD
Magnum
Straightcircle

Danzy:
¿Javelin?
Jumboz

SKETCH:
bballplaya

EASTCOAST
Pipe1x
¿Javelin?

PARKWHORE:
Marvel


SLOTH:
Crazyman
Nolimit

NDJ:
iamwonton
libertine

PM us if your interested and be sure to check up on this thread for updates.

[Sloth]

guys in the pm can you state reasons why you'd want coaching, otherwise it's hard for us to pick between you

list some goals you wanna achieve and why you need help.

I've had 7 guys apply so far and only 2 of them have done this, so guess who's in 'the lead'

[NorwegianDJ]

If there is such popularity around this, then I'll invite myself to join in as a 'coach' next to these fine gentlemen. Feel free to message me using the criteria above. A requirement I will have is skype and a microphone. We will skype regularly whenever you want when I have time.

My specialities are very broad. That's an oxymoron. Anyway, my specialities must be some social game, closing (although I never remember how), meeting new people and branching into other social groups, and the attraction stuff. Talking is not my strong point.

[slater]

My father told me to never put yourself in a position where you need to be taught shit that you can go out and do yourself, my best mate and wing told me, as long as you've seen it, you can do it, you don't even need to ask how its done.. Unless you guys are getting like mind blowing results I don't think you should be coaching anything to be honest, although your intentions are good just feels like the wrong direction to be taking but all the best ey prove me wrong

[RMO]

Jun 10, 2012 16:13:39 GMT -5 @slater said:

My father told me to never put yourself in a position where you need to be taught shit that you can go out and do yourself, my best mate and wing told me, as long as you've seen it, you can do it, you don't even need to ask how its done.. Unless you guys are getting like mind blowing results I don't think you should be coaching anything to be honest, although your intentions are good just feels like the wrong direction to be taking but all the best ey prove me wrong

I actually agree with alot of this but i get PMed with personal questions all the time and any advice there is just like mini coaching.

Also HSG is going to be developing a centralized philosophy for content to be connected to, and it would be nice to see how newbies assimilate our ideas, ensuing better shit from our end. I really wish that guys could just look at what works and learn it, but that doesnt work for everyone.

We will see in a few months if it was worth it.

[Sloth]

it's about motivation slater, the guys become accountable to us, and whilst online accountability isn't as convicting a genuinely having us there, it's still something.

We're not checking in with them every week or so to answer questions, it's about getting them organised, helping them prepare goals and stick to them. So actually coaching would be majorly beneficial to some guys who have unclear goals or just don't know where to start/ the best way to go about it. etc etc.

There's nothing wrong with doing it alone and we never insinuated that they need our coaching, but if the help is there, why not utilise it?

What your father said about not look for teaching about something you can go out and do yourself would be very relevant if these guys were going to use us to answer questions like 'how can i get over AA' or 'who should i approach' but they aren't. If there's a 10 mile walk, and someone offered you a lift some of the way there, you'd be a fucking fool not to take it.

[canadiankid]

I'll take on a guy or two. My strong points are closing, being physical, social game and living an attractive lifestyle that you enjoy. As such I will focus on being an alpha male, escalation, sex and attraction.

guys in the pm can you state reasons why you'd want coaching, otherwise it's hard for us to pick between you

list some goals you wanna achieve and why you need help.

[RMO]

Again my roster closes on Saturday. When that happens the coaches need to go on a Skype conference or a dick and balls web chat to figure out who has who and what the general plan for the summer is.

[slater]

Yeah but taking the lift would still mean I wouldn't know the way for the rest of those miles. How did you learn to drive a car besides the obvious technical things needed to get taught to you ? Teach how you were taught shit hasn't changed that much really, Like a dude like nolimit, if you havnt cold approached since 2011 nothing anyone says is gonna change anything, his first approaches are gonna be bad, instead of hyping him self with self help and motivation he should just go out today and might as well begin hitting it up, doesn't need assignments or some shit, teach him like how you would teach yourself. No a pm and coaching isn't the same thing, and if your not visibly seeing him approach its as good as him being alone. But I see what u guys mean, your targeting the new kinda naïve guys with a "do it for me attitude", which I don't think they have the loyalty that your looking for.

[RMO]

At this point, do you care? It's gonna happen, if you prefer it's more for our benefit as fledgling teachers and it's much easier to target sticking points one on one.

[slater]

Cool

[Sloth]

you don't get it.

[slater]

I get it, I just find it distasteful but I also don't care so its like bleh. If your a new guy just go out this whole pickup shit "I can save you/i can show you the direction/let me tell you how its done newbie just do these assignments, report back yada yada" is just awful, dude go out, talk to girls, and keep on doing it until you are where you want to be. Self improvement ties very closely with pickup cos you gotta accept so much shit, you gotta love yourself and you gotta give yourself a proper direction over and over and over again like I said like 2 years ago when I was literally in a shit head space and got no results - your problems begin when you stop thinking for yourself .. Like I couldn't care less if you guys are doing it to benefit yourselfs, that's awesome but come on when is this shit gonna change. The best thing that is happening that iv seen here is guys starting journals and writing their approaches, kudos. That's the direction, then we can all gladly help them along their journey and point out a thing or two but in the end they will learn a lot more than personal coaching, like wtf ? Dude your like 19 ? Fucked less than 20/10 chicks ? Put something better out there for people that actually want it

[canadiankid]

Jun 11, 2012 17:54:55 GMT -5 @slater said:

I also don't care

You obviously care or you wouldn't be posting on this and telling us you don't care

The thing that helped me the most (besides taking action) was talking to Sloth and Eastcoast one on one as well as one of my friends who is naturally good with girls. Personalized advice is a lot easier to give specific help than a random article or question. For example, Sloth was able to figure out a large weakness of mine that I had overlooked because we talked enough rather than just seeing the occasional post by me.

[Sloth]

Slater you don't understand

also please stop saying 'i don't care' and then proceeding to list reasons why you care.