mail3idplo
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Post by mail3idplo on Jul 31, 2012 12:04:54 GMT -5
Question, I'm new to the forums, and I'm 16. I started pickup with cold approach instead of social circle. I did this because when I first started, I was extremely fucked up socially. I had so many problems, that I felt that I would be best to get a lot of practice approaching random girls outside of school. I wouldn't even talk to girls in school, but outside of school, I would be hitting on that cute girl in the walmart, the mall, or wherever I was.
Anyways, now I've got this ability to cold approach, but next school year, I'm gonna be doing social circle shit. I was wondering, should I still cold approach outside of school? I know this is a high school pua forums, but I was just wondering if anyone on here does pickup outside of school.
If so, what kind of results do you guys get? I feel like I haven't really gotten any results except for my personal development stuff. I feel like cold approach is a useful skill and I shouldn't just stop doing it.
Also, having the ability to cold approach would be extremely useful for school right? I feel like it would free me from the clique bullshit. Doing like 6 months of cold approach has made me pretty much fearless, but would cold approaching be good for high school? I feel like I could get a creeper status. I feel like I can do it, but I need to take things slower than a cold approach outside of school. Like, approach the girl multiple times and talk to her a few times before getting her number.
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Parkwhore
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Post by Parkwhore on Jul 31, 2012 17:14:50 GMT -5
Cold approaching is just a dumbass name for what guys who get laid on the norm do without thinking as they are out and about. So yes, continue, but no need to go to walmart or some bullshit just to talk to girls.
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mail3idplo
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Post by mail3idplo on Jul 31, 2012 19:05:23 GMT -5
What do you think about doing it at school?
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RMO
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Post by RMO on Jul 31, 2012 19:13:20 GMT -5
a school approach is a warm approach
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Post by Sloth on Jul 31, 2012 19:18:42 GMT -5
dont do it at school. At the level you're at you will come off as creepy due to nerves.
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mail3idplo
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Post by mail3idplo on Jul 31, 2012 19:40:16 GMT -5
dont do it at school. At the level you're at you will come off as creepy due to nerves. I don't really have nerves any longer. I've been approaching for like 6 months. |
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Post by Parkwhore on Aug 1, 2012 9:08:33 GMT -5
School is for social circle game. Get good at that, get yourself to parties, you will get pussy.
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Post by mail3idplo on Aug 1, 2012 11:08:09 GMT -5
School is for social circle game. Get good at that, get yourself to parties, you will get pussy. What does social circle game even mean? How am I supposed to meet these people in a social circle? By approaching them right? Even if I go and talk to them in class, I still consider that an approach. Social circle game just means you take it a little bit slower right? Like get to know different girls and make your moves over time? I would imagine that social status would play a large role. Sorry guys, I haven't done too much research on social circle game. However, my main question was, say I'm outside at lunch with a few of my friends, and I see two cute girls sitting on one of the benches eating lunch. As long as I'm not all weird and super direct about it, it would be completely acceptable for me to go up and talk to them right? My main plan of action is to just talk to everybody when I get the chance. |
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Post by RMO on Aug 1, 2012 15:04:12 GMT -5
research social circle game? What crap, social circle game is just pick up bs for
MAKE FRIENDS
just go over and talk to them, introduce yourself find common ground, make fun of how awkward it is. If you try to game them its gonna end up wierd.
This is school, whenever you get confused just remeber,
YOU DONT GIVE A FUCK ABOUT WHAT PEOPLE THINK, YOURE HERE TO ENJOY YOURSELF AS MUCH AS POSSIBLE IN THE FACE OF HOW SHITTY SCHOOL IS
make friends, talk to people, risk creepy. Start working out and stop jerking off as well, thatll save your ass more then you know.
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Parkwhore
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Post by Parkwhore on Aug 1, 2012 17:31:39 GMT -5
What RMO said. Also, you're in high school. It doesn't matter anymore the second you get out. Do whatever you please, dont be afraid to make mistakes, you learn alot from them. The more you put yourself out there and challenge yourself the better.
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Post by mail3idplo on Aug 1, 2012 19:00:43 GMT -5
Thanks guys, I agree with what you said. I'm just gonna have fun and put myself out there. If I fuck up, ah well...
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