mushee
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Post by mushee on Aug 7, 2012 10:19:17 GMT -5
Recently I've been texting this girl that I've known for a while (going into my junior year of highschool). I've been kind of on/off with her because I assumed i was friendzoned so hard but idk its all very iffy because ive been friends with her so long
for example part of a conversation from last night....
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Girl: At the hospital
me: oh, is everything alright
girl: no my heart is broken
Me: I can fix that </3
Girl: HAHA shut up
Me: Naa
girl: what did you do tonight?
(then I passed out lol)
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Just really confused ;D. Also, at some dance one of her friends grabbed me and said that this girl has been looking for you and I responded why and she was like she wanted to make your night special (this girl was wasted though so she might've just been spewing bullshit)
anyway, just shoot out advice for me please haha I'm not great at this yet. Also if anyone could link the ioi's thread that would be awesome
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Post by Sloth on Aug 7, 2012 13:41:42 GMT -5
drunk minds speak true words
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Parkwhore
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Post by Parkwhore on Aug 8, 2012 0:50:08 GMT -5
^That and you simply gotta make your intentions clear man. That forces her to make a decision, either a) shes interested and you make a move or b) she backs off because shes not interested.
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Javelin
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Post by Javelin on Aug 8, 2012 2:16:13 GMT -5
I say just fucking go for it man.
I crushed hard on this girl in grade school, like HARD...and we hooked up like 5 times, all because I made a move, in the back of my car at night. So get her to a private place and just fucking go for it!
CARPE DIEM!
and tell us how it goes!
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iamwonton
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Post by iamwonton on Aug 11, 2012 2:39:56 GMT -5
^That and you simply gotta make your intentions clear man. That phrase has been tossed around sooooo much. I still don't get how you make your intentions obvious....The only way i think of (and have field tested with bad results), is to just kinda get seriousish/sexual in the convo, then suddenly say "lets fuck" |
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Post by Sloth on Aug 11, 2012 16:41:40 GMT -5
in highschool sometimes it's just as simple as telling them you're into them without letting it become awkward.
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Post by RMO on Aug 11, 2012 17:49:00 GMT -5
^That and you simply gotta make your intentions clear man. That phrase has been tossed around sooooo much. I still don't get how you make your intentions obvious....The only way i think of (and have field tested with bad results), is to just kinda get seriousish/sexual in the convo, then suddenly say "lets fuck" hard to do if you dont believe it 100% it just means let her know you like her before you escalate, because it forces you to nut up or shut up |
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Post by Victorious on Aug 11, 2012 21:52:16 GMT -5
Yeah, it's all been said..keep in mind things may not work out your way, but with that grain of salt hope for the best. Don't start overthinking or overtanalyzing shit that before would be no-brainers to you, but yeah..make a fucking move.
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JUMB0z
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Post by JUMB0z on Aug 14, 2012 9:04:16 GMT -5
making your intentions clear can be as simple as asking her out
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mushee
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Post by mushee on Aug 18, 2012 16:14:56 GMT -5
tonight's the night boys. she's planned some giant banger at one of her friends house and is calling me multiple times to come. she said she "wants to get bgw (haha)" Lets do this
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SamethP
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Post by SamethP on Aug 18, 2012 16:16:52 GMT -5
^That and you simply gotta make your intentions clear man. That phrase has been tossed around sooooo much. I still don't get how you make your intentions obvious....The only way i think of (and have field tested with bad results), is to just kinda get seriousish/sexual in the convo, then suddenly say "lets fuck" You don't need to get serious out of the blue, especially if it's not part of your frame. Changing up like that and then saying or doing something that she doesn't expect will scare the living shit out of her lol. Even with the jokes like you had about fixing her broken heart... Crack jokes like that but make it sexual, she will take it as a joke (as she did with the heart thing) but there is truth in every joke like that. So by making those jokes you're subconciously making her think about how awesome it would if it actually happened, which in turn builds sexual tension. And when that's at its breaking point... Boom, it's on. In conclusion... Mind fucked |
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