people dislike me?

[firefox123]

In school, I have a few good friends and the other ' friends' in my group. Out of school I fact a few more friends in other random schools, and we all know each other.
I used to be vain and extremely dedicated to lifting. People on FACEBOOK seem to dislike me by liking people's comments against me. However, I never really gave a phuck and just continued trolling. After realizing Facebook was just a method to seek approval from others, I no longer go on as often as I did, especially to like whore.
How do I become more likeable to them without doing it on Facebook?
Thanks

[Icy]

To be more likeable to them you have to like them. Have you ever heard the saying that if you want people to like you, you have to like people.

Well in this case you have some bad apples who don't like you for whatever reason, but whatever that reason is, you have the power to change their mind. Try to individually be nicer to everyone and don't be a troll.

Every single tease/mean joke/troll has some sort of truth to them, so if you stoop down to their level then you're giving them a reason to annoy you.

Whenever you see these people or any acquaintance, try to find the line when you're joking with them and make sure that when they leave your company that they have positive emotions about you.

I used to be in a similar situation but now I don't cause shit, I don't annoy ppl for no reason and I've learnt to look at how my actions are affecting other ppl. And finally just please remember the golden rule of, it's not what you say but how you say it.

[america]

Well first of all, stop giving a fuck. That cures pretty much any problem. Moving on, the only reason people in highschool really dislike somebody is because they are annoying or different (in a bad way). One of the quickest ways people become targets of hate and bullying and whatnot in our school is by saying stupid shit that is irrelevant or that nobody cares about frequently. Then again, if your reality is strong, it really shouldn't matter what you say; people will be interested. I can tell your reality is very shaky right now, though, as you are analyzing things through silly methods such as Facebook. Why do you care if people don't like you? If you're having a hell of a time with life and not giving a shit, then fuck the haters.

P.S. It is a known fact that the less you care if people like you, the more they begin to like you. I've found this true in my own life.

[Icy]

I partialy agree with America but its not always easy to quit caring about if ppl like you cold turkey. Take it in stride and try to improve your state and how you think of yourself. You shouldn't care about things that aren't in your control but how you treat people is. It is always good to turn enemies into acquaintances.

If you have a strong state, no matter what you think, people will be attracted towards you. Except to rise above the social stupidity of trolling try to give value. I once read an thread on this website where it was said that the people at the top the social scale are those People who are valueable and give value. So don't put ppl down and just be fucking awesome

[firefox123]

How do I practice creating a stronger reality?

[fullbang]

Simple, do things you like to do, and dont care what others think, its your life so dont let fear or other people stop you.
Read this if you are interested: alexattitude.com/archives/167

[america]

Aug 8, 2012 23:25:55 GMT -5 Icy said:

I partialy agree with America but its not always easy to quit caring about if ppl like you cold turkey. Take it in stride and try to improve your state and how you think of yourself. You shouldn't care about things that aren't in your control but how you treat people is. It is always good to turn enemies into acquaintances.

If you have a strong state, no matter what you think, people will be attracted towards you. Except to rise above the social stupidity of trolling try to give value. I once read an thread on this website where it was said that the people at the top the social scale are those People who are valueable and give value. So don't put ppl down and just be fucking awesome

Honestly, it's not that hard to stop giving a fuck. It'll take a little bit of work, but something that always helps me is my frame. Just the way I look at the world in general. Just reframe the way you think about the world, and you're golden ponyboy. Remember, it IS highschool. You'll never see any of these people again in 4 years (for the most part), so if some people don't like you, then fuck 'em. And honestly, I've always found it fairly easy to turn enemies in to friends. You just need to get rid of those people in your life temporarily while you build yourself up with other social circles. The people that hate you will notice that you've changed, plus generally, people don't remember that they hate people or even why they hate them for too awfully long in highschool. Read RMO's new article on highschool-game.net. I think it'll help you a lot.

As for the stronger frame, really, it's just positive reinforcement on your part. Do what you want to do, for you. Do not give a fuck if people don't like what you're doing, and they will respect you for it. People are weird. Also, deluding yourself in to thinking you're great (to a certain point) is a good way of going about building a stronger frame. I gained so much confidence from just telling myself daily that I'm awesome, and honestly, no matter who you are, you sell yourself short. You need to take a step back, look at your strengths and weaknesses, give yourself a pat on the back for all the things you're good at, and make a conscious effort to work on your weaknesses. Just think that you may not be good at a certain thing now, but you're working on it, and you're gonna be even more awesome once you conquer it. Here's a good article to read: www.bradbranson.com/extreme-self-love-the-new-magic-pill-to-take-the-stress-out-of-your-life/

I honestly think this thread changed my entire perspective on life in one article.

The basis of the entire PUA community, at least for me, isn't so much about getting girls (although that is a huge part and the ultimate goal), but about self-improvement and becoming happier with your life. These 2 things go hand-in-hand. Start working on improving yourself - whether it be your body if you're not as much of a sexy beast as you'd like to be, or your skills with girls, or maybe your ability to perform sexually. Learn to play an instrument and get ridiculously good at it. Do something to improve yourself, and you WILL become happier. It feels so good to have goals to work toward to and a purpose for actually waking up each day.