franchisekid
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Post by franchisekid on Aug 12, 2012 12:11:46 GMT -5
" Now to be fair these ideas in of themselves arent bad, someone with enough balls could get away with being a smart ass clown, but unless it is congruent with who you are it will fail so goddamn hard " Exactly what RMO said .
I honestly think people that attempt to use this gimmicks like " sir ,yes sir " are just looking for some undeserved attention . I also think most people that do are huge tools . you better off being more subtle and letting people notice that you are a cool guy over time . You may impress 2 people but get 20 people's disprove ...
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Post by Sloth on Aug 12, 2012 15:33:41 GMT -5
In my school if someone got up in my class and said sir yes sir he would be labelled as a fucking loser for the rest of his highschool career. Thats so lame i cringe every time i read it. And i wasn't even one of the bullies/judgers, so imagine what they would of done.
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kakkdown
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Post by kakkdown on Aug 12, 2012 22:56:26 GMT -5
Yup you guys are right. Fuck thinking in general..I'm just gunna go with the flow and not give a fuck and just have a jolly old fucking time
But yeah the power of now is pretty powerful. I laughed at myself after reading this book. I accept
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Renowned
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Post by Renowned on Aug 12, 2012 23:44:55 GMT -5
Remember though. Some people that "Don't give a fuck" don't actually not give a fuck. They go around TELLING people they Don't give a fuck. Like when someone says they will pick up a girl and dont give a fuck what happens. When he gets rejected he tells his buddies, shes a bitch i dont need her and gets a little angry. Oh right, he didnt care huh?
So when you say that, dont just say it and act like you dont give a fuck to be cool. The cool kids don't go around telling people how cool they are, its a part of them, its internal. Just relax man, its high school
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mail
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Post by mail on Aug 28, 2012 14:52:10 GMT -5
Yeah man, just be yourself, and talk to people. I've just started school yesterday, after seven months of cold approach, and I'm starting to realize how incredibly easy it is. It may just feel easy in comparison to cold approach, but I honestly think that it isn't hard. Like, you don't even have to try hard. I started conversations just by making obvious observations out loud. I said something about the teacher to the girl on my left, and it started a full blown conversation. Then when I saw her at lunch, she kept looking over at me. All I had to do was talk to her, and she was interested. This kind of makes me regret my past two years of high school, where I was a complete chode.
Like, you don't have to try so hard to impress people. Just talk to those around you, and don't worry about "conveying value." Start small, no need to put on some show your first day. You see that girl sitting next to you, say something situational to her, and take it from there.
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scooby
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Post by scooby on Sept 3, 2012 18:38:37 GMT -5
People have said it before: Don't seek reactions. We all know that one kid that makes jokes or whatever and then looks around waiting for people's reactions. Do whatever you do for YOURSELF.
TO everyone who replied to this: Ya'll are some harsh ass people, give the dude a break. We were all in his place at one point.
I would definitely get thinking about ideas of how to act in class if you have no idea. Thinking ahead isn't a bad thing. Just be congruent to yourself, and never change for others
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greeneday1
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Post by greeneday1 on Jun 1, 2013 11:21:52 GMT -5
Do you guys think this would be funny? When the teacher asks what my name is say Gay perry
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Post by Icy on Jun 3, 2013 2:01:06 GMT -5
That's a pretty bad idea.
Try not to get into the habit of planning funny lines that you'll say in the future just to get attention and approval from others.
You should want to stride towards saying what you think is funny and if somebody doesn't like it, fuck them. Be non-apologetically with your personality, as long as you aren't offending too many ppl, and express yourself. If want to be funnier, watch funny movies or tv shows or joke around more with your friends to get into the habit of comedy. You should want your comedy to just come to you, and not a line you plan on saying in the future.
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greeneday1
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Post by greeneday1 on Jun 9, 2013 20:10:20 GMT -5
Ok just do what comes natural dont force anything
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Post by Sketch on Jun 9, 2013 20:38:59 GMT -5
Do it with confidence too. A lot of the time a joke is funny by the way it's delivered. If you tell a joke nervously, people will know and wouldn't find it as funny as if you'd told it confidently.
- Sketch
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