firefox123
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Post by firefox123 on Aug 13, 2012 6:51:23 GMT -5
I know a big part of being liked is giving value, so I would like to know exactly how this is done. Is it achieved from laughing at others jokes? Or is it achieved from telling your own, and making others laugh. Thanks guys
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RMO
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Post by RMO on Aug 13, 2012 7:11:59 GMT -5
jokes? are you for real?
giving value means have fun, and spreading fun and other social cues which are deemed valuable, such as humor (yes jokes), respect, touch, stories, ect ect.
Being liked, which shouldnt be a goal, is to be LIKABLE!
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firefox123
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Post by firefox123 on Aug 13, 2012 7:15:56 GMT -5
Wasn't sure if telling jokes etc, making YOU the centre of attention was taking value from others or giving value
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Post by Snow.za on Aug 13, 2012 8:46:36 GMT -5
FUNFUNFUNFUN spread the fun, make people want to be around you. And basically RMO summed up the rest.
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Post by slater on Aug 13, 2012 10:26:42 GMT -5
Value could be anything, from money, looks, certain characteristics, time, people value positive people, people value good listeners, guys value other guys with balls and goals, girls value party times and dick blah blah ect., there's a lot of value in a lot of things and people value different things.. Generally put value into your own time and don't take value from others and you'll be good.. Like by asking how to get people to like you with an abstract thing such as value, your already taking value from the place your coming from. You kinda don't do things to make people like you, you do you and like other people and maybe others will like you and the value you bring and others won't like you and the value you bring.
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Post by Sloth on Aug 13, 2012 21:04:33 GMT -5
you cant force value. ironically that lowers your value
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Post by NorwegianDJ on Aug 13, 2012 23:31:25 GMT -5
Fuck value.
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