Ministry
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Post by Ministry on Aug 30, 2012 7:02:03 GMT -5
Tomorrow I'm having a small gath (gathering) with some mates. One great guy and two girls. It's not the first time we've done it, jsut the first time it's been at my house. We like to think we're in some sort of gang.
Anyway, there's also two friends of mine (not coming to my house. one's also a target, she's gorgeous) who's going to be at shop area where we're going to get food and stuff.
One of them might say "Why aren't I invited?".
I'm thinking about excuses to tell them.
"I guess you're not cool enough." (With a smile)
"We're just too good of friends, and I don't want anything awkward to happen." (Friendzoning her, to make her wonder how I see her)
Any other ideas?
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infamous93
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Post by infamous93 on Aug 30, 2012 9:53:11 GMT -5
What the fuck did I just read?
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RMO
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Post by RMO on Aug 30, 2012 10:35:31 GMT -5
You have some narcissism there son, nobody gives a fuck if you hang out with your friends. Not unless you're sacrificing a virgin during your gath
Also friend zoning a girl doesn't count unless she was attracted to you or you made her her attracted with stories of your gath. And even then it back fires since she will just hate fuck some other guy.
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Post by Sloth on Aug 30, 2012 10:56:32 GMT -5
when you start planning conversations before you've even had them, you know you're over thinking something.
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Post by NorwegianDJ on Aug 30, 2012 15:25:11 GMT -5
Sometimes this shit just tricks us into thinking that value is more important than your intent. Don't let it fool you.
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Ministry
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Post by Ministry on Aug 30, 2012 17:35:42 GMT -5
You guys are right, I am over thinking. I just really don't want to mess it up with this chick. I have a case of oneitis ahah. I guess I'll just focus on having a good time and not worry about anything else. Thanks for your input  |
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Post by Sketch on Aug 30, 2012 21:34:55 GMT -5
If you've got oneitis, you've got to forget about this girl or it'll seriously slow down your development
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Ministry
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Post by Ministry on Aug 30, 2012 21:54:24 GMT -5
I know man, but it's hard to. I try to reduce the amount of time I spend with her but she keeps coming towards me when I'm walking. I think she's leading me on as well ahah.
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Post by Sketch on Aug 31, 2012 6:56:20 GMT -5
Best way to rid yourself of oneitis is to get with other people. And lots of them.
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DanZy
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Post by DanZy on Aug 31, 2012 7:44:14 GMT -5
Best way to rid yourself of oneitis is to get with other people. And lots of them. Especially sex, sex works brilliantly. |
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