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Post by mail on Sept 7, 2012 5:34:46 GMT -5
At my school, football games are a pretty big deal. A crap ton of people go to them, including cute girls. Now, I really wanted to try and use these games, as a way to meet new people and expand my social circle.
I'm not afraid of approaching people. I've done it probably well over a hundred times, but it was always at a Mall. Going around approaching at a football game seems like it could be risky. Also, I'm not talking about direct/game type approaches. I'm really just trying to expand my social circle and meet new girls. I'm having a hard time trying to do it during school, because of all of the obstacles. So, I'm thinking more indirect/neutral.
Anyways, do you think it's worth it? Should I try to meet new people at footballs games, or would it be social suicide? If I did do it, how should I go about it?
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Post by RMO on Sept 7, 2012 11:05:44 GMT -5
So I haven't gotten around to reading your journal so I can't get you tailored advice but here's some Knoweledge:
Direct game does not mean don't build a social circle. Go to your football game, sit down next to some people you want to hang out with, "hey I'm mail, how you guys doing" and then proceed to make friends and flirt with bitches. Don't be a pussy about it, and if a girl gives you a shit test implying you want to have sex with her, just be honest.
Football games are just one place to build social circles but you need to make sure you are making friends with all kinds of people in all kinds of places.
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Post by Victorious on Sept 7, 2012 20:06:01 GMT -5
Football games can be intimidating at first because the cliques are definitely shown. Keep in mind what RMO said and have fun man, that's what they're for. At my school my team sucks but everyone goes just to socialize and meet people, so keep that fun vibe in mind and go crazy. High energy is key at them as well, you can be high energy and indirect. & don't have an agenda in mind like "oh I gotta meet these people and build a social circle to get invited to all the parties", just go meet people and flirt with girls for the hell of it. Good things are sure to happen.
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Post by mail on Sept 8, 2012 9:12:48 GMT -5
Alright, I just didn't want to do it, if it would fuck me over and get me labeled as some creep. The only thing that intimidates me, are mixed groups. If it's like a group of six girls, then I'm fine, but if there are guys in there, then I chode out.
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Post by Sketch on Sept 8, 2012 9:45:58 GMT -5
When you approach a mixed set, I usually focus on the guys a bit more at first because you're walking into their group, you don't want to just look like you're coming to steal their girls, you want to be that cool guy they met at the football game. Don't just completely ignore the girls though. And like the others said, HAVE FUN. People like to be around fun people.
-Sketch
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Post by slater on Sept 8, 2012 11:42:05 GMT -5
Mixed set = speak to your girl, just greet the guys, then ignore them
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Post by Sketch on Sept 8, 2012 14:18:35 GMT -5
Mixed set = speak to your girl, just greet the guys, then ignore them if you ignore the guys, they'll usually throw a bunch of shit your way which isn't worth the hassle and isn't going to expand your social circle. This stuff on here shouldn't just be about 'getting the girl', it should be about improving your whole social situation. If it is just about getting the girl for you, then you may as well go follow mystery |
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Post by Javelin on Sept 9, 2012 22:43:28 GMT -5
Have fun, tease the girls, get the guys involved on your verbal pranks to the girls, and just be cool about it. If you end up having a gaffe, just laugh it off and move on.
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Post by NorwegianDJ on Sept 10, 2012 1:02:54 GMT -5
Mixed set = speak to your girl, just greet the guys, then ignore them There's a difference between club game and social game. Although that might be more effective when going out, he's gonna be seeing these people again. |
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Post by ihop on Sept 24, 2012 17:12:15 GMT -5
yeah dude football games are a big deal at my school too and cute girls go to them as well.
what i do is go with a buddy or two and meet up with friends that are there and shoot the shit, yell out random things during the game, and basically anything that i think is fun. It gets me in a fun carefree vibe which is what you need to have when you want to approach girls or a social circle. the main key is to have fun and project that fun onto others. as for approaching girls, its just the same as anywhere mall,school, etc. direct game works perfect.
But remember, if your not having fun, your not doing it right.
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