Need some help across the board.

[mikedaman]

So, I'm at this boarding school, it's pretty badass, much better than I expected.
Hot girls everywhere, from near and far. One really hot blonde from norway who has sent me IOI's like nothing.

Here's my problem though. When I know a bro or some girl and I'm comfortable with them, I can talk about anything, unrestricted--to some extent, and it's just chill and has good flow to it. Like my best friend I've lifted with for a year now, we never run out of things to say.

I don't have AA. I can approach just fine but my struggle is NOT the opener, but keeping the conversation fun and going like an energizer bunny. Not getting boring like for example, today a girl came up to me and started talking to me..was totally interested, because she was asking the majority of the questions and really wanted to get to know me. But if she asked me questions like "where are you from, where/what this, how many siblings, this/that..I'd respond with the answer to her question, followed by the generic "How about you?". I know it's okay every once in a while, to at least get to know her a bit..but I wanted to get on a more fun/outgoing topic...besides the "get to know you stuff".

I don't know..I've been in the game a while but ever since I started toking more..my quick wit is just gone. I used to be so fast and alert with almost everything..I could open groups/get a girl isolated/extract, everything but I totally "left the game" for a good 3-6 months that consisted of smoking, chillin with bros, lifting way ore frequently than before, and just being an AFC who's Friday and Saturday nights were spent at a Bro's house toking.

I don't want to come off as a douche or anything, but I'm a lifter and I have a really nice body, and I've been told by many women that I'm "hot".
So looks aren't the issue here.
Girls come up to me nowadays, I don't really even have to open. But I can never get the conversation topic to change from Get to know yous to a more..fun/sexual/playful topic of some sort.
Unless I have a few drinks..then idk..I feel invincible and I have no worries of any kind, I open, converse, close and/or isolate/extract like nothing.
But I don't have that "flow" sober like I used to.

I've cut out the bud..at least for now, since this boarding school can def get me into Harvard if I make the grades and being in shape is real serious for me..and let's face it, munchies suck man.
Any tips?

Just a btw, there is an HB8 who told me about this school, she's very popular and "in" with almost all of the girls. Also in with the one I'm after. She and I have been friends for 2 years, she went to school in Texas with me before she told me about this boarding school. The texas one was a boarding school so we had alot of time together. Idk though, I haven't really talked to her much since I got here.

She's kinda interested in trying some "high up there drugs" (Not sure if I can post them specifically so I'll just be safe with what I just said). I'm not really down for either of the 2 she stated--although I'll keep my options open..but she's changed quite a bit since last I saw her. I just don't know how to go about things right now with her. But for all I know she could be my key to the rest of the girls..or at least some of the people. Because I don't know a whole lot of people at the moment. Just moved in 2 days ago. She's been here since last year.

[Parkwhore]

Have a genuine interest in the person and the conversation, not just her pussy. Live an interesting life, dont sit around and smoke and do nothing. A conversation shouldnt be a 2-way interview, it should be mostly statements. A blend of opinions, questions, thoughts, stories, witty comments, etc.

[NorwegianDJ]

Confidence issues I'd think, as everything is fine when you drink. Don't restrict yourself with how you think things have to be. Leading the conversation onto a theme of fun and sexuality can be daunting. Focus on the flow and vibe of the conversation, not the actual logical structure. If you find it quite hard, then just apply this on facebook or to strangers on omegle.

Oh and who's this norwegian chick? I probably know her.

[mikedaman]

Yea its most definitely confidence..I've always had issues with that.
I'm playing football to get to know some of the dudes and the coaches are probz gonna put me in as full back since they need one so that'll be good.
DJ- I'll find out for you today or when I see her, it's first day of classes, maybe I'll have her in my class.( hope so lol, i forgot her name though..i suck with names) and yea I'll def try and focus on the flow and vibe
Park- yea i usually just focus on pussy instead of the person so imma try and change that for sure.
Thanks for the advice guys

[mikedaman]

Sept 10, 2012 4:48:11 GMT -5 NorwegianDJ said:

Confidence issues I'd think, as everything is fine when you drink. Don't restrict yourself with how you think things have to be. Leading the conversation onto a theme of fun and sexuality can be daunting. Focus on the flow and vibe of the conversation, not the actual logical structure. If you find it quite hard, then just apply this on facebook or to strangers on omegle.

Oh and who's this norwegian chick? I probably know her.

Her name is Ingun (idk if im spelling it right) last name was like "wtf i have no idea what you said"
But anyways, we talked today during break for like 30 minutes and the conversation never stopped, i was listening to what she was saying and using certain parts of it to continue the conversation and it went well! She reciprocated and asked alot about me.

Next time going to try some kino.
Should be fun

[NorwegianDJ]

Ahh, couldn't find her, so I sadly dont know her.