shyguy
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Post by shyguy on Sept 16, 2012 20:20:49 GMT -5
Yo guys! So I'm a junior in HS and I've known about the PUA community for about 5 months. I've been on and off when it comes to studying the "art" of it. But I've gained little progress. Probably because I don't really want to pick up girls in the street until I'm older. Now I know that sounds weird because I'm posting in a PUA forum but I'm in highschool, would rather get chicks i sort of know than off the street, or whatever. Anyway, I'm in the "in" group or whatever, I've got quite a bit of friends who get quite a bit of chicks. I've never really been able to get girls, mostly because I'm shy and I'm only pretty fun around people I've known for a while. Again, I am in the in group so I've got quite a bit of female "acquaintances". I'm usually the guy girls could see marrying in the future but not f**king right now (I know this from f**k marry kill). Anyway I've been sort of improving over the past couple months, but still haven't gotten a girl to want me or whatever. I'm just looking for some guidance, on how i can get these female acquaintances of mine to turn into chicks that are all over me lol. Anyway that's all I can think of right now. If you've got any suggestions or guidance for me with texting, conversation skills, flirting, misc. tips, etc. or if you want more details please comment or message me. Thanks and greatly appreciated.
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auroturtle
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Post by auroturtle on Sept 16, 2012 20:45:12 GMT -5
I don't think cold approaching on the street is a way to actually get girls, it's more of a way to practice and become more confident
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beastykid1996
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Post by beastykid1996 on Sept 16, 2012 22:56:31 GMT -5
I'm in kinda the same boat lol.Let me know if you get answers
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Post by Sketch on Sept 17, 2012 18:11:04 GMT -5
I don't think cold approaching on the street is a way to actually get girls, it's more of a way to practice and become more confident First off, i just wanted to say that that's stupid. Getting girls off of the streets is one of the simplest and most self rewarding skills to have. Not only does it mean that you have a decent chance of getting practically any girl you see on the street, but it makes having multiple women on the go VERY easy as their social circles are unlikely to cross (i'm not saying cheat, just dont get into a relationship with any of them, just see them) . Anyway, back to the OP's question. If you ask me (which you have) i'd say you need to deal with your confidence issues. You said that around people you've known a while you're pretty fun. So you've got to learn to bring that fun out when you're around people you don't know so well. Think of it like this. The fun you comes out around your best friends. They're probably your best friends because you're a fun guy and like you like that. So if you act like that around other people you don't know so well then they should like you too. If they don't, who gives a shit. You can't win over everyone. As for your "acquaintances", you need to be more flirty, sexual, and all things awesome. Being more confident will help a lot with all of that. Anything else, ask. Good luck -Sketch |
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shyguy
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Post by shyguy on Sept 17, 2012 20:23:38 GMT -5
Thanks Sketch. Today I was hanging out with my buddy and noticing all the texts he was getting from hot girls. He's a lot more "attractive" i guess (no homo) lol than me and he always gets texts first from random girls. How do i compete with guys that are more "attractive" than me (I'm pretty average)?
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Post by Sketch on Sept 17, 2012 21:17:32 GMT -5
If you had to spend the rest of your life with 1 woman:
Would you rather a hot girl that had a personality as good as sand in your ass or you would you rather an ugly girl who's personality was like everything awesome that ever existed in one?
Most guys still have a tough choice making their mind up. But girls, they don't care so much about looks than guys. It's simple biology, they just don't. So be the best you and the girls will throw themselves at you rather than those abercrombie models
-Sketch
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auroturtle
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Post by auroturtle on Sept 19, 2012 12:59:51 GMT -5
I don't think cold approaching on the street is a way to actually get girls, it's more of a way to practice and become more confident First off, i just wanted to say that that's stupid. Getting girls off of the streets is one of the simplest and most self rewarding skills to have. Not only does it mean that you have a decent chance of getting practically any girl you see on the street, but it makes having multiple women on the go VERY easy as their social circles are unlikely to cross (i'm not saying cheat, just dont get into a relationship with any of them, just see them) . -Sketch you're absolutely right, i was just imagining someone going to the mall one day and approaching like 100 girls. I think that's sarging though, mah bad. |
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america
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Post by america on Sept 19, 2012 16:41:21 GMT -5
Confidence is always the key. Moving on from that, it seems to me that you seem to be fitting quite nicely in to the nice guy stereotype. You don't want to be a dick, but you can't let people (women especially) walk all over you. Check out Double your Dating by David DeAngelo. Great book, and it really helps illustrate that point. It's time to be a man, friend.
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